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    I originally responded to a Forum thread in the "Site Issues" section of the "Services" area, but since it's located way at the bottom, I wanted to "cut-and-paste" in order to make a "broadcast" apology...

    Mileia 777 & Lilith M (plus anyone else I've offended):

    I sincerely apologize if I've overstepped my boundaries. I was originally referred to this site in May 2007 by an SW poster/L.A. dancer named White Tara. "Budai" means "Laughing Buddha", and I chose the name because I am known to my friends and family as a joker ("You can call me 'Spanky'" was a one-line joke, not a demand)...

    I will celebrate my 15th wedding anniversary on July 12th and I actually share some of the funnier or more interesting SW posts with my wife. We have 2 sons that we are raising to respect and love women.Like many people, I have "issues," but they do not include malicious intent, secrecy or contempt for dancers.

    I have enjoyed my time in the Lounge, but will certainly curb my enthusiasm after reading your posts. I have 2 close friends (not mere acquaintances) who are dancers & I truly regret that you feel as though I have intruded on what is undeniably a sanctuary for you...

    I HAVE frequented the "youporn.com" thread "at least 15 times", but I've also visited other threads and I believe I'm capable of sharing information and expressing my editorial opinions rationally and respectfully.

    Milea777, I joked about your "7-7-7" post prior to visiting this thread. Please don't take it personally...

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    Everyone here has opinions about other SW members, and we are sometimes a little more critical of the men who come here. It's a stripper forum and you are a man with no affiliation in the business, so some may wonder why you are here. Just so you know, you have never offended me and you've never made me uncomfortable, just don't take the comments so personal. There are members here who like you, also.
    P.S. A broadcast apology was really unnecessary.

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    Maybe I have missed them, but I haven't seen anywhere where you have overstepped your bounds. You're one of the few decent men on this site.

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    Yeah I havent seen any overstepping either. So far so good...you're cool in my book.

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    SEE??? TOLJA I LIKED THIS ONE!!!! *dances around as she is proved correct.*

    budai, you gave me a good vibe right away. you're intelligent, i thought you were considerate, i think you're hilarious, you're welcome to stay (well, in my book anyway) as long as ya like!!!

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    It gets rough in here so just hold on .

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    Ummm.... you're fine by me. I figure as long as you don't call us ugly/fat/whores, we'll stay on good terms.

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    ...or say we stink

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    Well, I never noticed any problems, but if it makes you feel any better, I accept your apology.

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    You've not offended me at all. So far, so good mister!
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    I'll admit to have being very guarded and cynical lately because of douchebag assholes that have invaded my PM box who don't normally post on here, who have also called me the H-word.......amongst other things that have happened lately, like Strippergeek.com lurking the forums...That really weirded me out. So yeah...Mileia was doing some venting. I wasn't trying to stir up any drama.

    Though, it is very true of what Luckicharm said about the men on here who are not in the industry. A lot of dancers come here to feel safe, talk, chat, and be surrounded amongst other industry- related individuals....so we do tend to be a bit more analytical towards male members who are not currently affiliated with the business.

    But yeah....I guess only in a perfect world, everybody would get along with everybody on here.



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    Dude, I unknowingly offend someone at least every 5.4 minutes on stripperweb - I haven't noticed anything to that degree at all on your end. So...don't sweat it. Your presence hasn't bothered me one bit

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    SW dancers have way tougher sensibilities than you give them credit for. The apology obviously wasn't intended towards me but I still think it was unnecessary. I mean, if you think you are doing something wrong then just stop doing it. No need to make a federal case out of it.

    Casual advise...I do suggest that you stay out of Stripping General. It's not Ladies Only but has similar posting criteria. And you also might want to tone down the sucking up just a bit. I can't find the link but I know there is a thread here somewhere that clearly demonstrates that dancers like bad boys with an attitude not nice guys.

    Good luck. If you survive here past the first month or so you are probably good to go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    And you also might want to tone down the sucking up just a bit.
    Heh... this came across my mind as well...

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    The apology obviously wasn't intended towards me but I still think it was unnecessary. I mean, if you think you are doing something wrong then just stop doing it. No need to make a federal case out of it.

    .And you also might want to tone down the sucking up just a bit.

    FBR

    Oh my gosh THANK you.

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    FBR, can I suck up to you and say that you COMPLETELY ROCK!!??



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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    SW dancers have way tougher sensibilities than you give them credit for. The apology obviously wasn't intended towards me but I still think it was unnecessary. I mean, if you think you are doing something wrong then just stop doing it. No need to make a federal case out of it.

    Casual advise...I do suggest that you stay out of Stripping General. It's not Ladies Only but has similar posting criteria. And you also might want to tone down the sucking up just a bit. I can't find the link but I know there is a thread here somewhere that clearly demonstrates that dancers like bad boys with an attitude not nice guys.

    Good luck. If you survive here past the first month or so you are probably good to go.

    FBR
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    I didn't really think I was "doing something wrong" until I stumbled over the Site Issues thread this morning.

    I appreciate your concern about me brown-nosing, but I'm occupying the "wise-ass" stretch of the continuum versus the total "nice guy" end. Even the "bad boys with an attitude" you refer to can have moments of clarity; otherwise, they'd be "abusive boys with an attitude." My post was less about "sucking up" (I'm not a vacuum cleaner) than it was about making sincere amends to SW dancers whose "tougher sensibilities" clearly seemed to have been compromised, for whatever reasons.

    Your advice about Stripping General seems practical--but I'm not really a Stripping General poster. The rap on me was that I'm a Lounge lizard without a life or a wife. I just put my 2 cents in and made a general apology. Like Popeye, "I Yam What I Yam..."

    Yeah, dude, I think I've made it past 30 days, at least (barely)...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mileia777 View Post
    FBR, can I suck up to you and say that you COMPLETELY ROCK!!??
    M777:

    Yes, I agree: FBR rocks! But I'm not gonna suck up to him...

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    Honestly this thread is pointless IMO.

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    LC:

    Ditto! Can we let it go? I'm ready to apologize for apologizing

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    Ummm.... you're fine by me. I figure as long as you don't call us ugly/fat/whores, we'll stay on good terms.
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    ...or say we stink
    My words exactly. Just don't forget to apologize to the trolls, net stalkers, lurkers, and the alike while you're at it too. Oh don't forget to apologize for global warming too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    Dude, I unknowingly offend someone at least every 5.4 minutes on stripperweb - I haven't noticed anything to that degree at all on your end. So...don't sweat it. Your presence hasn't bothered me one bit
    Speaking of that....


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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    I can't find the link but I know there is a thread here somewhere that clearly demonstrates that dancers like bad boys with an attitude not nice guys.
    Not all of us. I like nice boys!!


    Budai I find your presence here nice. I dont know which thread u r refering to where something went wrong.

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    I think he's referring to the "too many assholes" thread in Site Issues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckiCharm View Post
    I think he's referring to the "too many assholes" thread in Site Issues.
    Which was directed at two assholes who are now gone. And it's in reference to men who seem to think this is the place for them to whip their dicks out. I never mentioned offence to Budai personally.


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