Definitely move on. Not to be an ass but men usually don't want to be friends with women purely for the companionship. You'd probably be maintaining a friendship with the idea that something could develop again, no? Even if that weren't the case, it's so painful to try to be friends with someone in this type of situation. You try to move on, then you hear about your *friend's* new love, new opportunities and know you aren't a part of that... and it kind of twists your heart. Or maybe that's just me
Just let her do her own thing. My guess is if she REALLY wanted you the age would not be an issue, and obviously she is over here marriage enough to be seeing some other guy.
You sound like a stand-up guy. You should feel very proud that you were able to help someone so much. Know that there'll be other women out there for you.
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