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    I recently returned to a stage only club after getting sick of hustling customers and giving couch dances. Also, my consistent regular wanted to meet OTC, stopped coming to the club and my 600+ nights went away. Thanks to sweet, sweet serendipity, I have a new and improved regular at the stage only club.

    I have given my dancer email out to two guys so far, regular #1 and regular #2. I assume that regular #1 is gone, or he might have taken a trip back to China. I know he's on sabbatical right now, and he has a daughter. He hasn't emailed in a while.

    Now I have regular #2, who comes in and tips 100 dollars per three-song stage set for the duration of his visits (sometimes several hours). I feel like the luckiest girl in the world right now. But I'm trying to play it smart. I email him to tell him when I work.

    He asked me out to dinner and drinks via email, and I basically just ignored the question and told him that I was working that night. When he came in, I mentioned his email, and said, "Do you want a mistress or something?" I know he's married with two kids, so it was a way to make a joke out of a serious request.

    This completely embarrassed him, but he laughed it off and said, "I already have many mistresses" as a joke. Then he said that if he wanted to fuck me, he'd just go ahead and say so. Fair enough...but wait. He's a man. I emailed him a few days after he provided 2/3 of my night's earnings to thank him, saying simply "Thank you for coming in the other night. That was mad fun...(;"

    He responds: "That was really fun! It was too brief in time though. Next time I will
    pace myself and make an evening of it, if my heart can take it! My
    heart rate is about 150 every time our eyes meet."

    Wow, how should I respond to that? I'm looking for a response that won't lead him on to the idea that I want to go OTC with him, but will effectively get him back ITC to spend money. He also told me that he would come in at the couch dance club if and when I return there, so that's good. I'm thinking maybe a "You're far too kind. I look forward to it!" would be sufficient.

    Was the mistress comment smart? I didn't want to say something extreme, like "That will never happen, buddy!" but I'm definitely not meeting him OTC. Does anyone have any advice for how I should deal with this regular? I've found that the emails are a really good tool, and I don't foresee him going crazy and demanding OTC time, but I feel like I need advice. Is it smart to lay on some stripper shit (well, the "mad fun" part was definitely that, although work is a lot more fun when I'm making 600+ as opposed to 110), or just keep things vague and concise?

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    Ha! It would seem after the mistress comment he's not asking you about meeting OTC anymore, but still wants to dance with you so...perfect. You called his bluff. Just say thanks like you planned and tell him when you'll be there next! Sounds like you're on the same page.

    Vague and concise? Maybe concise but friendly and flirty too. Just one little compliment or something to brighten his day, but you don't have to put tons of thought into it. I'm sure he assumes you're busy. This sounds so freakin' silly, but you could say something like you'll be sure to brush up on your CPR so he'll be in good hands. I dunno. I'm no comedian.

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    Yeah, it doesn't sound like he wants to meet OTC, he's just saying that he wants to come in again! I like Vivacious' line. Just email him back & let him know when your next few shifts are and that you're lookin' forward to seeing him. Sounds like he just needs a short 'n sweet email to feel special

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    Ah the age old question, whether to lead on a regular to make more money, or cut your losses by letting him know he has no hope of OTC play.

    I do like your mistress line and I think you're on the right track with him. I'm a believer in being too busy to ever meet OTC, but using as much positive reinforcement to get him to come to see you at work and spend lots of money, emails after you see him and always stressing how fun it is to hang out with him at work...etc etc.

    BTW nice score! I'm jealous of such good money at a stage only club. It must be a nice break from Dolphin.
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    sun child
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    Yup, I was getting sick of the whole scene at D2 -- especially, for some reason, the music played there. I love Nicolai because I can play Danzig, Portishead, The Rolling Stones, good hip hop, and pretty much anything else I want to. I've been making jokes about "taking over" Nicolai and putting all my music in the jukebox (no one else really fucks with it). And yeah, it's fucking serendipity about that guy, which is probably why I'm overthinking it. I don't wanna fuck it up! I think life is just sending something good my way right now -- I sure did need it.

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