I did some search on the subject,but it didn't turn out too many results.So I'll ask again since I REALLY need advice..
Anyways,I have a question for the ladies....How do you feel giving a lapdance with a good amount of one way contact to a very close long time platonic male friend?
Imagine this.....without going into too many details...You've know this person for about 9 years and he's been a great customer who turned into a close friend,but nothing ever more.You have been entertaining him at a club you've been for many years,where lapdancing is not allowed,with once an hour nude stage show and conversation.Occasional dinners and theatre.Personal boundaries never crossed.Then later you are across country in a club that has medium one-way contact and he suddenly insists in a very pushy way to fly across country "to visit you as a friend and go sightseeing",and is very persistent about visiting your club.You fell like he just wants to finally have a chance of you rubbing over him and living out his possible fantasy he's had for many years,not really to go sightseeing.You even mention that you feel very uncomfortable with this,but he keeps pushing and saying weird shit like:"We're both consenting adults".And just the thought of his eager anticipation makes you sick.You are fine giving anybody that dance,but just not close people like that.A thought of him asking in the past:"I'm not a customer am I?You take me as a friend,right?" also comes to mind.
What to do?You don't want to lose a long time friend but can't bring yourself to cross the line out of feeling too awkward.Is it weird to feel that way?Is there some way to get out of this and not feel bad?



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