I have a problem...alot of the younger guys I give dances to (and even some who just see me on stage and I sit with for a minute) just want to go out with me...and just won't fucking give up. I try not to tell customers I have a bf because I think seeming somewhat "available" goes with the fantasy. But at times I've had to say, yeah I have a man....and they still don't give up. I don't want to be a jerk and I'd like to continues to take their money as long as I can. How do you girls that have been dancing for a while handle guys that "just want to take you somewhere nice and classy" or go to the beach or blah blah blah without losing them as a customer? I know sometimes you will lose them but I'd like to keep as many as possible. And often these guys are actually very polite so I'd like to not be a bitch.
I actually always had trouble rejecting guys even when I wasn't dancing...I'd be the one to go out on one date with a guy and then never ever return a phone call because I had such a problem just saying no.
So help me please? And thankyou![]()





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with u on that.

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