




I'm coming to the conclusion that you are very narrow minded. And no matter hwo many times we tell you that what you are bitching about is not hte issue here, you will not hear it. You are certain we are wrong, and you are right. Balck and white. Period end of story.
Boy, it would be wonderful if the worl realyl worked that way.
Tileguy, you're being a jerk. In case no one else notified you of that...consider it a favor on my part.
Why exactly are you here? What is the point of your posting other than to preach to us about how you personally feel a relationship should be viewd? We get the point. Move on would ya?
are you that narrow minded yourself that you cant handle someone elses point of view if it doesnt agree with yours. You stated you views, I stated mine, you dont have to like it or agree with it. It is in fact how I feel. I did just as you are doing here, I didnt agree I voiced that and now you complain that I did but you do the same thing. That makes sense. I am a jerk? Cause I want to treat one woman, the one I am with like a queen and want our relationship to only be about us? Wow you are different, most women would say the cheating, sleeping around, abusive man is a jerk. Not a faithful hopeless romantic. But again to each their own. It seems for such an open chat, you only like peoples views when they agree with you.
^^ You didnt just state your views. You condemned and passed judgement upon anyone who's views differ.
"However if someone is truely in love, they dont look for sex or play time outside of the relationship"
"Grow some morals, have some respect for yourself "
Dont ever assume that because you are monogomous and I am not..that I am somehow less in love. That just highlights how unbelievably ignorant you are. Dont speak of something you have no understanding of. And you have made it crystal clear that you have NONE.
^^^I don't think anyone on this forum would doubt that K and I are truly in love, but I'll tell you for a fact that nothing gets me hotter than watching another girl suck his cock. And I don't think anyone on this forum would accuse me of lacking morals or self-respect, LOL! Sex is hot. Sex is fun. For some people sex is twined with love, and for some people it can just be fun sex that is completely separate from love.
Oh dear god ....isnt that the BEST?? Or watching him go down on another girl....an amazing turn on!!!
Love and lust are two separate things. Some people prefer to keep them as one...some people can see and feel them for the two differant emotions they are.Nothing wrong with either.Whatever works for you!
^^^ Exactly!




This is one of those things that you either get or you don't.
It's like BDSM. Some people will always see that as twisted and abusive, and some people actually grasp the concept of communication, sexual expression and consenting adults.
SOOOOOOOOOOOO true!!! Nothing turns me on more then watching my man with another girl... omg its sooooooooooooo hot!! Seeing her mouth wrapped around his cock... and his face between her legs *faints* then eating her out while your being fucked by your man omg!!!
VERY true!! There is love making then there is just sex... two different things.Love and lust are two separate things. Some people prefer to keep them as one...some people can see and feel them for the two differant emotions they are.Nothing wrong with either.Whatever works for you!
Here's my take on that...if the guy thinks it's cheating, then it's cheating.
Having said that...any guy that thinks it's cheating is an idiot, and you should dump him and find a guy that is not an idiot.
Sorry if I just called your bf an idiot, but I swear, there are too few women around like you to waste you on a guy who doesn't appreciate what he has.
Ahaha... I dumped him before I even wrote this post... and i've since moved on... I mean the fact the guy asked me to marry him in the first two weeks we were dating and told me he wanted me to mother his children.. like right away... well yea you can see where im going with this lol



I've had two girlfriends in my past who liked to be with other women--one worried that it would end our relationship, but I frankly thought it was great and made everything more erotic. I hinted at the idea of a threesome in the last relationship, but backed off when I realized it complicated things for my girlfriend--I decided to just enjoy the images in my head. But I did have a number of friends tell me they couldn't put up with it for real, even if they had fantasized about it. I honestly didn't (and don't) understand this: but as has been said here, you really need to have someone who is on your own wavelength, and I think many people operate at different levels of passion.
I hope to have another relationship like this: it has always seemed to me that the more free a woman is, the more exciting it is for the man as well. I love the journey and adventure of finding out what is deep in the heart of a woman.
JK Jim
I'm a hypocrite. I admit it.
You can fool around with all the girls you want but no men please.
I don't have to be involved in the action tho, does that count for anything?
So I guess to the OP, no I don't think it's cheating. For what it's worth.
-E
hilarious signature
Aww Evan your the bestest
Still waiting for that intro![]()
![]()





Oh Miss Ish, don't you know?
It's only cheating if you use a mirror, 'cause then you're just fuckin' yourself. P:
Look like a woman
Think like a man
Act like a lady
Work like a dog
- My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success
K, well, this thread WAS pissing me off, but thanks to Yak, Cam and Cally I am now all worked up and must go wake my sleeping man!![]()
Bookmarks