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    Hey everyone me again!
    Ok so I’m supposed to go in an audition tonight and I’m getting really nervous!! I actually called and everything, so this time is really it, I’m really going in! I’m getting really scared though! I’m very nervous getting ready and everything seems to be off today. My make up is off, normally I can get it to look even and everything, now it seems to be uneven and patchy. I have red bumps where I shaved my bikini, I’m sweating cuz I’m nervous so I will probably stink by the time I get there. And before I was so sure about this and now I’m second guessing myself like “do I really want to do this”, “can I really do this”, am I crazy for even thinking I can do this? Normally I’m a pretty shy person. Then I think about my husband. What if his friends or someone he knows, really does walk in while I’m dancing? What would I do? My husband is actually taking me in for my audition tonight. I wanted someone with me since I have never drove there on my own before and I am really nervous about that, so he said he would ride with me so I know where I’m going for next time. Is it weird to have my husband drive me to my audition? Is it a personal choice whether I wear my ring or not, or will the club frown upon it? UHHH sooo many questions running through my mind!! Oh yeah and how do u get your underwear back on after dancing (in a sexy way)?! I have been practicing and cant seem to figure it out! I either look awkward or almost fall on my face trying to be sexy! I am so excited and nervous at the same time!!

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    Default Re: Really Nervous!!!!!

    Well, of course you're nervous, you're about to go do something new and scary!!! All I can say is do it! Everyone is scared their first time. My husband took me to my first audition, too, and it really helped me to know he was in the car waiting for me while I was in there.

    Good luck!

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    I agree...it's totally normal to be nervous. To address the issues you bring up:

    Your makeup is off because you are fretting about it being perfect. Dont worry..it doesnt have to be perfect and will look even in a dark club even if it isnt.

    Next time, after you shave, swipe the area with stick depderant...will help stop the red bumps(razor burn). In the meantime...dont worry..again, it wont really be noticable in a dark club.

    As for the sweating..take a deep breath and RELAX. I know it's scary..but it's no big deal. If you dont like it...walk out and never go back. It isnt as if you are obligated...just think of it as a really wild night out! For now...keep deoderant on you and body spray and baby wipes. If you feel sweaty...go wipe down with the baby wipes, reapply deoderant and body spray and poof..you smell all pretty again. We all do it...so nolbody will think it is odd. It is hot under the stage lights at times..esp when you are whipping around a pole at 30 miles an hour...so sweating is normal even for veteran strippers!

    If someone you know sees you and you dont want to admit that you are auditioning for a job..just say you lost a bet. They'll think you are wild and cool..no worries!

    Your hubby driving you is also no biggie..though if he is planning to come in and watch..dont tell anyone that he is your husband. Say hes a friend or a cousin or whatever...many clubs have a no boyfriends/husbands in the club rule. So if they know he's your hubby he may not be allowed in.

    Wearing your ring or not is your choice...I've never known a club to care. Beware though that it may cost you money. There are a lot of guys who wont get dances or even tip a girl they know is married. Some girls are able to pull it off...but most of us who are married dont let custies know that. You are a fantasy. Always SEEM available, but never BE available.


    Good luck and let us know how it goes!

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    Default Re: Really Nervous!!!!!

    Have you every sang, played an instrument or acted in front of a crowd? If so you have probably had a time when you were so into what you were doing you were completely engrossed to the point you almost forgot there were other people in the room, and when it was over you couldn't help but think it all happened so quickly?
    That's what your first time dancing will be like( it was for me anyway)

    Work with the butterflies, tell yourself they are there because you are excited! this is a great opportunity to try something you haven't done before and it will be an exhilirating experience. Try to keep a big smile on your face and have fun. Don't worry if you look silly, heck i fell on my butt two nights ago at work but got up and laughed it off.

    All the best

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