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    I got this PM by someone who apparently doesnt have any posts:

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    Dear Jessica,

    Hows centrefold lounge? I havent been to that place for ages and am planning to go soon. Anywayz, what do you think of Indians who visit strip clubs?

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    Uh, that's not your real name is it?


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    It's my stage name.

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    So he knows who you are. -I- didn't even know that and I kinda thought we were buddy buddy.

    Hmm...

    Remember we once posted a bit to on here about Indians visiting clubs though and you said you hated it?

    I'm confused.


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    Yeh I know...... Maybe he has looked in pic post or something and recognised me. If he is Indian tho, that would be weird coz I think I have the right to not like a particular type of customer. I CHOOSE who I dance for. I can refuse to dance for drunk people for example. I do not refuse to dance for Indians, I just refuse to approach them because of so many bad responses that I have got - mostly of the "Can I touch you for $20?" or fuck or something to that effect.
    I try to minimise the amount of negative experiences that I have at work so that I can earn $$$$$. If I get upset at work and being asked for extras does piss me off, then it kills my hustle.

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    custy that knows you? sounds like that. although i don't know how he would know it's you given lm's comments above (even she didn't know that info).

    i had no idea (just as a casual male visitor here) but otoh, i don't go into profiles and galleries to "see" someone. *coughonlinestalkercough*

    but he "sounds" like a customer of yours from that little tidbit. i kinda doubt it though as i would think he'd include his name to promote the "familiarity" that his note tries to imply.

    *coughweirdocough*

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    But if she avoids Indians how can he be a customer of hers? Unless he's a white customer snarking on her for disliking Indians?


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    Hmm wierd. Well you have posted pics on here and where you work, and you have posted the odd comment or two about Indians... So I reckon either its someone you know trying to pull your leg, or its a customer just being a jerk.

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    I just dont get why someone would write a PM like that?

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    Because they're upset you dislike Indians? That's all I can think.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    But if she avoids Indians how can he be a customer of hers? Unless he's a white customer snarking on her for disliking Indians?
    Yeh if he is Indian he is def not a customer. I mean I dont refuse to dance for indians but I have never had a regular who is indian or anything.

    For the record my thing against indians only applies to the strip club environment. My ex of 6 years is half Indian. I am not racist, I just choose to maximise my earning potential during work hours and hustling indians just results in being insulted and solicited for sex.
    I dont need that shit when im at work.

    Also I can choose to dance or not to dance for anyone I choose. If I dont like someone coz they are a rude asshole, I can refuse to dance for them. I am not an employee so I do as I please at that place.

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    Maybe this person should PM every dancer at my work coz I dont know one girl who has a pleasant thing to say abotu them as customers.

    My advise if you are indian and u do want a pleasant strip club experience is approach the dancers, be respectful and then u will be treated like every other customer.
    Brothels are LEGAL in melbourne. If u want sex dotn come into a strip club and ask for it.

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    Some people are just like that. Its probably a feeble attempt at a power trip.
    Or it could be someone messing around in which case they'll probably pm you again with their name etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I just dont get why someone would write a PM like that?
    horny guy trying to "chum" up to you. i'm thinking local customer based on some of the comments and the thought he may be able to chum up with you.

    meh, i know the workings. snarky is a good short description. i never liked the type, i.e. sneaky bastage, although i've been friends with a couple and acquaintances with a number of them.

    what can i say, guys hang out with guys. we may not respect the other prick but over football or mutual friends' get-togethers, moral judgements of that type are not paramount.

    i wouldn't worry though, jaiz. this guy sounds like a harmless ideeot imo.

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    The person obviously joined SW just to PM me coz they havent made a single post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    The person obviously joined SW just to PM me coz they havent made a single post.
    well, at least you know you got a fan.

    maybe you should create a fanspace and start making money over the intardnet.

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    I really dont think its about Indians at all. I reckon whoever it is just read a few posts in customer conversation (for obvious reasons...) and that was the only thing they could pick up on to mention. Perhaps they thought it would throw off their real identity or something too, lol.

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    LOL. Yeh you are probably right Aussie.

    Anyway many, many dancers do not like indians as customers.

    But I dont want anyone to think I dont like indians IRL coz I do and I have friends who are indian and they agree about the customer thing. Also we have some indian dancers at work and they encounter the same problems.

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    ^^^Exactly (-:

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I got this PM by someone who apparently doesnt have any posts:

    Posted: Yesterday, 10:37 PM
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    Dear Jessica,

    Hows centrefold lounge? I havent been to that place for ages and am planning to go soon. Anywayz, what do you think of Indians who visit strip clubs?
    The fact that he calls himself "the lonely guy" is interesting in itself--it is either an attempt at theatre (at trying to impress by being 'honest' about who he is) or there is a little scare tactic in it (trying to make himself the lonely one who comes out of the shadows). His message breaks down the same way--trying to get into your good graces because he heard you say something about Indians and wants to identify, or he IS Indian and feels jilted. You mention that you feel he might have come specifically to the site to communicate with you, which means, in my mind, that you should follow your instincts and be careful for a while about who you associate with, and how you do it.

    And if he is reading this, he should realize that these are young women who are trying to make a living and that living carries danger with it: if he didn't mean to worry you he should say so, and if not you have your answer and should watch your back for a while. I don't mean to be an alarmist--I just want to see you safe.
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    ^^
    thank-you, that's very sweet.

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    he could be a browser on the site and seen in your posts that you work @ CF, and although he isn't your customer, he could be indian and maybe looking up info on the club

    That is some weird and wacky shit!

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    He just sent me another PM asking if I like indian customers and telling me that he is indian and when he goes into the club 90% of dancers ignore him.

    He then said he is coming in this friday - see you there!

    I am starting to think it's some of my dancer friends from work doing it as a joke!

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    I hope it is a joke, but I wonder. If it is "the lonely guy" and he read our messages, is it possible it was some attempt to reassure you? If so, he should make the effort to really reassure you--to tell you he's sorry he worried you and there is nothing to worry about. Then he should introduce himself right away when he sees you.

    If it was a joke, it wasn't a very good one, to get you concerned like this. Take good care of yourself, all right?
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    Thanks. From all your posts u really sound like a lovely person.

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    Thank you, Jaizaine.
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