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    Hey everyone..
    Ok I'm 43 and I feel like I look better now than ever! I'm thinking about stripping for EXTRA cash because I want to start my own business and need extra income but I'm embarrassed that the clubs will laugh when they see my ID! Am I derranged to think I can strip at my age? BTW I know how to ride the pole LOL..
    Appreciate advice..THANKS GIRLS!!
    Desi

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    First off *waves* welcome to the forum

    I think this will answer your questions...

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=60870

    Nice to have you here and I really hope you find your inner stripper and let her out!
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    There are many threads about ages and how old is too old. If that's you in the avatar and you look as good as that pic, you will do great as a stripper. Age doesn't matter as long as you're hot. You certainly won't be laughed at - in fact a whole lot of people will respect you more for looking so hot at 43.

    Older strippers usually do better than younger ones because we know more about how to deal with men, and many men LOVE a hot "older" chic. However, part of the reason many of us older girls do better is we have years of experience as strippers - something you don't have. The point is, your age can help you to a degree, but at the same time you lack the experience to really maximize your earnings. You can certainly make good money though. Go for it!

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    ^^^ Bridgette's right, age doesn't matter as long as you're HOT! I'm 36 and look Hot hehehe.... ...I'm still dancing and Love It! Besides from the look of your pic...I'd say go for it!!!

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    shit, woman, i HOPE I look like you at 43!!!! You look sensational!! And confidence is key- obviously you have it in spades! bridgette is right, too- many men love more mature women who aren't naive and have experienced life and can speak to them on their level. Go for it!

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    You look seriously hot from your picture. I sure you'll do fine. There is a girl at my club that is 52 and I didn't believe it until i heard it from 5 different people that have access to the computers (we have our licenses and fingerprints scanned to log into work). No one will laugh at you when you go to get hired. The proof is in the puddin, not in an arbitrary number. The only regrets we have in life are the risks we don't take. Go for it!!!
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    First things first ~ You are hot! But even if you were not I'd say go for it! Just try it. The audience will see how much you enjoy it and the rest will come naturally. Stripping like any dance or art form is an expression of self. Yes there are basic moves, techniques etc but after that it is totally unique. Each dancer has something new to bring to the stage. Good luck, smile, and most important!!! Have fun!!
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    Don't worry about the age thing. If you've got it WORK IT!! I'm a "late bloomer" myself started at the age of 32. Ex-pilot in the military, but wasn't happy until I started dancing! Do what you you gotta do to get yours and make yourself happy!! Life is short enjoy it! Good Luck!!

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    Not to be the negative one, but I'd say age matters for particular clubs. Certain clubs are extremely updtight and strict about looks and age. From my xp tho, as long as you're looking good the age thing shouldn't be a problem with a vast majority of the clubs...
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    not that you wouldn't be able to work nights, but you might want to consider dayshift. there are generally more older men on dayshift looking for women closer to their age. many of them own their own bizz and use their cellphone as the #1 means of communication with clients. so, they come into the club to have fun. chat with someone, etc. while waiting for calls or in "downtime". they're also the type that tend to becomes "regulars".

    i see it constantly. i've had a few myself.

    nights are more full of younger guys looking for younger girls (in general). their are still older men, but far less than dayshift.

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    there's absolutely nothing to prevent a dancer for working (and banking) at ANY age ... as long as she's got the goods in terms of appearance / personality.

    I also concur that there are many upscale clubs out there where much of the customer base would prefer to spend time and money on a 'mature' woman close to their own age, rather than on a dancer who is young enough to be their daughter.

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    Yeah, you look great. You should go for it.

    But I do want to warn you. Into every strippers life a little jackass must come come calling. Everyone's had an experience with a guy who's obviously out to be a dick. They'll try to find SOMETHING you might be self conscious about and prey on that. I'm just saying this because if it does happen, I want you to know not to put too much weight on it. It happens to everyone, whether they're older, have gained an extra pound, have smaller breasts, etc. But it's pretty rare, most people are pretty decent, and you're gorgeous. You should definately go for it.

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    If that's you in your avatar you're hot! Get yourself to the club and start banking!



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    Hello??? Any updates???



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    Wow thanks everyone for the feedback..I feel better now. I'm going to do an amateur night next Wed at the Hustler Club. Wish me luck girls!!

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    You look great in the photo and should do just fine !

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    Hey. You look great in the picture! I'd say the age may be important in smaller clubs, i.e. in California where there is not a lot of business to begin with. However, in a place like Las Vegas there are a plenty of women who started late. If you take good care of yourself and can carry on a conversation, you'll do just fine. Good luck!

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    good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by southernspice07 View Post
    Don't worry about the age thing. If you've got it WORK IT!! I'm a "late bloomer" myself started at the age of 32. Ex-pilot in the military, but wasn't happy until I started dancing! Do what you you gotta do to get yours and make yourself happy!! Life is short enjoy it! Good Luck!!
    you flew in the military? my brother would kill to have that job! which branch did you fly for?

    oh, sorry for being off topic there folks!

    to the o.p. if that's you in your icon, you look awesome! great dark hair and everything! good luck!

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    Hope your contest/audition went well. Keep us posted!

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    How did it go?

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    ya, how did it go?????

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    Hey girls!
    Well amateur night was interesting. There was this girl that was an expert pole dancer. She kicked the rest of our asses but it was still ok. NOt impressed with the clubs in Orange County. Polishing up my pole skills and heading north to LA ha ha..thanks for all your support and kind words.
    Desi

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    The clubs in LA suck just as badly... I'm waiting to get my taste of the new Penthouse club out here. If you are seriously in need of xtra $$$, make the drive to Vegas. I suggest weeknights (not insanely crowded, but still plenty of $$$ to make it a worthy trip). Cali clubs are just doomed in general due to the harsh laws here. I prefer clubs in TX and NY.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fifi View Post
    But I do want to warn you. Into every strippers life a little jackass must come come calling.
    Can I quote you in my siggy? (Seriously, I want to.) That was just awesome!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Strippers are like ninjas. You never know how many there are or if the person next to you is one.
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    ...I assume you probably don't want to deal with pervs, and the guys that just don't give a fuck about money are like unicorns...
    Quote Originally Posted by Sinder View Post
    I know I have said it before, and I'll say it again.... THE VAGINA IS NOT A CLOWN CAR!


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