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    Anything in your background which contributes to you not going into one, whether you might enter one at times and other times just walk on by? Obviouly, I don't mean anyone objecting re: perceived morality/immorality.

    Because in my own background, I had one rather unenjoyable experience when I attended a close friend's bachelor party. This was somewhere back around '92 or '93. Only seven of us, including the "guest of honor," and we went to dinner at a nice restaurant. Then we went to a mud wrestling place, now defunct, in Hollyweird, CA. And we "lost" one of the seven prior to hitting the club, since he was a Los Angeles County Deputy DA at the time who felt it was best to make himself scarce at that point.

    You learned quick enough that the "round girls" did their little 30-second or so private routines roaming the club for guys whose friends were waving one-dollar bills over their heads. Or they were waving a bill over their own heads.

    I participated in spending all of two bucks on my friend, but ceased when I sensed he was getting really uncomfortable with this, even though his other friends, who'd known him far longer than the approx. ten years I had, continued on. At this point, I hadn't realized one of his other friends was waving a bill over my head. So my initial reaction was "What?" since I was approaced from behind by one of the "round girls." And fortunately for me, my next reaction was only in thought, not verbally blurted out, which was, "Please get your #$%(^!& tongue outta my ear!" Not something I'll ever remember as being all that pleasant. And I hadn't seen any of the other "round girls" engage in this particular "activity."

    OTOH, I suppose this incident has saved me a vault full of cash since that time, given my own propensity for addiction. But always legal addictions, e.g., the internet. SCs are legal too, AFAIK, but from reading SW, they aren't once they start up with the bordello stuff!

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    I am an inner-city public high school teacher. For years I never went to the clubs because I really didn't want to meet any former or ( God forbid ) current students in there. Several of the dancers I've become friendly with know some of my students and that was always worth a laugh. It turned out to be no big deal when I did come across ex-students but I limited my involvement to simply acknowledging them and never doing dances. In some cases, I might have known the girl since she was 13. It would be way too creepy to dance with any of them.

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    So Phaedrus, you've been on this site for 3 years, yet you've only been to one club 15 years ago? WTF are you doing here besides wasting space?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    So Phaedrus, you've been on this site for 3 years, yet you've only been to one club 15 years ago? WTF are you doing here besides wasting space?
    Interesting assumption on your part, since this friend wasn't the last one to get married during that time frame. But the only time I'll go to a SC, other than for the bachelor party of the close friend mentioned. is when I go to LV for a few days vacation. Of course, some other friends did get married in LV. And I did visit SCs there a few times sans bachelor parties, which I prefer...I get to stay as long as i want or bail as fast as I want when alone. What primarily keeps me out of SCs, as well as regular nightclubs, more than anything, is sound systems cranked up way too loud! But that's already been covered in another thread.

    Perhaps I will or won't go to a SC the next time I get to Vegas. Though that's been like banging my head against a brick wall of late, thanks to my weird-ass work schedule. And though your post here isn't exactly conducive to me going to one when I finally do get my butt there again.

    Perhaps I' ve misunerstood - there is some rule here as to how many times one has to visit a SC per year/decade prior to posting? Because I've been on a number of other MBs where there was never a problem with me posting, even though I am (or was) more or less on the periphery of the primary MB topic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhaedrusZ View Post
    Perhaps I' ve misunerstood - there is some rule here as to how many times one has to visit a SC per year/decade prior to posting? Because I've been on a number of other MBs where there was never a problem with me posting, even though I am (or was) more or less on the periphery of the primary MB topic.
    Obviously there is no specific month/club visit count. But still - this is an industry board and it is at least as interesting a question as what you asked. Like - what have you been doing here for three years if your only interest in the industry is as minor and periphery as you say?
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhaedrusZ View Post
    Perhaps I will or won't go to a SC the next time I get to Vegas. Though that's been like banging my head against a brick wall of late, thanks to my weird-ass work schedule. And though your post here isn't exactly conducive to me going to one when I finally do get my butt there again.
    Wow really? I have that much of an effect on your decisions? I feel special, almost powerful. Why the hell do you care what a retired stripper thinks of your clubgoing? I was just stating my opinion. You, Deogol, and a couple of other guys get on this site, make one comment about stripping, then just talk politics the rest of the time. Its weird. You don't even flirt with the girls trying to get free attention from them. I'm not trying to understand it, but there are a million other forums out there....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Wow really? I have that much of an effect on your decisions? I feel special, almost powerful. Why the hell do you care what a retired stripper thinks of your clubgoing? I was just stating my opinion. You, Deogol, and a couple of other guys get on this site, make one comment about stripping, then just talk politics the rest of the time. Its weird. You don't even flirt with the girls trying to get free attention from them. I'm not trying to understand it, but there are a million other forums out there....

    Stripperweb has morphed into something more than about stripping.

    I post a lot on slashdot.org - and a few others - but the breadth of subject matter there is limited - as is many other forums dedicated to to a particular cause/community.

    If you look around at these other forums, you will find that yes, they have sub-forums but they are all oriented to the same thing.

    Stripperweb tends to be one stop shopping. Members has plenty of free-form subject matter, the Dollar Den can be just as sophisticated as any other web based financial forum, and the The Lounge does have lots of fun lighthearted current events going on it.

    I would bet there are a surprising number of male posters (and lurkers) who are infrequent club visitors hitting this site.

    What other place can one converse on hedge funds and in one or two clicks later gush about how good the Transformer's movie is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Obviously there is no specific month/club visit count. But still - this is an industry board and it is at least as interesting a question as what you asked. Like - what have you been doing here for three years if your only interest in the industry is as minor and periphery as you say?
    yes, do enlighten us as to why u visit sw if u dont really like sc's?

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    I do gotta say while I find this topic rather bizarre (sort of like going to a Chevy forum and asking people if they hate Chevys), perhaps the discussion that Phad had in mind here was asking if there were certain detracting aspects of SC's that made us perhaps want to avoid going to them? (I don't know, I'm just going out on a limb here).

    If thats the case, the answer would be yes, albeit those detractions aren't always present, and even when they are present, the fact that they annoy me is largely the byproduct of my experiences in clubs, and not some preconceived notion, therefore I don't feel that qualifies as a "prejudice". Its one thing to say mosquitoes are annoying. Its another to say they're annoying because you've been bitten by them in the past.
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    I don't go to the SC very often PhaedrusZ, but that's just good old basic reasons like I'm not an addict type, I have an SO and kids and other wants and needs in life and feel it's only right to limit my spending on SCs in the face of other responsibilities, and partially just because I can only suspend my disbelief for so long (i.e., I enjoy a few occasional trips where I spend well then I do frequent trips where the SS and SC environment feels more grueling then fun).

    I do get a bit freaked out over anything that could pass on a disease to me, but nothing that one can't say no too, and be safe and still have a hell of a good time. Certainly nothing that would cause me to never want to go back.

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    When I lived in NJ I worked as a DJ,a couple of my friends were DJ's,and would go a couple times a week and really enjoyed it.THen when I moved to where I live now I got involved with a dancer and my whole attitude changed.My attitude didn't change had nothing to do with the job but the area.I went to places in both NY and NJ,worked at a place in NJ and they were all no touch but down here things are very very different.If the clubs down here were no touch it wouldn't bother me but since it's not I think it's best if I don't go anymore.So I didn't used to be but I am now.Coming to this forum tho has helped me realize it's not as bad everywhere as it is here so I thank the girls for that

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhaedrusZ View Post
    Anything in your background which contributes to you not going into one, whether you might enter one at times and other times just walk on by? Obviouly, I don't mean anyone objecting re: perceived morality/immorality.

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    Amount of cash, or how busy I am. Does that count, I can't really think of other reasons.
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    No problems here. I gave up my virtue for Lent many years ago...I know that seems odd, and is much odder seeing I was never Catholic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    I am an inner-city public high school teacher. For years I never went to the clubs because I really didn't want to meet any former or ( God forbid ) current students in there. Several of the dancers I've become friendly with know some of my students and that was always worth a laugh. It turned out to be no big deal when I did come across ex-students but I limited my involvement to simply acknowledging them and never doing dances. In some cases, I might have known the girl since she was 13. It would be way too creepy to dance with any of them.
    I also am (or was) an inner city school teacher, and since I taught fourth and fifth grades, I would have known them since they were nine. I don't want to run into their parents, either.

    I solve this problem by going WAY out of town, hundreds of miles away.

    Returning to the original question of the thread, yes there are some SCs that I avoid. They are the ones that are in, or associated with, brothels.

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