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    Default How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    Last evening a guy stopped me as I was walking by him. He wanted to know how much would it be to have a drink with me... I told him MY drinks are $40 dollars to which I knew he might reply..."WHaaaa thats SO MUCH!"

    "Well there IS the back room and we can have more fun in there."

    I usually hate selling drinks and I make more money selling table dances.

    Anyhow, he asks what the price is etc. and we go.

    Then he asks me the rules. I tell him there is NO grabbing what so ever. I dont like people clutching at me like hungry desperate slime balls.

    Now touching is illegal where Im at... but if a customer is cool and collect I may slide next to him for a second or two. Its not something I mind considering Im so used to having done lap dances in another state.

    Anyhow this dude keeps grabbing me. I push him back in the booth and tell him he needs to behave... that I will come to him.

    But next thing I know he's at it AGAIN... and end of song. This dude is such a assh*le he tries to cheat me out of the dance money.

    Needless to say after I got my money and the no tip for having grabbed my tits... I told him he was an asshole.

    My question is, for slimes like this can I tell them they have to throw down $100 or something if they want to even consider getting that grabby? My point being is... I dont think they have $100 to put down. So that might be more incentive for them to behave or should I just nail him in the crotch with my shoe?

    I warned him that there were cameras in the room and that we are being watched by the door guy... I just dont know when its appropriate to kill a man. (Thats a joke... I dont actually try to kill people)

    Anyone have any advice for this scenario?

    Occasionally I get a guy that thinks for $25 bucks he can man handle me.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    My question is, for slimes like this can I tell them they have to throw down $100 or something if they want to even consider getting that grabby? My point being is... I dont think they have $100 to put down. So that might be more incentive for them to behave or should I just nail him in the crotch with my shoe?
    fair warning: saying that can be considered prositution in many states. you said it's illegal to touch at all where you are. well then.. saying "put 100 dollars up front and you can get a little grabby" is illegal.

    i also advise against it because the customer is going to think it means "if i pay 100 dollars i can do whatever i want".

    i also advise against talking to those guys in the first place. i say, leave as soon as you figure out they're going to be handsy as shit, unless you think you can control them by holding their hands the whole time (which i do occasionaly) or some other such method.

    most of the time though, it's not worth the money.

    oh and.. if you -are- feeling desperate enough to deal with someone you have a strong feeling will be a handsy customer (which happens.. esp when it's slow) get your money up front from him. that way you can leave the dance if he "won't take no for an answer".

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    Thats the thing though... He didnt show any signs that he was a freak until we got in the back room. From what I could tell, I thought he was an older "gentleman"...

    Im not saying, "Here, give me a $100 and you can touch me." I was hoping a benjamin would scare him off and make him comply. But I guess there is a good chance that he would have $100 bucks and he would believe he could do more.

    But Im thinking after the fact... ya know, he's already touched your breasts... and you didnt want him to... and the whole fact that he DID for $25 bucks is so... unerving. Like he stole candy from the candy store... if that analogy does any justice.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    i just give one warning. if they try again, i tell them the dance is over and (if i haven't gotten it) i demand my money. this is where having good bouncers and working in a club that backs the girls is helpfull.

    i'm pretty good at getting my point across though, so i only have to do this -rarely- (say once every 4 months).

    thursday a guy was getting handsy with me. i told him to stop and he tried one more time, putting his hands right on my breasts. i took both of his hands in mine and slightly bent his fingers backwards. after that he sat with his hands by his sides the rest of the dance.

    normaly i would have ended it after try 2.. but i needed money and it was really slow. if he had tried again though, i would have eneded it regaurdless.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    A friend of mine pushes them back against the seat and almost yells, "stop it! you let me have control here!" It works for her.



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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    That sucks. At my club, the other day a (pretty experienced) girl came into the bathroom pissed off because a guy'd whipped out his dick during a private dance... she said she made him give her $60 to deal with having to look @ his penis and that the bouncer hadn't kicked him out, for some fucked up reason! I've never had that happen but I think that you could confidently ask for that money if you wanted to -- I've done it before. Some guy grabbed my tit in the middle of the dance... I grabbed his wrist and dug in and told him he had to tip me a lot. Well he gave me like $80 for the dance and even bought one for his friend (!) so I'd say ask for it if you want it. If you're truly pissed off then you get the satisfaction of demanding money and possibly kneeing him in the balls if you're that sort.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    If a guy is too grabby I just continue smiling, back away out of his reach, and give him an air dance. The funny part is, I let a guy who is respectful "get away" with more than a guy who I am afraid is going to grab me. Maybe because I know he won't push it too far and make me uncomfortable.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    You have a couple of options. My favorite, get your money up front and kick him out as soon as he touches you. You explained the rules. Not your fault he didn't follow them.

    Number 2, as above, back up as far as possible out of his reach and finish the dance that way.

    Number 3, after the dance tell him he owes you more money for his behavior. You may or may not get it.

    I'd go with 1, though. I never once let a customer get away with touching me. I never even gave a second chance. I explained the rules beforehand.
    There are three kinds of people in the world, those that can count, and those that can't.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    (as i mentioned) i "hold their hands" while i'm dancing. my manager and bouncers all know this is my "signal" for "this customer is being handsy" so they keep a really good eye out any time i do so.

    if no one is watching us or if the guy is -really- bad, i'll either give him an air dance or i'll end the dance, depending on the severity.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    Grabby custies are not worth hustling IMO.
    If they try to grab u while u are hustling them, they are going to be worse during a dance.

    The money is not worth having to fight off a grabby prick IMO.

    My club doesnt allow touching either. Custies have to pay before the dance starts and club policy is that if they touch u, u end the dance, inform security and yes get to keep the money. Its their problem, they are warned before hand.

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    This is why I frequently dance with one knee in their crotch(my club is full contact friction). They get ONE warning if they do something not allowed or that I dont like ...if they do it again..oops..sorry, you startled me by doign EXACTLY what I JUST told you not to do and I fell and crushed your balls. Guess you'll listen next time 'eh?

    I do however know my bouncers will back me up so I'm not afraid of not getting paid..they'll get it out of him if I cant ..one way or another. And even if I didnt get paid..it's better than continuing to have someone molest me when I've said no.

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    Default Re: How do you hustle the grabby guys?

    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Grabby custies are not worth hustling IMO.
    If they try to grab u while u are hustling them, they are going to be worse during a dance.
    I agree. I don't want to have to play kung fu stripper while giving a dance, so I don't try and hustle the guys that are all grabby.

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