A guy tipped one of our dancers a birthday cake the other night. This club doesn't encourage the DJ to leave the booth, but I went out on the floor to his table and thanked the guy personally, I thought it was very cool...





A guy tipped one of our dancers a birthday cake the other night. This club doesn't encourage the DJ to leave the booth, but I went out on the floor to his table and thanked the guy personally, I thought it was very cool...
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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that does sound cool. did it have candles on ? i can so see that in a dark club.





Mmmm cake. That is pretty damn cool.
Ooooh, cake! My inner fatkid just woke up.




All of the day shift dancers used to get birthday cakes from one of the regular customers at my old club, but the management put a stop to it because some of the dancers complained that the cakes and other treats might be 'contaminated'. It pissed me off because any one who knew the guy would also know that he was just a sweet person who was honestly trying to treat us well. Anyway, the management told him he could only bring in store-bought sealed items. Apparently the bakery box didn't count. So, any guys out there wishing to emulate this cool tip might want to check with the management first.
Well, call me a cynical spoilsport, but I would be pissed off to get a cake. I'm not going to eat something a customer brings in, no matter what it is, and a birthday cake is not going to pay my rent. I would rather have the $20 or whatever the cake cost.
I hate it when club regulars try to get clever. Just give me the damn money. I'm not your bestest buddy, I'm at work and I'm here to get paid in cash.
I know, how thoughtless? Shame on the guy for doing something nice for someone. What a real dickhead.
Everyone has bills to pay, but you don't really see people doing nice things for others just for the sake of doing it. Everyone seems to want to take and never give. I'm sorry you feel that way towards someone who may actually show you that you are appreciated in a different way rather than throwing money at you. I'd feel flattered and thrilled knowing that someone took that kind of courtesy towards me regardless of whether the individual had different intentions.





It was her birthday.
The guy is a really good customer, he regularly comes in and spends a lot on 2-3 dancers. I talked to him a bit last night on my night off. It's funny, he prefers Hispanic girls, and looks a bit Hispanic himself, so I assumed he was--but he's from Massachusetts, lol!
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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Dude, it's bad to say this but I was in Maine a couple years ago and nearly shit myself when I saw white people doing landscaping. Over here there are a lot of minorities that do landscaping and other jobs that most white people would bitch and whine about doing so it was a total mindfuck to see it over there. Shortly after mentioning it, I was informed that there aren't many Hispanic people there and I wasn't sure what was so different about Maine. It's probably too fucking cold for them to handle living there. Hell, it gets that way for me here in Oregon and I'm a born and raised white boy.
Wouldn't mind a job with manual labor but I'd never make the same amount doing that than I do sleeping at my computer.![]()
I do appreciate the gesture, but I'm not eating anything a customer brings in. I don't care how good a regular he is. People mess with food all the time and I just wouldn't trust it. So bringing me a cake would be a total waste of money... and like I said, cake isn't going to pay my bills. Just give me the extra money and I will be genuinely appreciative.
Customers who bring in little things are really thoughtful for doing so. However, all my best tips (and I still prefer) are the hundred dollar bills!
I was doing recon at a club last night and a PL was giving every girl on stage a doll (one special girl got a teddy bear) and a pink rose. Weeeeeeeeeeeird. Hope there was money taped to the boxes the dolls came in.





I'm assuming here that you aren't a dancer. Realize that guys come in the club with bad intent ALL the time. We have to watch our drinks, our money, our cigs, even our costumes. I certainly have had regulars get me dinner but they have to be people who have references, honestly. And a b-day cake does have a bit of a stalker feel to it, I have to say.
Also, at 4 posts, you really aren't in a great position to know the other posters. We all have different opinions and we are all at a different place, mentally. Some of us have had really bad experiences with custies and just can't get into the 'personal touch'.
Rose Leigh
I had someone bring me a cupcake with a candle and a teddy bear for a birthday years ago. Although I had only met him the night before I thought it was extremely sweet and was proud that I had made enough of an impression on him for him to go out of his way like that. This was years ago and I still remember the experience fondly!



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I understand that I probably don't have any credibility on this forum being new. That's fine, but as a person I have plenty. I know guys are douchenozzles. I can understand that you are in a position that is questionable when it comes to integrity of the people you dance for.
All I am saying is that there are truly genuine people out there who don't care to do harm to the dancers. I don't go SCing with any thought in my head of "hmm, maybe she'd let me take her dinner" or other BS. I go once in a while to relax to some eye candy. I have other important things to worry about in my life than chasing the tail of a woman who would normally have nothing to do with me away from the club. I am definitely not the type of guy most dancers would go for and that's fine. I know a lot of other guys are different. I know the dancers are there just trying to make a living. I am the same way. I've got bills to pay and what not but courtesy goes a long way and not everyone is out to do harm.
It still doesn't change the fact that there ARE people who do. Personally, I would never bring anything like that for a dancer because of that reason. I wouldn't want my courtesy thrown in my face because she thought I was some typical dirtbag creep. It would have to take one really fucking special person for me to do that, lol. I'd rather dump that extra money into new lenses or other gear for my camera or into my car.
Well a cake is hardly going to buy you camera equipment. It costs like 76 cents to bake a cake.
Okay - I'm with Yek insofar as - what the hell is wrong with cash? I like cash. Money is like my favourite thing from customers. It requires no variation. I never get bored with it. I never think "if he really cared about me, we would have this exchange on some kind of barter system OTHER than currency. Like cake." I don't require customers to celebrate my birthday.
However - there is a story of a customer baking me cookies. (I think he's baked them for several dancers). And - the possibility of ejaculate in the cookies notwithstanding - we did eat them.
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
Cake mix - $3-$4
Eggs - $1-$2
Milk - $1.50
Pan - $8
Electricity - $0.50
etc...
Haha I know I sound cheap but I am the playful type that likes to tease and antagonize. I am a huge smart ass to boot. I just like to go out and have a good time. I know that over the course of time, a dancer and a patron might develop a friendship but that's entirely on them. It's sometimes bad karma to mix business with your personal life. Every once and a while I'll have to deal with a customer over the phone and I'll get invited for dinner, out to a BBQ, or even for a couple drinks. While I am sure they may be nice people, it's bad policy to get mixed up in it. What if some bad blood is spilled? It could potentially fuck things up at my job and we all need money. Money money money.
There are more important things in life than money, but those things cost money.![]()





I sympathize with Yekhefah about preferring money to cake. If dancers tried to tip me with cake at the end of the night it would get old very quickly, trust me--especially as I so rarely eat cake anyway.
However, a dancer who tipped me very well on a regular basis (as this guy spends a lot of money on our dancers on a regular basis), and who went to the trouble to bring me a cake for my birthday, I would think very highly of.
I am certainly not recommending that guys discover the birthdays of dancers, save their tip money, and bring them cake instead, lol!
We know this guy, we trust him, and it was a nice gesture. That is all...
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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It was a sweet gesture, and he probably did also give her cash. That said, I know this is paranoid, but I would be afraid to eat it. I don't even know if it's possible to drug a cake or why somebody would do that, but I was once "roofied" and since that experience I have been super paranoid about stuff like that.
A teddy bear, I would have really liked. Although it could be one of those nanny cams with the camera in it......
Just kidding!
I too would prefer the cash. But if it was a reg I knew EXTREMELY well and trusted...I would appreciate the sweet gesture.
If however if was someone I didnt know well..I would consider it creepy and throw the cake away immediately. I too have been drugged before and it would take a LOT for me to eat something from a custie without watching it be made and served in front of me. I'd have to know that person REAL well and have grown to trust them. And thats pretty damn rare.
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