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    Hey there,

    I'm not one of the bigger money making girls at my club. VIP's and big tips are very few and far between for the likes of me...here's the issue: last night a guy "made it rain" on me. He threw about $30 bux on stage while I rolled around, which prompted a few other guys to "not be outdone" and make it drizzle on me whereas they probably would've tipped a buck each. I felt extreme gratitude toward the guy (young and not rich looking). He didn't have to do that, nor do the guys who tip exhorbitant amounts for the lapdances, nor do the guys who buy several champagne rooms. Anyway, I don't know what to say afterwards without embarassing me or him, but I also want them to have a good experience and want to do it again. In the "rain" case, when my set was done I did a kind of small namaste bow and smiled real big and mouthed thank you. Sometimes I say something like "thank you so, so much. That's very nice of you". But, I just have the feeling that I'm embarassing them or something!! I didnt' go back to the rain guy after that set cuz I didn't want him to think I expected him to do it again. How do you express your serious gratitude? Please help me be cool!!!!! But also thankful.

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    I havent started dancing yet, but I know a HUG goes a far way!

    You could tell him that he just made your night and guys like him are the reason you come to the club, or do your hair like this, etc...

    Sorry I guess these would work more for the Lap dances then the stage tips

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    Guys who make it rain are LOOKING for attention usually. I'd have DEF. gone up to him after I got down, given him a big hug and thanked him. Then, because he obviously doesnt have a problem spending money and wanted to get your attention...ask him about dances or champagne rooms. Guys dont usually do this kind of thing if they DONT want you to come over!! Take it as a sign that he wants to spend on you!

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    Yea I've said something like "wow thanks you really made my night!" when I'm tipped very well. Followed by a big hug. That usually goes very well. We don't do laps at this club but I do invite them back afterwards.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    Yea I've said something like "wow thanks you really made my night!" when I'm tipped very well. Followed by a big hug. That usually goes very well. We don't do laps at this club but I do invite them back afterwards.
    I do pretty much the same thing. It's easy and sweet.

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    Extreme gratitude makes you seem desperate, which probably makes them uncomfortable.

    Say thank you, but say it like you expected them to tip you big and expect them to do it again.



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    where i dance the custies aren't allowed to touch us at all, so a hug would be out of the questions and yeah i agree with lena, extreme gratitude does suggest that it doesnt happen to you often....
    if he's a regular make sure you find him next time he's in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    Extreme gratitude makes you seem desperate, which probably makes them uncomfortable.

    Say thank you, but say it like you expected them to tip you big and expect them to do it again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    Extreme gratitude makes you seem desperate, which probably makes them uncomfortable.

    Say thank you, but say it like you expected them to tip you big and expect them to do it again.
    agreed. i think what u did was good enough u said thank-you.

    now enough with the negative thinking about yourself.

    YOU ARE:

    - a top earner
    - u are worth 5 hours straight in VIP
    - u are worth BIG TIPS

    Come on start telling yourself this stuff honey, attitude is everything.

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    I love money rain . I just smile and dance extra super sexy for them, and lots of eye contact.


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    ive been dancing 6 years and never got a money rain. that seems something the hip hop guys do and they dont genrally go for me.

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    I have a guy who will money rain me anytime I dance to Pantera--Amusing since, like i.breathe.in said, I only see the hip hop guys do it.

    One time this hip hop guy was money-raining my friend whil she was on stage. They're both pretty hip hop so they were loving it. I wanted to get into the party but I was broke so I went up next to him and threw three dollars at him and was like "WOOOOOO". He was like "Yeah, you go girl, you making it sprinkle!" lol

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    I dunno, I think *extreme* gratitude is a bit overdoing it. If it's a good stage tip situation, you give him extra attention at the stage, and that along with a sincere thanks is perfect. If it's a good tip after dances or VIP, then just smile and thank him sincerely. You don't need to make a big deal, and in fact if you DO make a huge deal out of it, I think it is a turnoff. Sincere thanks is the best way to go IMO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    He was like "Yeah, you go girl, you making it sprinkle!"
    Hahaha! That's hilarious!

    I've never had a money-rain either. I don't think I'd know what to do while it was happening. It doesn't seem like it would go with my usual stage-dancing style (which is slllllllloooooooooowwwww and sensual, and not really DANCING dancing at all).

    Then again, I AM very money motivated, so I'd probably pick up on what to do real quick.

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    I just like, get down and do floor work in the money. Like lay on my back and do shit while they throw it on me. Fun times.

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    Yeah, the guy wasn't hip hop. He was a metrosexual Middle Eastern dude. I just rolled around under it and in it. But, yeah, I definately turned them off by acting too desperate. They left the club when I got on stage again, lol!! Thanks so much for the tips. I will definately try to play it cool next time.

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    Yeah, you don't want to get excited or they start wondering whether they're doing something unusual. If you call attention to the fact that they don't have to tip generously, then they won't do it. You have to exude the grace and confidence that encourage high tips, expecting them as though you get them all the time. Acknowledgement, a smile, and a little something special onstage (a sexy move, a hug, whatever) will suffice. Anything else is overkill.

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    Way before I ever started dancing, a dancer I had just tipped got up and moved away from me on stage... then turned to me and mouthed "thankyou." I felt so special. I always do that now that I dance when it's a good tip.

    In general, if a guy tips you well on stage, get off the stage at the end of your set and go directly to him, simply thank him, and assume that he wants to spend some time with you. Just assume. hehe. Sell him some dances, or get him in a room.
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