Ladies, I think I'm going to have to choke out a male friend.
I've been friends with this guy not too long. We began befriending once another around 3 or 4 months ago. Nice guy it seemed. A lot in common etc. It was someone local that wasn't friends with my BF or someone I worked with. IE he was all my friend. I kinda need that shit right now.
At any rate.over the last few months he's gotten progressively stranger and stranger.
We don't hang out in person much at all, due to the fact I'm either at work or with Chris when he's home from tour. My schedule is sorta around those two factors. However, Chris was gone on tour and he asked if I wanted to go hang one afternoon and since I didn't have work till later and nothing else going on I agreed. But I said " hey when you figure out when and where you wanna meet up let me know " I said this via AIM ( I have a sidekick so it's always on. ) He doesn't have a cell phone ( yah i know..) so I sorta needed him to IM me with the info . He said "okay " and signed off.
Well when the time drew closer and closer ,with no IM i just went ahead and went into work early. As soon as I got there he sent me a msg. I told him., " yo I can't hang..I waited and nothing so I went on to work. ".
He writes back " I can't control when you get your msgs! "
I was kinda floored because it was not only rude but totally weird to even say. I told him I was aware of that. Then he came back with " maybe we can be friends when I get a cell phone "
The dude is 28 years old. There is NO reason for that. Not only that but a few weeks ago I saw he was online and I said " hey whats up " and he wrote back. "whatever" I said " what" and he put in all caps " I SAID WHATEVER"
I had let that go because seriously we all have our bad days. I'm starting to think this dude is fucking crazy. OR just an over all prick. He's suppposed to be my friend. So why so mean? I've not said anything back at all. Because why argue with a friend. Isn't the point of having em' ..not have argue and to have fun. I think he has issues that are far out of my capability to handle.
Totally bums me out though, I won't lie. People just keep fucking disappointing my ass.
So should I say something, or just block him on AIM, delete him from myspace and figure he doesn't really deserve a response ?


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, because it's happening with one of my best friends now. We met while I was with my ex and he was in a long-distance relationship, so no romantic feelings. But then she left him, and then he started acting all distant and weird, practically stopped calling me and made excuses not to do things with me, and was actually pretty rude to me when we did talk. Until my ex and I broke up...then he started acting normal (except for when he was trying to make out with me or get me to mess around with him, but after awhile he seemed to get that I loved him as a friend but didn't want to date or have sex.) So things were good for about a year...but now that I'm interested in someone again, he's back to ignoring me, acting weird and rude and yeah...it disappoints me. I already lost most of the friends I had when my ex and I broke up, just b/c they were mutual friends and I had to get away from that whole social circle. Now I lose one of my best friends b/c he can't deal with me seeing another guy? bullshit.



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