Anything in your background which contributes to you not going into one, whether you might enter one at times and other times just walk on by? Obviouly, I don't mean anyone objecting re: perceived morality/immorality.
Because in my own background, I had one rather unenjoyable experience when I attended a close friend's bachelor party. This was somewhere back around '92 or '93. Only seven of us, including the "guest of honor," and we went to dinner at a nice restaurant. Then we went to a mud wrestling place, now defunct, in Hollyweird, CA. And we "lost" one of the seven prior to hitting the club, since he was a Los Angeles County Deputy DA at the time who felt it was best to make himself scarce at that point.
You learned quick enough that the "round girls" did their little 30-second or so private routines roaming the club for guys whose friends were waving one-dollar bills over their heads. Or they were waving a bill over their own heads.
I participated in spending all of two bucks on my friend, but ceased when I sensed he was getting really uncomfortable with this, even though his other friends, who'd known him far longer than the approx. ten years I had, continued on. At this point, I hadn't realized one of his other friends was waving a bill over my head. So my initial reaction was "What?" since I was approaced from behind by one of the "round girls." And fortunately for me, my next reaction was only in thought, not verbally blurted out, which was, "Please get your #$%(^!& tongue outta my ear!" Not something I'll ever remember as being all that pleasant. And I hadn't seen any of the other "round girls" engage in this particular "activity."
OTOH, I suppose this incident has saved me a vault full of cash since that time, given my own propensity for addiction. But always legal addictions, e.g., the internet. SCs are legal too, AFAIK, but from reading SW, they aren't once they start up with the bordello stuff!
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