tHANK YOU GUYSmind u i have taken a week of work= my ego was damaged, tommorow i return...
i am going to hold off on auditioning anwhere else for a while
tHANK YOU GUYSmind u i have taken a week of work= my ego was damaged, tommorow i return...
i am going to hold off on auditioning anwhere else for a while
Don't let them get to you. I have auditioned at a club where the "look" was amature body builders with implants and DARK tans and another club where the "look" was 80 lb brunettes with no tits or makeup. I took a huge ego hit at the latter due to an asshole manager, but the next club I walked into was much more upscale and they positively drooled over me and hired me instantly.
Just find your club that will make you feel like a goddess and forget the jerk. You look great!





Well, now I know I'm not crazy!!!! I worked at Risque in Burlington and intended to work at Bristol as well. The female manager told me she couldn't "let me" audition in Bristol. She said they would not hire me, they would consider me too heavy and frankly she didn't want to expose me to the abuse. I thought she was bullshitting me! I'm a size six with size 34D bust! I do pole tricks such as flipping upside down off the pole and am quite capable of selling CRs. Maybe I should be glad she saved me the abuse.
PS-Thank God you didn't say it was racism or you wouldn't have gotten much support.
“What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE





Wow. I am so glad I am leaving Risque. I have heard that Burlington is where they send the 'fat girls' but, um size 6? Not fat. They have quite a few girls who are much bigger than that and do well. They have a bunch of gazelles as well-maybe they're trying to go that route? I wouldn't be suprised if it WAS racism though. Few WOC around (except tan!)-seems to be the rule in SCs.





i wish people could tell the diff more. in general (not always, but most of the time) girls with eating disorders look sickly (like you mentioned) sunken in cheekbones and etc. also in general, their weight doesn't look "right" on them.
plus, girls who are just naturally very thin will almost always have TINY wrists. that's how you know how "boned" you are. if you have large boned wrists, you are a larger framed person. if you have small boned wrists, you are a smaller framed person. frame build is everything when considering how much a person should weigh. i'm 5ft6 and have a very small frame, so weighing 125 lbs (which i do) is perfectly normal and healthy for me. however, the normal weight for a girl my height with a medium frame is 130-144 and with a large frame would be 140-159.
therefor, a girl who is 5ft6 could weigh anything from 120-160 lbs and be considered healthy (and look great) all depending on her frame size. i would look overweight at 160, but a girl with a large frame could look fantastic. just as i look fine at 120, but a girl with a large frame would look scary skinny.
and in case anyone is curious, this is a general height/weight chart based on frame..
http://www.healthchecksystems.com/he...hart.htm#frame
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Right. The sunken in cheeks, very thin arms lacking muscle mass, many bones showing, and other signs are what differ natural thinness from the extreme that seems to be a semi-popular fad.
Victory, I auditioned there last year and again earlier this year and both times I was told I need to lose weight. I'm built sorta like you but my boobs and waist may be slightly smaller.
Fuck them! you look awesome! Go someplace better, you deserve it.
Tyffani



What an a$$! I think you look great! Guys don't want to see bones, they want WOMEN not girls who look like they are 12(well some...) but the point is you don't have to be stick thin to be hot. Nice asses(not bones) and boobies are the best=) Fuck that place!!!!!!!!
^ you can also have a thick round juicy ass and look like yr 12 in the face!
disappointed to hear that place lacks so much variety.




Oh girl, I am so sorry to hear thatIf that is you in your avi, you are gorgeous hot!!
I am going through sort of the oposite situation. I am not skinny by any means, I'm 5'2" and hover around 110 and maybe more lately because I am trying to build up my lower body.
I got hired but the last time I worked (still new) I had two customers asked me if I felt 'misplaced' and one British guy say, ' You are the skinniest girl here and I love skinny girls'. WTF??
I do work in the valley part of LA so I am working with a lot of thick and curvy Latin girls. So, even though I am half Mexican, I guess I look like a 'scrawny white girl' in comparison.
You look great. The manager must have been a tweaker who is into anorexia. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Oh yeah, the dj was the only one who seemed to treat me sort of mean. He didn't put me up on stage for the first 1 1/2 I was there and nobody told me that there was always two girls on the stage dancing. I had to go up to him and ask him if I was hard of hearing or if he had not called me. He said he didn't know who to put me with because I said I prefered to dance to alternative rock and there was no other dancer that preferred that music. I had given him a CD that I burned earlier and he almost threw it back at me!
I finally got paired up w/ a Spanish speaking dancer who was nice, but I had to dance to HER music because I was newIt was all in Spanish
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(Sorry so long) You don't need to be there. It was their loss.
(Formerly known as 'Korina')




I just saw your photo. You are lovely. You would do so well at my club.
(Formerly known as 'Korina')



That's terrible that that happened. In regards to the phone description, I wouldn't say thick because that could mean anything, including some unflattering things, to the person on the phone.




you ain't missing much in risque-bristol, i worked there a while back, yeah the money was ok (not spectacular thou) but it ain't worth the ulcer you'll get from dealing w/ the shitty management and grabby dances



i think you look great! i've also got a larger butt and thighs because i've been a figure skater for part of my life (go muscles) but unfortunately i have gained about 25-30 pounds since 2003. i just can't get the weight down no matter what i do exercise and diet-wise. i unfortunately am easily offended by being called "thick". i was told constantly that i was fat when i really wasn't so hearing someone call me thick hurts my feelings. it doesn't bother me as much as it used to but when some guy says "ooh girl you thick!" it really grates on me--especially since back 25 pounds ago i made more money.
i do know of guys who love skinny girls but mostly at my club the guys love a girl with a "ghetto booty". you'd take a pay cut if you came to my club in central arkansas but you'd be one of the money makers. we have a girl who's shaped just like you (she doesn't have very big boobs though) and she makes so much money! she'd probably make more if her ego hadn't gone to her head--she's still a newbie at only being there about 6 months
I didn't know you left. February was my last month too. I loved dancing on stage but trying to sell myself without doing what 90% of the other girls were doing just got tiring! Plus I started my business in April so I needed a month to clear my head. I don't dance anywhere now but I have my pole at home so I'm goodNow only my boyfriend gropes me, but no money for that! Are you dancing anywhere now?
Was DestyDoll, just changed to keep up with my new dance name.
Hi--
Do you still work at Risque in Bristol? Do you guys have a regular make up artist? I'm looking for side work doing make up in a club. . . .can u tell me if you guys need someone. . .thanks sweetie
T.
Haha, funny this thread got brought back up. My friend went to audition at CRB....and got rejected. She is fucking amazing, gorgeous face body and the biggest ass you've ever seen (but the rest of her is thin), looks like she stepped off the cover of King magazine at all times. She auditioned on the stage, made about $100 in 1 song (guys LOVE her), and the manager told her to "come back when you lose your ass." WTF? Thats the way she is built!
thats a shame cutey!!i am still looking elsewhere i lost mad weight might i add, but i will never work for such a shithead manager!!!!!!










Okay..... my fat ass wants to audition there.... just so I can get denied.... and then flip the fuck out on the manager and tell him what an insecure worthless piece of bald, fat, shit he is.
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