I'm hoping to get some feedback here from you good people. I've been chatting with this guy. We met in treatment. We talk every day. He's sent me flowers twice in one week. He wants to really get to know me slowly and as a person, even so far as setting up a date in a town in between where we live so that we are less tempted to jump into bed right away.
He lives in Dallas, so he's 3 hours away. We are really connecting, and we've never had more than a hug. So here's the dilemna. He's black. That's fine by me obviously, but if this does get serious and go somewhere, I know my family will not approve. I cannot change how they think about this, so there's no point in trying. It keeps coming across my mind, and I worry. If I really fall for him and we are together, then I will have to sever my family ties. It makes me not want to move forward with him.
Has anyone been through this before? Any advice?




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