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    Well ive been a long term reader and i just signed up so im happy to meet everyone here. Well my question was that i just become a stripper about 3 weeks ago, and my owner's office is right behind the dressing room. He comes in there all the time and i was getting just a little uncomfortable. He does give me great hours and i do get paid very well, is this something i need to suck up and just move on

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    It's weird how in some places there is a house mom and men are never in the dressing rooom and in Portland the managers and djs go in there sometimes and talk to the girls. I like the former scenario, but as long as he isn't leering or doing something that makes you feel really uncomfortable (like touching you or something), and you are getting paid well, maybe you could learn to deal with it. I'll just say that some places it's not acceptable and some places it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sun child View Post
    It's weird how in some places there is a house mom and men are never in the dressing rooom and in Portland the managers and djs go in there sometimes and talk to the girls. I like the former scenario, but as long as he isn't leering or doing something that makes you feel really uncomfortable (like touching you or something), and you are getting paid well, maybe you could learn to deal with it. I'll just say that some places it's not acceptable and some places it is.
    Thanks! This is the most money ive been making in my life so im quite happy with it . I talked to the other girls and they said that you just have to deal with it and suck it up. He comes in there all the time and usually stays there for long periods of time and i dont mind that much because he doesnt me or harass me in any way.

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    At my club the office is the same way. Also him, the floor mgrs, as well as the dj all walk through there the only thing is they are required to say "man on" when walking to our area so that the girls are aware.

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    Hmmmm, at my club the managers are in the dressing room pretty frequently. The house mom is also in there, as well as the entrance to the DJ booth. I figure they see me naked all of the time when I'm on stage so it doesn't really bother me.

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    ^^^ Ditto!

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    All our male employees knock before entering and say "It's John (or whoever)!" just as a courtesy.
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    No, it's not illegal.

    You have to go through the dressing room to get to our office.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lipstixx View Post
    No, it's not illegal.

    You have to go through the dressing room to get to our office.
    Ya same thing at our place. The Office is behind the dressing room, so the owner is always coming in and looking. I guess i shouldnt care because he already see's me nude on stage and so on.

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    It's a way to keep an eye on things back there. I don't care if male staff come in the dressing room sometimes, because they might need to do something like take out trash, bring TP or paper towels, etc. But if they're just hanging out in there it's not cool. Let them go hang out in the office or out on the floor When they just hang out for extended periods they are abusing the situation.

    I wouldn't work at a club like that. I'd find a different place to work.

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    EA,

    Start getting worried when you club installs cameras in the dressing room.
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    ^ I'd rather they did! That's how they caught the ho that stole my eyeshadow brushes and how they caught a bunch of girls doing drugs.


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    Quote Originally Posted by hearts View Post
    All our male employees knock before entering and say "It's John (or whoever)!" just as a courtesy.
    Same here, and the only male employees even allowed to do that are the managers and very occasionally the dj (if a girl is reeeally late to stage or something). And unless they have a real reason to be in there they don't come in. It isn't acceptable for them to just hang out back there.
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    It's normal, depending on where you are.



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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    ^ I'd rather they did! That's how they caught the ho that stole my eyeshadow brushes and how they caught a bunch of girls doing drugs.
    Yep. Me too.

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    We don't have a door on our DR and there is a sign next to it that says something along the lines of "males will possibly be entering" haha.. I dont know exactly what it says but it's pretty normal for managers or floormen to come in and talk to the housemom or one of the girls. I've gotten pretty used to it I guess... although it is pretty awkward to be having a "serious" conversation with a manager while completely naked and trying to wrestle yourself into fishnets.. haha.

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    Ditto on the cameras for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VeganAvery View Post
    We don't have a door on our DR and there is a sign next to it that says something along the lines of "males will possibly be entering" haha.. I dont know exactly what it says but it's pretty normal for managers or floormen to come in and talk to the housemom or one of the girls. I've gotten pretty used to it I guess... although it is pretty awkward to be having a "serious" conversation with a manager while completely naked and trying to wrestle yourself into fishnets.. haha.
    This happened to me on friday. The Owner came in and asked me what hours i was available and i was nude but i still answered and still held a good convo. I guess it just takes time to get use to of being naked all the time in front of other guys i guess. I work in a rather small strip club so my situation might be a little different.

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    I dunno it doesn't bother me. Hundreds of men see us naked every night so why does it make a difference?

    Our managers are male and are always walking in and out of the dressing room to do the roster and no one seems to mind.
    We all stand around naked waiting for our bronzer to dry before we get dressed. I have stood therre and chatted to one while in the nude. It's just so normal to most of us now.

    It's certainly NOT illegal.

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    Something fishy about Lipstixx...

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    Last night I was rushing to get ready and I was talking to the owner and popping in and out of his office (right next to the dressing room) to make a point here and there while getting dressed, and at one point he looks up and me and says "do you always argue half naked?"



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    It only bothers me when men come in and I'm trying to do girly stuff like cut my tampon string or something

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    My club does have cameras in the dressing room. I think it's a good idea.

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    Yeah guys come into my dressing room all the time, they just knock first. It's usually either managers looking for a girl who's missing stage or mediating problems, kitchen guys collecting dishes, or the DJ looking to see who's ready to go up at the beginning of the night.

    Also the DR has loads of cameras with sound to catch theiving bitches or prostitutes talking about it!

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    it's normal in one of my clubs...bouncers, DJs and managers hang out in the DR all the time. And it's a nonsmoking club, so if any of the staff want cigarettes they smoke at the side door that opens to outside...which is also in the DR.

    It's never bothered me; they all see me naked every night anyway.

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