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    So, I can't handle it anymore. Way too much is expected for $20, and my nerves are just shot.

    Supposedly the dances on the Ontario side are air dances only now. So that's where I'm headed. Goodbye Quebec!

    I don't know why I stayed for so long when I was so ambivalent about it. It's hard to make decisive action sometimes. But I've got a job opportunity at an emergency vet hospital (one of the most highly respected clinics in Ontario), and so...it's something to do that I like and that I'm good at, until I'm finished my degree.

    Which is not to say I won't still putter around in other deviant things, like the occasional air-dancing stint or whatever, but life is too short to do things that vaguely repulse me. It's not a job for everyone, and knowing how much money I sometimes made, I kinda wish I didn't get all upset about it the way I do, but whatever.

    Onward!

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    Hey, good for you!
    Never do anything you're uncomfortable with, even if the money is delicious.

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    Sounds like you're following your heart--in my life, I've never known that NOT to work out. So congratulations and good luck with the new venture!
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    Oh, thank god. Hopefully this is the first of many steps forward for you.

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    Good for you Molly! Sounds like you'll be a lot happier.

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    YEA! Good move! Sometimes the costs just outweigh the benefits.
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    Good luck! Always forward, never straight

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    Yay, join the ranks of us retired strippas! It sounds like this will be a great opportunity for you. Best of luck!

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    I'm all for people making themselves happy so yay for you!
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    hopefully the vetrinary job will work out, because while Ontario clubs are 'supposed' to offer only air dances they typically offer WAY more contact than that !

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    if the emergency clinic in question is in toronto, please please please PM me before you accept the job!
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    [[[[hugs]]]]]

    I really really really wish there was some real-life version of a stripper retirement community...

    Good luck!
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    thanks for all the support...it means very much! I feel good about this decision.

    scarlet- re: the vet place...it's not in toronto, and it's affiliated with the one I used to work at, I know it's a good place firsthand, etc...but thanks for the concern! I too have witnessed some really horrible vet businesses, which is such a sin.

    melonie- The Ottawa laws have just very recently been changed to overrule the Ontario ones. Or something. All I know is that cops are frequently Ottawa clubs and cracking way down, so that clubs are now basically forced to follow the NO contact rule. Of course, the clubs are going to appeal to the Supreme Court (they lost the Ontario court appeal), but for now, things are very chaste. This also means that the business will probably lose out many customers to the more free-wheeling Quebec clubs ten minutes away, but whatever. I'll take less money for less discomfort.

    and to everyone else...many thanks again. Merci, merci, merci.

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    If you prefer to do air dances, you can also come dance in Utah. Hope to see you soon!

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    ^^^Hahaa, you mean NO dances I'm glad you're doing what makes you happy molly, good luck!
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    Congratulations on moving onward!

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    I think this will be a great change for you also. Best of luck with your new work! Animals need your love way more than stupid horny men.

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    ^^^ Yekhefah Thanks your siggy makes me giggle every night after work



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    Me too.

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    Just popping in to add to the Molly Moony love...

    Best of luck, kittenfish (<--- this is a term of endearment that I think I just invented). I hope that the critters soothe your spirit a little bit and your new path leads you to what you are searching for. And even though you're not going to be a stripper anymore, I hope you'll still post, because I know I'm still going to want to read about your life.

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    Hey, good! I'm glad for you. I think it's a good decision.

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