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    New to the forum, was directed here by a couple people who mentioned the site. Honestly, I am also new to going to gentlemen clubs/strip clubs, whatever you want to call them. I hit my first one just a few months ago and just shy of the age of 26. Not really sure why I never went to a club in the first place. I think most of it had to do with dating a stripper when I was not quite legal to drink and having a bit of a drama fest with it. Honestly, I don't know if that is the real reason. I think that I just never really got around to it. Needless to say, I had a great time and have been to a few since then but have had quite a few disappointments to go along with it.

    I think the biggest issue that I have the most is that I live in Portland where we have the most strip clubs, adult stores, and other adult themed shops in the country per capita. My issue is that I don't really see too many dancers that I actually enjoy watching. It's not that I am picky or anything. There are lots of them that look really good but they have no "personality" on the stage. I have seen some really poor excuses for dancing and I have only had 2 lapdances, both from the same dancer who just had what it takes for me to want to enjoy more from her on a more personal level.

    Ladies, do you get involved with the audience? What I am trying to get at is mainly based upon how you present yourself. I have seen perhaps 3 dancers total that just had that personality. The smiles, making it personal, getting into it for the audience on that personal level but in a way that makes that patron feel unique. I cannot even begin to imagine how some of the dancers I have seen have the slightest inclination that what they do is a turn on. I am drawn to the look of the dancer. I have these little fetishes and what not such as the bad girl image with the sultry looks and the tattoos but I also have others such as the school girl image with a woman that has a pure look to her but is naughty in all the right ways. This initial attraction is only the tip of the iceberg.

    Call me odd, but I love it when a dancer comes up to me with a big smile, leans in, and actually asks me what I like, how I am doing, has a compliment on how I smell, what I am wearing, on my smile, my eyes, etc. I know that ultimately she is out to take my money, but ultimately I am there to GIVE her my money. The woman who gives me that little extra is more prone to receive it and I am more likely to buy a dance or two or three from her. The problem is, this is so rare in my current experiences that I haven't really ventured out. Just shaking your assets around in my face doesn't do it for me. And please, for the love of Christ don't come up to me, flex one of your arms, and bounce one of your poorly done fake breasts up and down with your muscles. That just doesn't turn me on at ALL, nor can I think of a guy that would be turned on by it.

    Part of the reason I don't get out as much as I would like also ties into my jobs, one being a tech geek during the days and a freelance photographer the rest of the time. Time is something that I don't normally have to spare so the time that I do get I like to make sure it is as enjoyable as possible. So ladies, if you have personality lets hear it. I'd love to hear how you are able to make it personal without giving too much away, but at the same time keeping the audience involved enough to walk away with a nice wad of cash.

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    I like to put on a real show each and every time I am on the podium.

    That's why I always get asked (well most of the time) for a dance after I have been on podium coz I actually look like I am enjoying myself up there and most of the time I actually am enjoying it.

    I have been told that I have the right facial expressions etc that the guys love.

    My private dances are very sensual also.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tehnick View Post
    I love it when a dancer comes up to me with a big smile, leans in, and actually asks me what I like, how I am doing, has a compliment on how I smell, what I am wearing, on my smile, my eyes, etc. I know that ultimately she is out to take my money, but ultimately I am there to GIVE her my money. The woman who gives me that little extra is more prone to receive it and I am more likely to buy a dance or two or three from her.


    That's so depressing that such simple, basic flirting tactics are out of the norm in your strip clubbing experiences. Like, smiling and saying hello and just being friendly and interested in the customer? That's something every stripper should do without even thinking about it. That should be the basic, usual introduction, not something a little extra.

    And I totally agree about showing personality and engaging the audience. Even if I'm dead tired and there are three people in the club, if I'm onstage, I'm smiling and at least looking like I'm having a great time up there! Robo-strippers suck the energy out of a club. Topless vampires, the lot of them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by guest View Post
    Topless vampires, the lot of them!
    You say that like it's a bad thing...
    Last edited by StripperWeb; 05-16-2010 at 09:16 AM.

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    I was SCing last night and I was appalled at the lack of hustle the girls showed. I just wanted to grab them, sit them all down, and force them to read Hustle Hut over and over.

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    Great post, cutie.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Samba View Post
    Great post, cutie.
    The only way for me to get female attention is to wave money around at a strip club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tehnick View Post
    The only way for me to get female attention is to wave money around at a strip club.
    Yes, that is how it is done. If you do it enough, you get remembered for spending a lot of money and no longer need to wave it.

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    Uh, have you been to all of the clubs in Puddletown?? (hint, hint) If it's tattooed girls with personality you love, I've got your number!
    Honestly, I bet I know what it is. Many dancers just assume the young guys don't have any cash to spend, which loses them a lot of customers. I bet they spot a young guy like you and think "broke". Their loss!
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    I've never been to Portland, so I don't know the scene there, but I've been to stripclubs all over the country, been in the business for about 8 years, and worked in 8-9 clubs. I see both sides of the problem.

    The problem being, it's a business which can be quite brutal at times, especially in higher-contact clubs. It's extremely hard on the dancers--most that I've known don't last more than 6 months, and only the strong or desperate dancers survive.

    They have to deal with every manner of bizarre perverts, men trying every trick in the book to get them to date them outside the club, blow them inside the club, bullshit artists weaving elaborate tales of their masculine/financial prowess, guys trying to get them to hang out for free by making them think they'll get dances "After we talk a while", etc., etc.

    Then they have to go onstage many times every night, often dancing to shitty music chosen by incompetent assholes posing as DJs, usually trying to run their own game. Then there's the managers--generally the lowest form of male humanity imaginable. In many clubs they won't get tipped, except by guys who try to grab as much ass (or more) as possible for one miserable dollar.

    The ability to actually perform, dance, put on a show under these circumstances is sorely tested. And the longer they do it, the harder it gets.

    One thing I have found to be true, as a customer and as a professional--money talks. Show your appreciation for the effort a good-looking woman is making to dance for you by giving her money without hesitation, and she will usually respond positively.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hearts View Post
    Uh, have you been to all of the clubs in Puddletown?? (hint, hint) If it's tattooed girls with personality you love, I've got your number!
    Honestly, I bet I know what it is. Many dancers just assume the young guys don't have any cash to spend, which loses them a lot of customers. I bet they spot a young guy like you and think "broke". Their loss!
    I have only been to 2 clubs in the Portland area. Dolphin 2, since it's pretty much around the corner from me (Beaverton) and Acropolis. I have only seen 2 dancers that really caught my attention. I am still new to SCing so my rant is probably jumping the gun a little bit. I can understand the young guy thing. No sweat off my balls, only because I know not to assume things about others. My weekends are usually spent on road trips to the coast or various places where I can venture with my camera. Photography is really big to me and I am doing what I can to get more versatile and working on getting more exposure. It's rough. Fuck, I am going off topic... haha.
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    I've never been to Portland, so I don't know the scene there, but I've been to stripclubs all over the country, been in the business for about 8 years, and worked in 8-9 clubs. I see both sides of the problem.

    The problem being, it's a business which can be quite brutal at times, especially in higher-contact clubs. It's extremely hard on the dancers--most that I've known don't last more than 6 months, and only the strong or desperate dancers survive.

    They have to deal with every manner of bizarre perverts, men trying every trick in the book to get them to date them outside the club, blow them inside the club, bullshit artists weaving elaborate tales of their masculine/financial prowess, guys trying to get them to hang out for free by making them think they'll get dances "After we talk a while", etc., etc.

    Then they have to go onstage many times every night, often dancing to shitty music chosen by incompetent assholes posing as DJs, usually trying to run their own game. Then there's the managers--generally the lowest form of male humanity imaginable. In many clubs they won't get tipped, except by guys who try to grab as much ass (or more) as possible for one miserable dollar.

    The ability to actually perform, dance, put on a show under these circumstances is sorely tested. And the longer they do it, the harder it gets.

    One thing I have found to be true, as a customer and as a professional--money talks. Show your appreciation for the effort a good-looking woman is making to dance for you by giving her money without hesitation, and she will usually respond positively.
    I agree with everything that you say, but bolded a couple points that I completely can relate to. I used to spin vinyl and the reason that I no longer spin has to do with an over-saturation of people who think they know what the fuck they are doing. It made it a lot more difficult to get gigs, especially when you have "DJ NoName" out there peddling their lack of talent for cheaper than the guys that DO have skill. You get some managers or event promoters that prefer the talent over no talent, but it becomes pretty competitive and leads to drama and shit talking amongst those people. I am not into the drama and just wanted to spin records but it became more of a chore than something fun to do on the side and make a lil extra bank. There are too many people out there with no concept of music or how to put things together for different occasions. A lot of the motivation is status quo. People use the title as a way to get "in" with different things. The title of "DJ" really has no meaning anymore, at least in my own opinion. It's gotten to where anyone can bring in a laptop with a folder of mp3s and do their own thing. Now, that's not a bad thing but being GOOD is key. I have also played drums for many years so music is a huge part of my life. I find myself being a critic when I go to a strip club or regular club with a live DJ. I learned over the course of 3 years how to move a crowd, how to control the crowd, and how to keep things poppin. I have also learned from others how to avoid trainwrecks by example. I am such a complainer, haha.

    In terms of money.. With ANYTHING, you get what you pay for. If a dancer impresses me, she gets my money, bottom line. I know what I like and I tip on what I like. In my small amount of experience, I have seen dancers not have any clue to what they are doing. I don't understand why they continue with the same routine at a different stage when they just left the previous one with hardly any cash. Obviously that should be a hint that the way they just performed was not popular with the crowd. Different strokes for different folks, and I know that perhaps that same routine MIGHT work for someone else but if you hop to 2 different stages, bust out the same shit and get a shitty response both times then you are doing something wrong and should change up your game/hustle. Shaking tits in my face doesn't impress me. I can watch titties bounce all night long for free by streaming sleazy porn.

    It's not rocket science by any means. I am a fairly educated person and I have a short attention span which contributes to me chasing after different hobbies all the time. It was a real problem when I was younger because I kept jumping from job to job but in the long run it really helped getting versed in different technical areas and keeping me extremely stable and versatile with what I do now. Once again, going off topic.

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    Believe it or not, there are people in the business who regard stripping as an art form, or at least as an occupation with the potential for that sort of thing. And there's a lot of them right here, trust me! I have always tried for this as a DJ, though not as much recently as I am in a very fast-paced club right now--there's not much time for creativity (though I'm working on it, lol).

    With your background, I hope you check out Music Mix, there are a lot of DJs and music aficionados there.
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    i think of stripping as an art form, but i find that the majority of the customers i encounter do not.

    you said you live in a very "adult industry saturated" city. that probably has a lot to do with why most of the girls in your area don't do more than "take it off" and "walk around on stage".

    it could be because they either feel they don't "need" to do anything more, or (what i find to be true) it could be that most customers in your area don't respond well to actual "shows". this is probably even more true if your city is known for high contact dances. those areas tend to attract customers who are looking for just that...... contact. most of them don't want teasing or a show with it. they'd rather "get down to bussiness".

    see this thread for more on that subject:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=92825

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    Quote Originally Posted by tehnick View Post
    The only way for me to get female attention is to wave money around at a strip club.
    The only way I get money attention is to wave females around!

    If you ever think a woman isn't explosive, DROP ONE!

    You are the customer. You have the power to do your part and pay the woman who puts on a show that interests you. A beautiful woman that just takes her clothes off is about as useful to me as a sandpaper fleshlight.

    I spend my time/money on the performers. It's a me thing
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    I spend my time/money on the performers. It's a me thing
    and bless you for that. <3

    there's a few guys on here who've said the same, so i know "your kind" still exists. gives me hope! of course, i think most of the "other" customers would steer clear of the stripperweb forums alltogether, esp. the pink side.

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