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    Default Customers who want "special treatment" -- how to deal?

    Hi all! I just started dancing (coming up on the two week mark!!) and I had some questions.

    Lots of the guys who come into my club want to know what they can "get away with" in VIP.

    I tell them the rules and they a) scoff b) ask me if I can do anything besides that c) tell me they "know they owner" and whatever they want to do is fine

    I haven't had a serious problem, but what's the best way to handle this?

    Obviously I don't do and don't want to do anything extra, as it's disgusting, would freak me out, and get me fired.

    But is there a sexy, clever way I can get out of this? Business is really really slow right now and if I can squeeze a few dollars out of these guys before just acting indignant and walking away, it would help... The other girls at the club seem to have no problem with these jerks, and I do not think they're doing any extras either (pretty strict club, thank god). I would ask them for advice, but quite honestly, they scare the crap out of me...

    Thanks. Sorry if this is a dumb question...

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    Well, honestly I just walk away from those guys. When they are that obnoxious and hell bent on extras...they arent going to settle for less and I hate wasting my time.

    But If you want to keep trying...tell them that you know the owner too..and you're pretty sure he'd be pissed if his "friends"(which they are NOT..they rarely ever are) were trying to scam one of his girls into doing something illegal.
    Or you can have a bouner explain the rules to them...in the guise of a "tour" of the VIP area. They are much less likely to brng up extras or being friends with owner if they are talking to a guy as opposed to a stupid, druggie, whore stripper(which sadly is the image most of these guys have of us)

    Tell them that you dont have any set routine..you just like to go with the flow and do what feels good to you. (they will get the impression of extras...when you CLEARLY said....do what feels good to YOU)Then make DAMN sure a bouncer is watching you like a hawk.

    I dont know what your club or the girls there are like....but dont be afraid of them. Worst they can do is be bitchy if you ask. Best is they can help you make a lot of money...worth the gamble. Find one that doesnt seem bitchy and say that you are new to dancing and would appreciate her advice. Many of us have "mentored" newbies at one time or another..it's common to fnd a big sister in the club!

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    Default Re: Customers who want "special treatment" -- how to deal?

    ok this one is mean as all hell but if they are persistant they deserve it. i get the ones who keep pushing for "extra's" alot so what i do is tell them to get confortable and id be happy to make this a memorable night stuff like that really really hinting that they will get what they want when in the room i tell them to be ready when i get back i have to potty and make sure we have all we need but to be all ready for me because we dont have alot of time.

    now heres the mean part because you always get your money up front i walk out to the nearest bouncer/manager and tell them that the man in the VIP room has his pants down and refuses to pull them up

    and 1 they rarely try to get a girl to do "extra's" again
    2 they are so embarressed they just leave you alone
    3 you got the money and they learned a lesson
    4 its really funny to watch them turn red when the bouncer comes in

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    ^^^ i'm sorry but that's fucked up. It would be one thing if it was true and they really did take their pants down and refused to pull them up, but that's a lie. You pretty much told them to do it and then go act like it was their idea. If they are that persistant just walk away, instead of lying and ripping people off.

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    Isn't it funny how all the handsy extras assholes "know the owner"

    When trying to squeeze a dance out of these guys its almost always going to result in a wrestling match where you have to pry his hands off the whole song. Its really just not worth it.

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    Here's a funny-ass thread about the same bullshit we are speaking of!...And no...this is NOT a stupid question...it is one of my biggest pet peeves!

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...really+manager



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    dont waste your time giving them a lesson...say..lets just start off with a topless and see how you like it. that way you get a little bit out of him. this if he is naive pr curious....

    or if hes a shithead

    wave the bouncer over and say..this guy wants to know how much it is for _______.

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    I had a dude start pushing for extras once and he really did know the owner. And unfortunately, the owner would probably have preferred that I "show his friend an extra good time." I said I didn't do that, he reminded me (again) that he was friends with the owner, and I told him, "Tony owns the club. He doesn't own ME." Believe it or not, that worked. The guy settled for a regular dance and wound up buying four more.

    I wouldn't expect that to work very often though. Most of the guys who demand extras and claim to "know the owner" are not worth your time or effort.

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    I wish there was some kind of magical formula for this. I get so burned out over this sometimes. Usually I'll just be really bubbly and cute and say, "I guarantee you'll have a great time with me!" Sometimes it works but sometimes not. If they keep pushing I just move on. It's not worth it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I said I didn't do that, he reminded me (again) that he was friends with the owner, and I told him, "Tony owns the club. He doesn't own ME."
    That's perfect, I'm going to use that from now on. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkkitten View Post
    ^^^ i'm sorry but that's fucked up. It would be one thing if it was true and they really did take their pants down and refused to pull them up, but that's a lie. You pretty much told them to do it and then go act like it was their idea. If they are that persistant just walk away, instead of lying and ripping people off.
    what's even more fucked up is that in a lot of clubs, this is the only way to make money, say you're down with the HJ/BJ/sex whatever, take their money up front, and walk out once they start to get frisky

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Tell them that you dont have any set routine..you just like to go with the flow and do what feels good to you. (they will get the impression of extras...when you CLEARLY said....do what feels good to YOU)Then make DAMN sure a bouncer is watching you like a hawk.
    I do something similar...

    custy: "so what do I get back there?" in a way that clearly means "i'm looking for extras".
    me: *smile and shrug, looking him straight in the eyes* "it depends."
    custy: "depends on what?"
    me: "depends on how much you make me like you."

    this works more often than not, if they actually do have the money. One, it's basically a way of saying You Must Tip Me if you want to have a good time. Two, it's misleading enough so that they make the ASSumption in their little heads "if i tip her extra in VIP I'll get extras"...but it's not soliciting, as it's not actually saying that they'll get anything illegal. (Which they won't anyway, and serves them right when I take their money and NOT give them what they wanted )

    With the whole "i know the manager/owner, so I should get special treatment" crap, I'll respond with "oh well in that case, I'll go have a talk with him about you and see what he says I can do for you." It's funny to watch these losers stammering and tripping over themselves saying "oh no no that's ok no don't say anything um nevermind".

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    The only time a guy REALLY knows the owner is when the owner is the one who gives you $20 and points to his friend and says "go give him a dance"

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    if you are bored, just talk about how you're going to rape their asses, or make them eat poop. then they'll realize it's a stupid question, but they might buy a dance because they think you are perverted and fun (not because you will actually do those things, because you'll be all disappointed that its against the rules). guys like fun, and you can make them behave by making it more fun to do what you say than to not do what you say. If they get grossed out, they are just garden variety perverts with no sense of humor and not manageable anyhow.

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    A guy was getting grabby, when I yet again told him to cut it out, he told me, matter of factly, that I should "stop being a bitch, because I know the owner".

    I stopped dancing completely, got real wide eyed and happy, and said "You know my uncle Tony?! Aw, he's my favoroite relative, and he says I'm his favorite niece! He always tells me I'mhis princess. That's so great you know him, want me to go get him?"

    And he stammered, panicked, looked like he was going to wet himself, gave me my money, and RAN out of the club.

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    the girl i drive at night usually gets nose to nose with grabby customers and tells them "if you can't keep your hands to yourself........ i'll cuff you and my friend over there (points to me) will have a field day making you piss blood for the rest of the week." with a really sexxy grin usually holding the guys balls in a vise-grip hold. i usually jingle the cuffs i carry when she points to me. i have yet to use the cuffs and all our customers know the owner, they do business with him.

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    BE STRONG AND STUBBORN. Naturally, you will become more relaxed and comfortable dealing with strange men, but don't change your principle. I was the most timid, awkward, prudish dancer to begin with, and I had customers tell me I would be out of business if I didn't start "loosening up". Well, it's been over 2 years and I never really changed anything (except i got a bit more confident) and I still bank.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manchester View Post
    what's even more fucked up is that in a lot of clubs, this is the only way to make money, say you're down with the HJ/BJ/sex whatever, take their money up front, and walk out once they start to get frisky
    Well, the problem with even PROMISING extras (even if you don't deliver) is against the law in most states. I really would advise against that route, since it's generally more harm than good. But other than that, I get my money up front, tell them they'll have an enjoyable one-on-one naked fun, and deal with it from there. But out and out lying NEVER works out in the end.
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