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    Some people in the biz are all for female customers. Some clubs let them in free and I've even known a manager or two that gives them free drinks... But for sake of this discussion, I'd like to find out the reasons why clubs would be against female customers. I'll start it off:

    1) Female customers take attention away from the dancers.
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    DON'T even get me started on this one......I'll let everyone else rant for me......



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    They (not saying all of them do) treat the dancers like worthless whores.

    When they get drunk, they get extremly grabby.

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    Once I gave a dance to a female "customer". Her husband was enjoying it- he was the only one. She was such a bitch!

    "Please don't put your boobs in my face." said with a very derisive and snotty tone.

    "I wasn't planning on it. You're no fun, I'm not dancing for you anymore."

    Dance over. Fuck that- I've had a tough enough night dealing with men, I don't need your negative energy on top of that.

    I finished the dance with her husband. Bet he would've enjoyed my boobs in his face!

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    PS- men, please do not bring your fat, bitchy, jealous wives to the club. We'll all have a better time if you leave that bitch at home.

    ...this woman really pissed me off. lol

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    One thing I don't like is dancing for a couple where only the man wants to be there. A couple of times I have had to dance for a frozen stiff, frightened, slightly creeped out looking woman while her drooling husband looked on. I felt sorry for her and my mojo was ruined!

    Guys, only buy your woman a dance if SHE wants one...not so she can sit there and feel wierded out while you watch.
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    I dislike the fat, slutty dressed, dunk grabby girl who wears a skirt and no panties and is worse than any guy i dance for. Nasty. And I hate hate hate when couples come in and try to get you to go home or to a hotel with them.

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    Default Re: Reasons Against Female Customers.

    most of the women who come to my club are respectful of the dancers, unless they're not tipping or trying to upstage the dancers by doing lapdances for their own boyfriends in our lapdance chairs and couches.

    as long as they're respectful and PAYING, i don't mind female customers so much.

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    Then we have the lady looking to do recon before she even asks for a job. You can always spot these "girls". They look nice, have their hair done and wear cute shoes. They are well put together , are polite, tip well and keep their hands to themselves. They also usually have a male with them that is well behaved also.

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    I have nearly gotten myself into fights with female patrons at a certain club here locally because ... BOTH TIMES... those specific females thought it was all cool for them to hope up on stage and start dancing around !!!

    (yes yes I know.. where were the bouncers? *sigh*)

    I told those both females (yes this happened at different times not the same night) if you want to dance on the stage get a job as it is very disrespectful to be up there otherwise .. now please leave.

    For some odd reason they thought they were perfectly entitled to do what they did. Whatever. Get over yourself bitch .. you only wish you could be us!

    I agree, as long as the female patrons know the deal, are respectful and SPEND on the dancers (or even encourage/motivate their male friends etc to spend) then welcome! Otherwise stay the fuck away please.

    We do not want you in the club.


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    For some odd reason they thought they were perfectly entitled to do what they did. Whatever. Get over yourself bitch .. you only wish you could be us!

    I agree, as long as the female patrons know the deal, are respectful and SPEND on the dancers then welcome! Otherwise stay the fuck away please.

    We do not want you in the club.

    LMAO!!! Tell it like it is GCG...the fucking truth right there!!!



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    Default Re: Reasons Against Female Customers.

    GIrls tend to be a bit grabbier in my experience, because "we're all ladies here".... They also like to waste more time on questions like "how do you walk in those shoes" and assume we're willing to give hte time for free, because its "girl talk".


    I even had a couple of female custy's beg another dancer to go on the second stage with them, and show them a pole trick. So I'm on main stage, and doofus dancer is on stage 2 with 3 female custy's spinning on teh pole. Gee. No wonder no one fucking tipped that set!

    Either that, or they're glaring at thier husband for every dollar he spends, and glaring at YOU for accepting it.

    These are of course generalizations.... I had a nice female custy tonight, in with her husband... they tipped the girls on stage generously, and she was obviously enjoying it. And then I had the woman who's husband came up to the tip rail, let me know he was there with his wife, and i shouldn't get him in trouble(WTF?) and she came and stood by his shoulder glaring at me... Needless to say I did a LOT of polework that set! What if I ... omg.... SPOKE to him!!!!!!!!!!!! Woman looked like she would have hit me.

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    I guess I deal with about the same percentage of shitty customers in either gender -- women are just more annoying I think because we're used to the annoying things guys will do and then it's like, we have to get used to another type of bad behavior.

    The traditional reasons women weren't allowed in clubs, aside from ruining the atmosphere, was the assumption they were either angry wives or hookers.

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    Default Re: Reasons Against Female Customers.

    *They try to get other male's attention by trying to grab our boobs/etc

    *get too drunk and yell loudly

    *tip you on dollar, yell wooo and then ignore you

    *talk way 2 much and waste your time

    *talk to you like you're not a person, jus a magical stripper (haha weird)


    but i agree with most of the girls that posted...as long as they behave, tip well and dont give the dancers dirty looks..im fine.

    but i jus feel awkard dancing for girls...because most of them aren't rally "into it", just doing it for fun or for "show". i feel more comfortabl dancing for a man who is "truly" into ME dancing for him.
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    Default Re: Reasons Against Female Customers.

    - yelling woohoo
    - sitting there with a pissed off look on their faces
    - dance of the floor or beside podiums as if it's a dancefloor
    - dont spend any money
    - try to get attention from male customers
    - bitch about the dancers not looking good or being fat as if they are a supermodel themselves
    - couples that sit and pash YUCK get a room!
    - couples who try to tell u to come home with them
    - they just generally think they can behave way worse than the male customers and they seem to think they are entitled to act like that because they are women

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    Oh yeah, and I especially love it when a guy frantically waves me down and brings me to his girlfriend, placing money in my hand telling me to give her a dance and the bitch will sit there with her arms crossed just shaking her head "no" like she's too good for it. It's like "well fuck you bitch, I'm glad I don't have to dance for your fat ass anyway."

    There's probably some really good female custies out there but I seriously lack the patience to put up with all the bullshit to find them.

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    I havent started working in a club yet (tomorrow eek!) so I suppose I dont know the negative aspects of female customers yet. I LOVE LOVE LOVE going to strip clubs with my boyfriend. I love getting dances together and watching him get them. I remember all the dancers being kinda mild around him and saying things about "not wanting to come onto my man" and I said "thats what I brought him here for dont worry about it..." but I can def. see females being a negative thing...but I'd hate it if as a female I couldnt go into a strip club...


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    there are most def some good female custies and some bad ones..... I don't think it's a good idea to let them in for free, though. If they want to come in, they should know that they have to spend $$ just like everyone else
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    - yelling woohoo
    - sitting there with a pissed off look on their faces
    - dance of the floor or beside podiums as if it's a dancefloor
    - dont spend any money
    - try to get attention from male customers
    - bitch about the dancers not looking good or being fat as if they are a supermodel themselves
    - couples that sit and pash YUCK get a room!
    - couples who try to tell u to come home with them
    - they just generally think they can behave way worse than the male customers and they seem to think they are entitled to act like that because they are women
    I agree with everything you said. Female customers are a pain in the ass IMO.

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    I dont mind female custoes as lopmg as they arent acting as described above. Some of my best customers have been females or couples...that were fun. respectful and spending. I had a girl the other day who tipped me at least $150 on stage....then continued to hand me money while I sat with her and her two guy friends. She said she liked women(duh!I figured that out lol!!) and that she tried to be a dancer once and couldnt handle it..so she REALLY respected and admired the fact that I was strong enough to do it. She never touched me inappropriately because she said one of the things she couldnt handle when she tried it was grabby guys and she didnt want to be one of THOSE!

    She was cool!

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    I hate reading threads like this because I'm a regular female customer. Oh well.

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    Hmm. I guess I am lucky that I can't relate to most of these posts. I have several female regulars, whom I adore and who are very respectful. My club is known for attracting both hetero and lesbian couples. I guess I've just learned how to hustle them and maintain boundaries. We eve have a LADIES NIGHT where women's drinks are on special and all women get half price lap dances. Whenever I work that night I do really well. I'm not sure what it is about my club, I guess it's just more of an "alternative" vibe...
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    They usually ruin the spending vibe with the men. They will NEVER spend as much as men so having a bunch of women around causing men to spend less is ridiculously counter-productive.

    Some of them are just hookers looking for johns - don't need to add that to the already long list of reasons the general public could use to shut us down.

    Some of them literally go to the clubs to cause trouble. Ever seen a pissed-off wife looking for her husband who spent the rent money on a stripper? I have seen a few. Not pretty and not good for business.

    Some of them just go to pick up on guys because they figure guys in a stripclub will be easy targets. YES, women do this. Again, bad for business - guys aren't going to buy many dances, drinks VIPs or bottles of champagne if they're being hit on and taken out of the club by common barsluts.

    MANY of them sit there glaring at guys who buy dances, and make them feel so uncomfortable they either leave or simply stop spending. The idea in a stripclub is to get and keep men spending, not bring in a bunch of bitches to stop it! Ugh!!

    They will sit for HOURS barely spending anything, taking up space where REAL customers might sit. In a crowded club, this is a huge problem. You want your spenders to be comfortable and stay longer, not a bunch of barsluts who spend fuckall.

    They think they are SUPPOSED to get away with more than the guys. Many even expect to get more for their money than guys simply because they're women. They think none of the rules apply to them. And the bouncers are too busy ogling them to tell them to fucking stop it! Male customers see women getting away with murder and either get pissed off or expect the same. Again, not good for the spending vibe.

    And let's not forget about the bitches some dumbass guys drag in, hoping to convince her to give him a little glimpse of 3some fantasy when she's straight and a fucking jealous bitch who spends the entire time desperately clinging to him and glaring at the strippers so we don't dare approach for a dance. Yeah, THAT's good for business


    I've been saying for quite a while we need to go back to the days when women were RARELY if ever allowed into the clubs. They are bad for business.
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    JEEEEEZZ could this thread be any more negative????

    I think we've forgotten a percentage of the TIPPING/SPENDING female custy population... LESBIANS. Yay hooray!!! No, they're not angry fat "bitches" who come with their husbands/bf's to fake being "cool with it," they're legitimate customers who tip on stage (and well, in my experience), get a dance or two, and may/may not be just as grabby as everyone else. But the appreciation is ALWAYS there. I LOVE me some lesbian customers.

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    Hmm. I guess I am lucky that I can't relate to most of these posts. I have several female regulars, whom I adore and who are very respectful. My club is known for attracting both hetero and lesbian couples. I guess I've just learned how to hustle them and maintain boundaries. We eve have a LADIES NIGHT where women's drinks are on special and all women get half price lap dances. Whenever I work that night I do really well. I'm not sure what it is about my club, I guess it's just more of an "alternative" vibe...
    (sorry didn't see this post. well, then- awesome!)

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