New to the forum, was directed here by a couple people who mentioned the site. Honestly, I am also new to going to gentlemen clubs/strip clubs, whatever you want to call them. I hit my first one just a few months ago and just shy of the age of 26. Not really sure why I never went to a club in the first place. I think most of it had to do with dating a stripper when I was not quite legal to drink and having a bit of a drama fest with it. Honestly, I don't know if that is the real reason. I think that I just never really got around to it. Needless to say, I had a great time and have been to a few since then but have had quite a few disappointments to go along with it.
I think the biggest issue that I have the most is that I live in Portland where we have the most strip clubs, adult stores, and other adult themed shops in the country per capita. My issue is that I don't really see too many dancers that I actually enjoy watching. It's not that I am picky or anything. There are lots of them that look really good but they have no "personality" on the stage. I have seen some really poor excuses for dancing and I have only had 2 lapdances, both from the same dancer who just had what it takes for me to want to enjoy more from her on a more personal level.
Ladies, do you get involved with the audience? What I am trying to get at is mainly based upon how you present yourself. I have seen perhaps 3 dancers total that just had that personality. The smiles, making it personal, getting into it for the audience on that personal level but in a way that makes that patron feel unique. I cannot even begin to imagine how some of the dancers I have seen have the slightest inclination that what they do is a turn on. I am drawn to the look of the dancer. I have these little fetishes and what not such as the bad girl image with the sultry looks and the tattoos but I also have others such as the school girl image with a woman that has a pure look to her but is naughty in all the right ways. This initial attraction is only the tip of the iceberg.
Call me odd, but I love it when a dancer comes up to me with a big smile, leans in, and actually asks me what I like, how I am doing, has a compliment on how I smell, what I am wearing, on my smile, my eyes, etc. I know that ultimately she is out to take my money, but ultimately I am there to GIVE her my money. The woman who gives me that little extra is more prone to receive it and I am more likely to buy a dance or two or three from her. The problem is, this is so rare in my current experiences that I haven't really ventured out. Just shaking your assets around in my face doesn't do it for me. And please, for the love of Christ don't come up to me, flex one of your arms, and bounce one of your poorly done fake breasts up and down with your muscles. That just doesn't turn me on at ALL, nor can I think of a guy that would be turned on by it.
Part of the reason I don't get out as much as I would like also ties into my jobs, one being a tech geek during the days and a freelance photographer the rest of the time. Time is something that I don't normally have to spare so the time that I do get I like to make sure it is as enjoyable as possible. So ladies, if you have personality lets hear it. I'd love to hear how you are able to make it personal without giving too much away, but at the same time keeping the audience involved enough to walk away with a nice wad of cash.



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