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    Hi ladies,

    I just wanted to first off say that I respect and admire all of you fearless women who have enough guts to get up on that stage and do what you do. I wish I were brave enough. And all of you classy ladies who make your job look so flawless and sexy, you get a hand clap and a large tip from me.

    Anyway, I need some advice: my boyfriend and I have gone to a strip club a few times together and he'll buy me the occassional lap dance. I don't mind that because who wouldn't love looking at a beautiful, naked woman up close? But my problem is, I get so nervous. I don't know what to do with my hands or where to look. I feel like a huge pervert staring at your boobs or your other lady-bits, but I don't wanna feel like I can't look anywhere but in the dancer's eyes. What should I do?

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    Look wherever you want to look, that's what we're there for! By the way, there is nothing creepier (from a man or woman) than a fixed stare into my eyes. *shivers*

    As far as touching, just ask what the rules are (they can vary from club to club, or girl to girl), then follow them!

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    Thanks!

    I know what you mean about the fixed stare thing! I do usually maintain eye contact, but I'm not boring a hole into the dancer's skull. I'm sure it's just nerves. Thanks again.

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    I know what u mean. Before I danced I got a lap dance from this beautiful dancer and I was so nervous during the dance that my mouth went all dry and I also didn't know where to look.

    But believe me this is one situation where u really can look, we expect it and some of us even get offended or worried if customers are not looking.
    For instance sometimes when I do a private dance the customers eyes might wander around and look around the room and that kind of annoys me.

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    if i give u a lap dance i would like for u to look at me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    By the way, there is nothing creepier (from a man or woman) than a fixed stare into my eyes. *shivers*
    Oh GOD, isn't that the worst? I mean, I'm going to snap at someone onstage one of these days! Dude, you're obviously straining to keep this total staredown eyelock going. What do you think this is accomplishing? Do you think you're impressing me with this display of restraint? Are you trying to show me how very deep you are by boring your gaze into my very soul?

    Sorry, got a little off topic there (I may be inspired to take this to the Dear Valued Customer thread). To the OP: my rant above really wasn't directed at you personally, it seems like your heart is in the right place. Basically, feel free to look! Please! That's what we're here for!
    "Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins

    "I just can't get over how much babies cry. I really had no idea what I was getting into. To tell you the truth, I thought it would be more like getting a cat." -- Anne Lamott

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    This is good to know, I try to keep my eyes on the lady dancing for me. I also tried to look at her eyes, every now and then, and give her a "man this is great" smile. I don't feel it's a deep soul searching stare. Does that creep you ladies out also? Most of the time my girlfriend and I get them at the same time. We each pick a dancer so I try to keep my focus on the dancer that I picked. Some times it can be hard, with so much hottness so close to me. Do you ladies like to dance with another dancer for two people?
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    Quote Originally Posted by WickedRydaX View Post
    I also tried to look at her eyes, every now and then, and give her a "man this is great" smile.
    This is just fine--it's the fixed gaze that really gets to me.

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    Don't worry, have fun! The only thing I hate is when female dancers act disgusted or embarassed while I'm dancing, or when they try to grope me. As long as you don't do those things, it will be totally okay! It's flattering that somebody is staring at your naked body thinking "damn she's hot!"
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


    Quote Originally Posted by anomar View Post
    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    This is just fine--it's the fixed gaze that really gets to me.
    yep...esp when they try to lift your face back to the eye-lock when you try to look away. You arent going to hypnotize me with your bloodshot eyes honey!!LOL! Let me look away.

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