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    Once or twice a year my wife and I will venture into a strip club. Invariably, it always seems as though dancers walking around will avoid us. Do most dancers NOT like having women in there? We are not a bad looking couple, we are not looking for anything freaky, we don't smell offensively, we dress nicely, we tip dancers on stage...we are just looking for a little something to spice up the night.
    Once a year we go to Atlantic City and go into one club there where some dancers will pay attention to her, she will even get a lap dance or two, but that is certainly the exception.

    Any advice?
    Thank you in advance.

    Paul

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    Your goin to the wrong clubs bro. Try Centerfold's in Neptune. I see couples in there all the time having a ball. I guess it all depends on the personalities of the dancers. From what I see, as long as you treat the ladies with the respect they deserve and spend some money, the mojority of them seem not to mind at the very least. BTW, your a lucky man

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    I usually won't go up to a couple unless invited. We never know how the relationship is b/t the couple and I would rather avoid it and let them ask me if they want company. After a few bad experiences (which seems inevitible with couples) I tend to just make eye contact and smile and see if they approach me, but i will never approach first.

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    See this thread http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=92516

    It will help to explain why most dancers do not welcome women customers with open arms.

    I know its frustrating to genuine couples like yourselves that are there to have a good time but the negative experiences with females in the SC by far outweigh the positive for most dancers, leading us to avoid females and couples.

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    try approaching a girl you like. I usually have a great time when I dance for couples...but I don't generally approach them. Usually a girlfriend will come up to me on stage and ask for a dance for her bf or they'll motion me over. I don't want to approach the wrong couple and have the female flip. I don't need the drama.
    If I go to a strip club with my man I usually say something to a girl onstage or just go up to her after. I'm totally happy to dance for couples, but I need some sort of indication thats it cool with both of you 1st.


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    As suggested, read the thread on female customers. There are about a dozen others on the same topic, too.

    Let me put it this way. Based on everything you read in the other threads on female customers (and please, do read these, if you're genuinely interested in understanding our perspective), no, we are generally not going to approach a couple. However, this doesn't mean that we necessarily object to dancing for women as a principle, it's only wanting to avoid the possible drama/insults/overall waste-of-time hassle that typically comes with the VAST majority of female customers.

    We KNOW there are exceptions. We're just not clairvoyant. If you ARE an exception, and want to prove yourselves to be exceptions, you have to demonstrate this. This means actually approaching US. I know when you go as a single men, you're beating off (uhh, no pun intended) the dancers with a stick, but a couple simply is not going to get approached in the same way that a single man is, much less hustled proactively.

    That's a generalization, and there are exceptions in dancers (just as there are exceptions in customers), but overall, I think if you are willing to just accept that it IS going to be different when you go witrh your wife, and act upon this, then you'll have the better time that you're looking for. Don't sit back the same way you would as a solo man (or group of men) and then wonder why the dancers aren't coming up to you.

    If it's made clear that a couple is interested in spending and in being respectful, dancers aren't going to turn you down. If you're interested in a dancer, the onus is on YOU to approach her and tell her so.
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    Default Re: With my wife in a club

    When I've been a customer with my boyfriend I've almost always had to do a few laps around the club to find & request a girl to come dance for us.

    When I'm working I'll only approach couples if the girl looks like she's having a good time or smiles at me.

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    Default Re: With my wife in a club

    Thanks you all for the insight and candor. I will check out those threads you have directed me to to gain a better understanding. I never thought of there being potential issues, but then again, my wife is pretty fun loving and easy going, so it just didn't dawn on me that all wifes weren't like that!

    So if you work at Bare Exposure in AC or Haks or Fantasia in Wilmington, DE, we may try it out there since they are relatively local...look for us!

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