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    I can't bring myself to go back to work anymore...I am terrified. My fiancee doesn't want me to go back either, and I like his support even though I made really good money. Here's what happened:
    Last tuesday I had about 3 drinks in about 5 hours..I have had WAY more in the past so it was not alcohol related. I went up to stage and a dancer was watcing my drink...but she left it at one point and didn't tell me until MUCH later after I had finished it. I have NEVER left my drink at a table before..always behind the bar, or I finish it. There were these two guys we were both dancing in Champagne for at the table also.
    Long story short..I was drugged and ended up at the hospital (Eric came and got me from work and ended up getting me to an ER). So I won't be going back any longer...I know there are ways I could probably avoid this, but I'm not willing to tolerate all that right now.

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    Well, I'm glad you are okay now!

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    What kind of drug was it?
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    that sucks, I'm sorry that happened to you...

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    fucking -sucks-. it's happened to me once (although thankfully i didn't need the ER). i'm so paranoid now that i -won't- drink a drink after i've left it... not even if someone was watching it.

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    Another reasonwhy even when im 21 I will nottt drink at work. Happens too often.

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    Getting drugged is definately up there on the list of "Worst Possible Things To Happen At Work". Some girl at my work almost died (well, technically... she did die for a little bit) when someone slipped something into her drink a few months ago and it reacted with her diet pills.

    I'm good about watching my drink and I'll take it back to the dressing room if I'm called on stage... I've actually had customers get offended by that and say, "Why don't you leave your drink here? What, do you think I'm going to do something to it?". Um... Yes. Yes, I do.
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    I know exactly what your going through..... you should read my current post about how i was poisoned....

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    Ok, I have always wondered this: WHY DO PEOPLE FUCKING DRUG STRIPPERS?! I can understand (in a sick, horrible way) why you'd drug a girl out at a normal bar--you might be able to take her with you and rape her. But you cannot take a stripper out of the SC. You can't. So why do it? Just to be doing it? I can't fathom it. The mind fucking wobbles.

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    ^^^Exactly Dottie! It makes no sense to me either. Sorry you went through this honey. :hugs*
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    Really!! What is the goddamn point of drugging us - and why does it seem to happen so often? Is it a power trip thing? Who are these assholes? It's not like the bouncer is going to let the guy carry us out into the parking lot. Maybe they think they can get away with a few minutes of raping in VIP...how sad that is has come to this.
    I hope there is a special place in Hell for these fuckwads - where they are physically and psychologically tortured in very painful ways.

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    wow... i am so sorry... the millionth reason to not work in a club w/ alcohol. i LOVE not being around drunks... lately the drugs have been bad enough.

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    I'm so sorry this happened to you. In 6 1/2 yrs I've been drugged twice. Never went to the ER though, even though I prob shoud have. Judging by my reactions..the first time was probably G..the second time I'm guessing a muscle relaxer of some sort.(the second guy also drugged another dancer AND...heres a kicker...bought a beer for the DJ,who said he experienced the same symptoms ...so he drugged the male DJ too..WTF???)

    The first time I was drugged by a cop. I had danced for him earlier that week and did a CR with him. He siad if I didnt fuck him he'd pull me over on my way home and book me for DUI because he saw me take a sip of champagne. Dick. I told him to go ahead and pull me over..that I'd be happy to bring a copy of the security tape so his superiors could hear him proposition and threaten me(theres no sound on the tape, but he didnt know that). he came in a few days later and spiked my drink while I was with another custie...then when my friends were walking me back to the dressing room he said"hey...you dont look good..I have the squad car outside..dont worry girls, I'll take her home" Thankfull not only was I still concious enough at that time to tell him to go fuck himself...my one friend knew exactly who he ws and caught on REAL quick..telling him that he had better get his ass out before she had him searched for the drugs he used on me...

    The second guy..well..who knows. I guess he just thought it was funny because he never propositioned me, the other girl or the DJ. So yeah..I would guess it was a power trip of some sort.

    Take some time off. Then decide with a clear head if you want to go back or not. After all..one douchebag shouldnt keep you out of the club if you do want to be there. Just never EVER let your drink out of your sight and cover it with your hand if you are not drinking it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Embyr View Post
    wow... i am so sorry... the millionth reason to not work in a club w/ alcohol. i LOVE not being around drunks... lately the drugs have been bad enough.
    Just a note...a guy can just as easily spike a diet coke. Alcohol has little to do with it except that if you are drunk you may not notice as easily...or be taken seriously when you say you've been slipped something

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    I've never got this. Do custies think we're more likely to go home w/ them? A girl I worked w/ was slipped something by her uncle! He was going to give her a ride home that night. He kept talking about how hot she was. And, what he would do to if they hadn't been related. She couldn't put together who had done this to her. She kept saying,"I've been sitting w/ my uncle all night! How did this happen?"
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    I'm starting to wonder if it was another dancer though also. When I was the most "out of it" before not talking or breathing right, she was trying to get me to come home with her and her boyfriend. She said they'd just take me back to their place and another dancer was coming too. When I told her I shouldn't...she was trying VERY hard..and then stated that "it wouldn't be a party without me, and it would only be her and Jess." Could she SERIOUSLY have drugged me!!
    The last time I worked with she asked me a few times if I was leaving on time or staying late. She seemed really disappointed when I said I told the MGR I would stay over. She also asked me a TON of questions...and had only been dancing there a week.
    WOW....didn't think it might've been her.

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    Damn...yeah that does sound like it was the other dancer who drugged you. Sucks that you cant prove it...but I wouldnt ever trust her again with anything if you do decide to go back.
    Dancers certainly arent immune from being assholes who try to take advantage of girls. Sounds like she was setting you up for a 3-some with or without your consent. Bitch.

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    That's terrible. Maybe you'll be able to go back eventually.

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    That is totally and completely fucked up. A good thing to do at work is to honestly just do shots. Just order a shot as if it was a drink and then just take the shot as soon as the waitress gives it to you. No potential for drugging.
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    I went to a club with a few other girls from my home club as a "weekend trip" type thing. First night...someone got me. Luckily I had friends to be there with me while I was sick and to make sure I recovered. I was beyond mistified as to WHY soemone would do this to me...needless to say, I didn't make much money. It looks like this happens more than we all realise...even when we feel like we are being careful.

    It was scary, but I still dance and have fun. I am just SUPER careful with my drinks now. I do shots or drink them up before I go anywhere...
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    That's horrible & I'm sorry it happened to you. I was drugged last year at a dance club but I didn't realize what had happened until the next day.

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    The amount of times I've read on SW that a girl has been drugged is just too much for me. Actually, more than 0 is too much for me. Its just awful how some girl is jealous or you're sitting next to her bf or a customer tries it out on you. Its just insane.

    This just goes to show that not even a minute with your head turned talking to anyone can give someone enough time. Always keep your drink in view or in your hand covered. I'm sorry that you are leaving like this. This should never happen to any girl.
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    Hey hun...soooo sorry to hear that has happened to you!

    Women are capable of doing such horrid things too...this I know! It is 10 times worse thinking it was someone you worked with!

    But I am glad to hear you are OK!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    The first time I was drugged by a cop. I had danced for him earlier that week and did a CR with him. He siad if I didnt fuck him he'd pull me over on my way home and book me for DUI because he saw me take a sip of champagne. Dick. I told him to go ahead and pull me over..that I'd be happy to bring a copy of the security tape so his superiors could hear him proposition and threaten me(theres no sound on the tape, but he didnt know that). he came in a few days later and spiked my drink while I was with another custie...then when my friends were walking me back to the dressing room he said"hey...you dont look good..I have the squad car outside..dont worry girls, I'll take her home" Thankfull not only was I still concious enough at that time to tell him to go fuck himself...my one friend knew exactly who he ws and caught on REAL quick..telling him that he had better get his ass out before she had him searched for the drugs he used on me...
    UN-FUCKING-BELIEVABLE. Dude, wtf????
    Im so glad your friend caught on. Sick fuck. He's supposed to protect. GRRRRRRRRRRRRR

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    And to the OT... I am so sorry to hear that another dancer might be the one who actually did it. If you DO go back, never trust her again. What a bitch..

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