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    Angry Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    Today, I worked the dayshift, and I was hearing the "noise in the background" again from the stripper girls. At one point during the shift, when it was my turn to go on stage, i was walking throught the dressing room out to the main floor, when I hear the DJ say my name "Tabitha's up next". And then this girl (actually lady, 35yrs) said in a lil kiddie chatting voice "ooohhh Tabbbiiitthhaaa Tabbiithhaaa Tabbbitthhaa".

    Its like BITCH!!! i can't help it that the men like me and wanna get dances from me, while they are complaining how bad it sux talking about young blk ass me! its like get my name out your mouth! I was so upset. I don't know why, its not like i know these women, but just the caddiness and stupidity of it all. It would be different if I had said something to them or was constantly rolling my eyes everytime they be staring and whispering at me (plus whispering to their customers while on on stage). The stripper game can be rough if you don't set aside all the B.S. i guess.

    But the point I kinda wanna make is, what the fuck man! Like, why are these ladies like this. Why are women so territorial and two faced so much. Why can't we just sit and get to know each other and try to make the best of the time we might be spending together. its really sad, cause they r missing out on meeting a really nice person (well, i think i am). But ya, I just don't wanna get into no fights over no B.S.! i know i won't (i've never fought in my life) but i'm just saying...

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    Default Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    Your new... no one was ever nice to me when I started. That's normal. I would be suspicious if they were too nice. Once they see you are sticking around things should be smoother.

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    Default Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    they perceive you as a threat. i'd take it as a compliment, even if it is twisted.

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    Well in this situation how should I handle it? Should I tell the manager or the DJ about it (although they be talking about me right along with the bitches)? Or should i confront the girl to her face and let her know something? Or should i just ignore it and if so, what do you think is the best way to not let it get to me and to keep a positive and happy attitude?

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    Default Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    Just ignore it, they'll probebly just become more of a pain if you make something of it. How to keep positive? Remember the only reason they are being catty towards you is jealousy, youre taking money out of their pokets. You're better off without them, more time for you to shake your bum and make some money


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    Default Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    Everyone's already told you what you should do IGNORE IT! Keep doing what you're doing which is making money. Don't stoop to their level. Be cordial to all, but remember you are not there to make friends anyway.







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    Default Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    If you respond to it, you'll just give them amo. As for her saying your name when you went on stage... Don't let that piss you off. That's actually sort of funny... Like, is that supposed to be offensive? I think I did that in elementary school.

    Oh, and don't go to management or the DJ (don't assume DJ's keep their mouths shut, either) or anything. They're not going to help you unless you're being physically threatened or smething.

    Ignore them, stay out of the dressing room, and look at your wad of cash everytime you need to cheer yourself up.
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    Default Re: I feel like the girls don't like me at all, and its making me kinda self consciou

    Ignore what they're saying. Who has the problem here? they do - they see you as a threat because you are new and it would seem you are doing well - you're making money and they're noit that is their problem not yours, so let them deal with it.... Dont say anything to them, just be nice to them and they will either warm up to you or they wont.

    Remember they have probably been there for a while and c0nsider themselves "old girls" as in they are the seniors and you are the freshman... they think they own the school and you just got voted homecoming queen, they feel threatened and are acting out. Yes they should grow the fuck up, but you are not there to help them do that. Just do your job the best you can and ignore their comments. Kill them with kindness.
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