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    Default So I'm a dirty girl... thanks for telling me

    I just found out that, apparently, I'm one of the dirty girls at my club. That's what another girl told me. Yep, and I found out from a friend at the club that the rumors have been going around for about 2 months.

    I've worked at this club for 2 1/2 years. I'm usually quiet around the other dancers. I'm not a top money maker, but I'm not at the bottom either. Lately, money has been really bad but I've had a few lucky breaks and I was even top earner a few nights. On one particular night, I was able to get a customer who is known for pushing for extras to spend a lot of money on me. That seemed to be the nail in my coffin.

    The rumors are that I allow customers to finger me and I give handjobs. This is coming from a club where most dancers flash (all clothing/contact dances) and I don't. I also rarely over charge for my dances (since I don't want customers to expect more) which seems to be a rarity these days since most girls charge double or even triple at my club.

    I'm leaving the club in a month anyway, so I'm not heartbroken about it, but it is upsetting to find out that everyone else thinks you are a dirty whore. It's annoying more than anything because when I go into the dressing room, the conversation dies and it's awkward.

    Has anyone else found out that there were rumors floating around about you giving extras? How did you deal with it? Did you ignore the other dancers or confront them about it?

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    Default Re: So I'm a dirty girl... thanks for telling me

    Just ignore it. I hear all the time at my club that other girls are doing dirty dances. I ignore it, in fact I get pissed off hearing it coz I know it's usually bullshit.

    Just keep doing your thing. If u r making more money than a few of them, they will make up reasons for it to take their mind off the fact that they know it's coz u r better than them.

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    That sucks, but don't let it get to you. Same thing happens to me every so often. Girls get jealous and make up reasons why you can make money when they can't. I'm one of the cleanest dancers at my club so it pisses me off, but hey, at least we're the ones going home with money.
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    Default Re: So I'm a dirty girl... thanks for telling me

    thats funny cause i just posted about this in a different thread.

    so yea i was new and doing really good at my club... i heard alot of the dancers go verrrry far in the vip but im super duper pg in my rooms. so i guess it got around that i was a bitch and doing extras in the back???! i was so upset, i dont even talk to these girls or do anything to make them think im dirty and suddenly im a a dirty girl.

    well it topped the cake when some friends of mine came in and while some of the other dancers where working them before i got on the floor, they asked if i was there and she told them that i was fucking in the back!!! i wanted to die when i heard this, of course they didnt believe her but it really blew my mind how crazy some of these girls are.
    so right now im looking for a NICER cleaner club. i hope i find one.

    good luck with the catty bitches at your club. if you just stick to yourself and try to put it out of your mind for the time being you should do fine.

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    It's possible that whoever is spreading the gossip is the dirty girl and looking to deflect from her own deeds?

    I tend to just ignore it and be super quiet about how much I make. When you do well, it attracts the bad-wishers.

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    Wherever you dance, there will always be those jealous girls who don't make as much money as you do. In my club there was recently a rumor started about this one particular girl whe sells alot of vip shows. They said she promised guys blow jobs in the private rooms for $200. They were just trying to get her fired because they were trying to eliminate the competition. This particular girl does not perform these services(i watch the security cameras) And she doesn't make false promises either because the customers would probably be pretty pissed off if they didn't get that.......The real dirty dancers are those that spread false rumors.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oregonchick View Post
    ...The real dirty dancers are those that spread false rumors.
    that is so true
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    Thanks everyone for the advice. I hadn't thought that the girl who started it might be doing extras herself, but maybe. I'm going to try to just not let it bother me.

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    Default Re: So I'm a dirty girl... thanks for telling me

    If they were on the floor hustling for more dances they wouldn't have time to gossip about you. Lazy, jealous bitches.

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    Default Re: So I'm a dirty girl... thanks for telling me

    Did you accidently snag another girls reg? Because it seems that might be the fastest way to get labeled as the dirty girl. Especially if you are a clean dancer, and suddenly rumors pop up.




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    Quote Originally Posted by oregonchick View Post
    ....The real dirty dancers are those that spread false rumors.
    Yep. Around here I've often been one of the only clean dancers in the club. Girls assumed that I did those things..because all of them did. I couldnt POSSIBLY be making the same money withOUT doing all that...HA!

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    Urgh. I can totally relate. I just had the night from HELL.

    I recently started at a new club, but I just kept my head down with my bff, and occationally spoke to the girls I have previously worked with in other clubs. I go to work, to work, not hang out smoking in the dressing room with dancers. It was all quite civilised and polite after the first few nights.

    Then Friday night I started to get the feeling they were talking about me, but my bff (whos been there ages) said I was being paranoid.

    Then tonight I worked without her. Yeah. I wasn't being paranoid. This one chick came over to stage when I was up and screamed at me to "get the fuck off, and get the fuck out of the club" amoungst other things. In front of all the customers who were tipping me.. Then everytime I went into the laproom she would say something like "oh look the whore is back". All the girls were in some sort of a tizz because there were a few new girls tonight and we were all making money and they weren't.

    I am by far probably the cleanest girl there, and yet all night long all the girls were pointing at me. NFI what they were saying but I assume I'm 'dirty' somehow because I was making money.

    Heaven forebid it's:

    1: Because I don't spend the whole night in the dressing room bitching/smoking
    2: I'm polite and curtious to customers, even when they decline a dance
    3: I don't sit around in clusters of girls glaring at customers
    4: I don't sit in the laproom all night bitching to the hostess about how I made nothing
    5: I don't only dance for "young cute boys"
    6: I talk to customers and dont just say "wannadance?"
    7: Did I mention I'm nice to the customers??!


    Urgh. When will they learn?
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    ^^ They'll learn when you leave and they get what they want....less competition. So don't. Lucky you have a friend there!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vivacious View Post
    ^^ They'll learn when you leave and they get what they want....less competition. So don't. Lucky you have a friend there!
    Yeah she only works one or two nights a week though, and I work a lot more.

    I actually think its a good thing now I'm public enemy #1. Won't be tempted to sit around and become one of them!

    I can't wait to find out what my supposed crime has been. I looove hearing gossip about myself. It makes me all tingly inside. haha.
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    who cares?
    Count your $ you made doing it the right way, and then laugh yourself to the bank... they are miserable bitches, while you sleep well at night.

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    I have had that happen once before, and I blew it up, lol.

    The next night I worked, I made a HUGE production of it, telling all the girls "Did you know I let guyf finger fuck my asshole to sell my dances?!" and stuff like that, lol.

    It took all of about 2 or 3 hours for it to get blown over and come to find out the girl that spread the rumor ended up getting caught getting eaten out and fired shortly after that, or so I am told it was that girl.

    Forget about it, they aren't worth your time anyway, lol.
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