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    If you’re a good regular customer to a girl-why must they always think you want them in the sack? I am sure there are many like this but there are many that are not. As a regular I have one job. Show up with my cash. That’s it. The girl just needs to listen to my lousy life and job, give a few dances and get paid well for her time. In my club I sit in champagne/VIP. They don’t have a charge here at our club, just need to be a VIP card holder. I do 250 an hour to the girl and usually stay two to three hours. Not huge money but the best our place has to offer and I never miss a week. Maybe the young guys want sex, sex, sex but us over 35 look at it a little differently. Don’t be so vain, some of us are just looking to escape and take it for what it is. When we jump ship because were tired of you-you always assume its because you don’t put out. That’s good for your ego keep thinking that. The truth is we are board and that’s all.

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    What are these dancers doing or saying that makes u think that they think u want sex?

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    Wait... If she's pretty, you are attracted to her beauty and personality, she's a good talker, a good listener, a pleasure to be around, respectful and you respect her... Why WOULDN'T you want to bang here?

    As a dancer, I pretty much assume any man who comes into a titty bar and gives me money probably at least wants to fantasize about fucking me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    Wait... If she's pretty, you are attracted to her beauty and personality, she's a good talker, a good listener, a pleasure to be around, respectful and you respect her... Why WOULDN'T you want to bang here?

    As a dancer, I pretty much assume any man who comes into a titty bar and gives me money probably at least wants to fantasize about fucking me.
    I dont think about it personally. It's never gonna happen so I dont give a shit, they can think whatever they like. I don't need to hear about it tho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    What are these dancers doing or saying that makes u think that they think u want sex?
    I read her post on here. I never said she was smart.

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    ^DAMN! Anyway...wish I had more regulars like you!



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    There is a difference between wanting sex but knowing you are not going to get it and wanting sex and thinking it is possible....if you spend enough money.
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    I do 250 an hour to the girl and usually stay two to three hours. Not huge money but the best our place has to offer and I never miss a week.
    to me that's pretty damned good money to have from a regular customer each week. i had a customer with basicaly the same habit as that for over a year and i appreciated him so much. i also was thankfull that he never tired to get me OTC.

    personally, i don't think all regulars are trying to have sex with me. in fact, i've known a couple that i'm pretty sure wouldn't even if i wanted to (married, MUCH older, etc.)

    the only time i start thinking they're interested in getting me outside the club and/or having sex with me is when they start telling me they are.

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    But I'm not saying customers who spend money and enjoy are time are TRYING to fuck us or PLAN on fucking us. And maybe they WOULDN'T because they really love there wives or have some kind of morals or something... But I'm sure they have at least thought about or fantasized about what it would be like to have a night with said stripper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phd-BA-BS View Post
    Don’t be so vain, some of us are just looking to escape and take it for what it is. When we jump ship because were tired of you-you always assume its because you don’t put out. That’s good for your ego keep thinking that. The truth is we are board and that’s all.
    /shrug

    You're dealing with people again, so no matter how assured everyone is that it's all about business, people's real feelings often come into play.

    From a customer's POV ideally you don't need a reason or need to justify who you spend your money on. Hey, if it was 31 flavors you wouldn't think twice about choosing chocolate over vanilla. Maybe you've grown bored of vanilla after a while, or maybe you just want to try chocolate, whatever the reason, vanilla doesn't take it personally that you're exercising your freedom to choose whatever flavor of the moment interests you. Vanilla and chocolate though aren't people; no feelings, they don't wonder why you stopped spending several hundreds of dollars a week on them. They don't try to think it through or lash out at you because they feel rejected that you've found a new flavor of the moment.

    I don't know though "vanity" is really the key to it though so much as it is fundamental human nature, when we are rejected, even in a business setting, people still have feelings about it and want to comfort themselves and understand why (e.g., it's easier to believe he stopped spending on me because I'm not putting out then it is to believe he is just plain out and simple bored with me). But you're right about one thing ... a lot of customers see no point in spending money on only one girl. The many choices and freedom to choose without any strings attached is one of the draws of the SC. It would be great if all dancers didn't make that personal, but I think it just goes with the territory. Some get it, some don't.

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    Why? Because 1) most guys do want to fuck us and are QUITE up front about it or 2) you said something that made her think that.

    And starting an account to defend yourself against some mystery girl who bitched about...you assume you since I'm betting she didnt mention you by name...kinda stalker-y.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    And starting an account to defend yourself against some mystery girl who bitched about...you assume you since I'm betting she didnt mention you by name...kinda stalker-y.
    +1 for Stalkerweb

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    Someone is bitter. *cough* Did she bring a slice of bitter pie for you to eat as well? I'm with C_K that you said something that made her think that. You really can't speak for all customers when you say that 'we're bored (I spell corrected you) and that's all' because if most we bored they wouldn't ask us for OTC time. Just a wild guess is that they are horny too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phd-BA-BS View Post
    Don’t be so vain, some of us are just looking to escape and take it for what it is. When we jump ship because were tired of you-you always assume its because you don’t put out. That’s good for your ego keep thinking that. The truth is we are board and that’s all.
    Ok we can be vain when u r paying us $250 just for the pleasure of spending time with us.
    Also most of us on here if u bother to read threads about regulars do NOT think that regulars stop coming to see us because we don't "put out" - but rather because the dancer/regular relationship has an expiry date.

    Don't be so vain in thinking that u r the only one tired of us - usually when a regular is tired of us, we were tired of them months ago. It is a relief to me that my latest regular has stopped coming in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Ok we can be vain when u r paying us $250 just for the pleasure of spending time with us.
    LOL. You have a point there.

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    LOL I wish we had CR or VIP at my club

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marko View Post
    I like your post, xdamage. People are not ice cream flavors. Feelings get in the way more often then we like to admit. I have seen it happen both ways. From a customers perspective, I like the ability to walk out no strings attatched. That is not always easy, but is always smart.
    No body likes to be rejected, not even in a business setting, but it happens. I try to be polite myself when I say no because there is still a real person behind the business persona, but eventually it's going to happen that a dancer is going to take it personally. OTOH if the OP is repeatedly getting the "...this is because I won't put out..." ending, then I do have to wonder if he is doing or saying something to feed into that belief.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phd-BA-BS View Post
    If you’re a good regular customer to a girl-why must they always think you want them in the sack? I am sure there are many like this but there are many that are not. As a regular I have one job. Show up with my cash. That’s it. The girl just needs to listen to my lousy life and job, give a few dances and get paid well for her time. In my club I sit in champagne/VIP. They don’t have a charge here at our club, just need to be a VIP card holder. I do 250 an hour to the girl and usually stay two to three hours. Not huge money but the best our place has to offer and I never miss a week. Maybe the young guys want sex, sex, sex but us over 35 look at it a little differently. Don’t be so vain, some of us are just looking to escape and take it for what it is. When we jump ship because were tired of you-you always assume its because you don’t put out. That’s good for your ego keep thinking that. The truth is we are board and that’s all.

    Honestly, in my experience, and what i have gathered from others experiences and what I have read in the years Ive been on stripperweb, the amounts of dancers who really want to have sex with a regular customer PALES SIGNIFICANTLY with the amount of regulars who want to have sex with their dancer.

    The impression from this post is that this guy, because he is a good, no-threatening, non-OTC seeking regular, gets asked to have sex by dancers all the time.

    I really find it hard to believe that that happens to him or any regular, no matter how good he is, in a frequency that would inspire him to make such a "plea" in this here Forums. I just cant believe it happens enough to be really problematic, if it happens at all.

    It really just doesnt add up for me. Sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John View Post
    The impression from this post is that this guy, because he is a good, no-threatening, non-OTC seeking regular, gets asked to have sex by dancers all the time.

    I really find it hard to believe that that happens to him or any regular, no matter how good he is, in a frequency that would inspire him to make such a "plea" in this here Forums. I just cant believe it happens enough to be really problematic, if it happens at all.

    It really just doesnt add up for me. Sorry.
    Uhm, that's not the way I read it. The way I read it is that he eventually grows bored with individual dancers, moves on, but that instead of understanding he is moving on because he is bored, the dancers accuse him of moving on because "they won't put out". In other words, he is not saying they offer to have sex with him. He is saying that the dancers think he wants to have sex with them because that's typical customer behavior?, the dancers don't, and the dancers think that's why he stops spending on them and starts spending on a different dancer.

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    This is the right way to read it. Thank You.

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    ^That's how I read it, too.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Phd-BA-BS View Post
    Don’t be so vain, some of us are just looking to escape and take it for what it is. When we jump ship because were tired of you-you always assume its because you don’t put out. That’s good for your ego keep thinking that. The truth is we are board and that’s all.
    Don't be so vain. When you jump ship, we always assume it's because you lost your job or your wife found out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    But I'm not saying customers who spend money and enjoy are time are TRYING to fuck us or PLAN on fucking us. And maybe they WOULDN'T because they really love there wives or have some kind of morals or something... But I'm sure they have at least thought about or fantasized about what it would be like to have a night with said stripper.
    I'm sure that lots of guys have so fantasized, but you would be incorrect in jumping to the conclusion that ALL of them have done so.

    Isn't it enough for you that I appreciate your beauty and sensuality and am willing to pay you for the opportunity to look at you and perhaps touch you?

    Hey, but I don't mind. If it helps you perform for me to fantasize that I want to have carnal knowledge of your luscious bod, by all means, go ahead. It will probably make you do a sexier dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    I'm sure that lots of guys have so fantasized, but you would be incorrect in jumping to the conclusion that ALL of them have done so.

    Isn't it enough for you that I appreciate your beauty and sensuality and am willing to pay you for the opportunity to look at you and perhaps touch you?

    Hey, but I don't mind. If it helps you perform for me to fantasize that I want to have carnal knowledge of your luscious bod, by all means, go ahead. It will probably make you do a sexier dance.

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    Please accept my deepest apology for having offended your sensitivities. Certainly that was not my intention.

    Let me try again.

    All customers do not want to have sex with the dancers and do not fantasize about it.

    Some of us are just there to enjoy the show.

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