Please hear me out before you fling insults at me left and right. This is not meant to antagonize or be hurtful in any way--- This is coming from an observational point of view only and I do not judge anyone!
After reading countless Threads, there is an over all general hostility toward your male customers.(Not Just the Nasty Guys)
I have read---They dont tip enough, they are rude, they are losers, or Stupid.
They may touch too much or try to lick you (yes gross) they get hard and it grosses you out, or they want “extras”. They say sexual things to you etc…
My question is simple, In a business that is solely customer relation based, why are there so many negative remarks and posts about the very people you need to help put food on your table?
A strip club is a place where a man can go to do and say things he cannot or usually doesn’t have the nerve to do in public. Most hot women aren’t coming up to these guys at a regular bar and putting their perfect breasts in his face or simulation sex for him. So a guy’s mindset at a strip club is completely different than anywhere else on the planet! Of course he wants to touch you or pull you close to him, or even get off!
Not saying that he has the right to, nor am I advocating extras at all -just that YES OF Course he wants you, he is paying for you to get naked for him!
I was thinking that perhaps the dancers spend so much time at the club, the atmosphere becomes so normal to them so they expect a customers behavior to equal that in a regular club where normal boundries exist? However, for a guy it is so far out of norm from his every day life, it is harder for him to act the way you would want him to because he is in some fantasy land??
Again I don’t approve of men who grope and try to touch you inappropriately, however, you shouldn’t be surprised that a guy would want to do that.
It’s part of your job, it’s your occupational hazard dealing with those type of asshole idiots!
Anyway, back to my point. Let's say that Rockstars and Bands had a website where they could communicate to each other. They constantly wrote threads where they voiced their frustrations with their fans and felt they were rude, or stupid or didnt spend enough money, or they smelled or they were fucking losers. Do you think they would sell more albums and create a comfortable working relationship with their fanbase? I doubt it!
Your run a business and dealing with asshole customers is part of the job, comes with the territory. I agree that some men shouldn’t even be allowed in the clubs, but if you don’t like the "occupational hazards" of being a stripper, you shouldn't be a stripper! As far as I know, it is a choice one makes and you can always move on....
Your success in this business is based entirely on your customer’s happiness and to have any built up animosity will translate directly into one thing---Less money for you.
I find it to be such a contradiction after reading many threads that a dancer can be so negative to the very people they need to survive!
Thanks for allowing me to rant- I know that most of you are strong willed, smart opinionated women----Please don’t throw daggers, just offering a different point of view!
Thanks-




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