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    I have wanted to be either a stripper or pose for playboy for a long time. I always said that once I turned 18, i'd do one of the two. So now that im 18, im REALLY thinking about dancing. So, how do i go about doing it. I was thinking I'd take my bf to a strip club for his birthday, so i can see what kind of place it is (I have one in mind) and then while i was there, ask if they were looking for girls and maybe talk to some of the girls working there. Is this the wrong way to go about this?

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    I just walked in, asked who I could talk to about a job, and VOILA had a job.


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    Default Re: Very interested in dancing

    You didn't have to audition?

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    Default Re: Very interested in dancing

    nope. I suppose it depends on the place. Some places will just hire you if they like your look, some want you to audition. You can also do amateur night. But when I went to a couple strip clubs with my bf I got a lot of "do you want a job" when we'd 1st go in so I suppose thats not a bad approach. Just make sure your bf's not the type thats going to see the enviornment and decide he doesnt like the idea of you being there....goint to strip clubs def. made it harder for me to convince my bf to be ok with me dancing.


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    He knows i really want to do it but i kept saying "If only i didn't have stretch marks.." but i read on here that alot of girls that dance havethem and they're no big deal. He says he wouldn't mind, but i dont know if he just says that cuz he doesn't think i'll do it. If i were to audition, what would I do?

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    I've never auditioned as this is my 1st club and I just got the job. They'll prob just have you get on stage and dance but if you use the search function on here you can prob. find alot of threads on what to expect out of an audition. And dont worry about stretch marks....blacklights hide lots of things


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    Default Re: Very interested in dancing

    Even though im 18, i look really young to some people. Some people say i look like im only about 13 or so, do you think this will be a bad thing?

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    Default Re: Very interested in dancing

    1st heres a thread with some audition info. for you.
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...light=audition

    I'm 19...I could pass for 15...alot of guys eat that up. Wear a little school girl outfit...work that shit. Also if you wanna look older makeup, clothes and the 7 inch heels help...but I've never had a problem looking young....your fresh, innocent, virginal looking...and thats naughty hehe.


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    Talking to you has gotten me really excited about my bf birthday, lol!!!

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    haha I was the same way I read Jenna Jamesons book and Bare and Strip City and have been dying to strip since I was 17 and my bf finally caved and is letting me dance. I worked at a peepshow for a little while and now I start at a club on monday. let me know how everything goes for you.


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    I will! I'm going to mention the whole stripping thing to him on a serious note and see what he says

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    good luck!


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    Where are you located? Auditions vary from club to club, state to state, city to city, country to country.

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    Default Re: Very interested in dancing

    i didnt have to audition for my club either, i just walked in and they offered me a job

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    I've worked at 5 different clubs, and I've had to audition at 3 of them. I really depends. Either way, I think it a good idea to check out the club as a customer first to check it out. Just be respectful, tip appropriately, and don't try to monopolize the stripper's time!

    Also looking young can be an advantage as well as a disadvantage. I'm almost 21 and I still occasionely lose dances from guys who think I look "young enough to be their daughter."

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    18 year olds shouldn't really be dancing. i understand that it's legal and all, but you're all like 'omg i wanted to be a strippar since age 17 and MY BF IS LETTING ME DANCE'.

    bfs aren't the ones to decide whether you should or shouldn't be stripping. and just the little bit you've posted kind of illustrates the types of concerns that lead me to strongly feel that stripping should be a 21+ sort of deal.

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    ^^Say it again Mia!

    For me, instead of focusing so much on dancing, what else are your plans? Hopefully college is in there somewhere...Trust me, you can't "live" off of dancing these days. You need a plan B, C, and D..







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    ^^^I agree with Mia...and don't even get me started on the younger girls that just dive head first into the lifestyle without even experiencing much else in their lives before they started dancing.



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    i dont think that is terribly fair, she says she has wanted to do it for a long time, doesnt this suggest to you that she's not just diving in without thinking about it at all. and anyway she came on the forum looking for support not judgement.
    miz aditude, i started dancing when i turned 18, and like you, i had thought long and hard about it. just because you are young doesnt mean you dont have a clue. best of luck with your dancing.
    although cinnamonkisses is right, have a back up plan or two, dancing is a great way to put yourself through uni!

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    Do your thang. If it's really what you want to do in your heart than you will do it no matter what your age...and you'll know in your gutt that you're doing what it is you wanna do. My saltiness comes from younger dancers at my club that lack maturity and do not take the job seriously. Best of luck!



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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella View Post
    18 year olds shouldn't really be dancing. i understand that it's legal and all, but you're all like 'omg i wanted to be a strippar since age 17 and MY BF IS LETTING ME DANCE'.

    bfs aren't the ones to decide whether you should or shouldn't be stripping. and just the little bit you've posted kind of illustrates the types of concerns that lead me to strongly feel that stripping should be a 21+ sort of deal.
    Well I'm sorry I've always wanted to do this and I'm only 19 I dont really see why it should be a 21+ thing. I don't do drugs, I don't party, I treat it as work. If I can make good money, why as a 19 year old shouldnt I be dancing?


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    Those of you that said i should have a back up plan, this is just something i want to do a few nights a week. I already have a great CNA (certified nursing assistant) job and next year i will be going for either my LPN or RN. I just have always wanted to try to dance and now that im of age i figured i could. Its really not about the money for me because i make pretty good money now.

    Someone asked where im from, i live in DE.
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    Well, if its what you want to do, go for it. Just keep your head on straight. I've seen too many good girls turn into something else. As previously stated, go in, talk to some dancers if you can, but be sure you pay for their time. When you feel ready ask mgmt. Best of luck to you either way! Oh and the age thing, it evens out. I've 'looked young enough to be someones daughter' and i've been 'extremely mature for my age' Some will like itm, some wont, but in the end it seems to even itself out.

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    I checked online and the min. age to get in to the Gold CLub in DE is 18, so im going to make my bf go with me at some point within the next two weeks. My only thing is, if they decide they want me to do an audition right then and there, i wouldn't really know what to do.

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    Did you call the club to find out if you even have to do an audition? It all depends on the club, sweetie, that's what we're trying to tell you. I've had some clubs tell me that I could audition the very night I first came in and talked to the manager. I've worked at clubs where they don't even do auditions. At the club that I work at now you have to go in and actually talk to the manager first, "looking all glammed- up", and then he decides if he wants to give you a shot, what day he will let you do the audition, etc, etc. You really need to speak to the manager to find out what the audition policies are first. One step at a time....



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