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    Hey this is a question for the male customers...

    Today i was dancing and one old man told me that i should get heels that dont have a huge platforms. he said most men prefer smaller heels with less platform...beause it looks more "feminine" or something..

    so just wanna knwo some opinons...do you prefer dancers with shoes like these, the bigger platforms :

    http://snaz75.com/pl-sky-308.html

    or some like these:

    http://snaz75.com/el-421-brook.html

    Or does it not really matter to you? haha.
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    I would like to know what kind of shoes customers prefer as well! I used to wear 4 inchers like those in the pic (w/out the straps) when I first started dancing and the custys said I looked classier (I'm also already tall, though). Now I wear 5 inchers (actual stripper shoes with a platform)....I haven't really noticed a difference with the custys, but I am curious to know what they think, too. Good question!



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    Quote Originally Posted by Windy View Post
    so just wanna knwo some opinons...do you prefer dancers with shoes like these, the bigger platforms :

    http://snaz75.com/pl-sky-308.html
    Oh my favorite local dancer wears heels taller than those. Granted she's only 4'11" to begin with.


    I'm kind of the opinion most men who go to a strip club want to see a sense in exaggeration in the women there. You're supposed to be fantasy girls after all. Big tits, big booty, big hair, big attitude, and in the spirit of things, big heels, no matter what your height is. You can only be too tall as a dancer if you're bumping your head into the fixtures above the stage. There's something about tall platform heels that says, "I'm a STRIPPER!"

    So, I'd say go with the first pair. Unless you feel more comfortable in the second, or something in between. You're the one who has to wear those things for several hours each night after all.
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    I have done both. And when I had on the small heels a lot of men like them and told me I look more like a real woman, and then the other men would tell me I did not fit into the stripper look. Now I wear 6 inch heels with 1-2 inch platforms and I love them, and the men do too. There is one girl at my club now that wears 4 inch heels, and I hear the men always saying she should get bigger shoes.

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    Iknow u asked for the boys opinion but it's interesting u brought this up as I was talking to my dance manager about it (she has danced herself for 10 years) and she said that men like our feet to look petite and if u are wearing a massive platform your feet dont look petite.

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    Windy,
    Given the choice between the two pairs of shoes you picked out, I'd say the platforms. However, I think I know exactly what your customer had in mind when he spoke of smaller, more feminine shoes. He meant something more like these:

    http://snaz75.com/el-457-ania.html

    http://snaz75.com/el-457-mandy.html

    http://snaz75.com/el-card.html

    They're very thin-heeled, with small straps, and a sleek, sexy "pretty" look to then. They're more "classy-feminine-sexy" as opposed to the *ahem* forgive me, "hot-slutty-Iwannabangyou-sexy" that is the giant 6-9" platform-heeled shoe.

    The smaller ones are more traditional, and it makes sense that an older customer made that comment. I tend to agree with him, but really, whichever type of shoe fits your personal style is best.
    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    either pair works for me, but if you are already a tall dancer, stay away from the platforms. I don't want a lap dance from a basketball player.

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    It really depends on how tall you are ... and how wide. If you are short and wide, wear bigger platforms to look taller and slimmer. If you are tall and slim, wear "normal" heels. Tall, slender girls in platforms look somewhat cartoonish - like walking sticks ... and short, thick girls don't draw much attention with the other shoes.

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    Barefoot would be best. After that, high-HIGH heals are nice.

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    Actually you can overdo it with tall shoes. I have a normal body (I think - girls who have met me - normal body? Yes? No?) but wearing 7 inch heels makes my legs ridiculously long and thin; unfortunately my torso doesn't elongate to match. So I wind up looking like a potato with popsicle stick stuck into it. Of course, if you are already very slender or tall and slender, they can make your legs look... emaciated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    So I wind up looking like a potato with popsicle stick stuck into it.
    Now that's a mental image that's gonna stick with me.

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    Meh. I don't think you can ever please everybody, or even come close to figuring out what the majority likes, so go with personal taste.

    Case in point:
    I wore black 6 inchers. Men told me to get clear.
    I got clear 6 inch. Men told me to go taller.
    I got white 7 inch. Men told me to go shorter.
    I got silver 5 inch. Men told me I don't look like a stripper and they don't want a dance, but how about we go out to dinner sometime? Not to mention my feet hurt more. Less platform = more discomfort.

    Personally, I was happiest with the 6" black and 7" white, so I wear those most often. I am already a tall dancer to begin with, so men who don't like tall girls don't go for me anyways regardless of shoes, and men who love tall girls think the taller the better, so it goes over well with them.

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    I like the second pair better. Stiletto's are very sexy.

    I have never been to enamored with "stripper shoe's"....they kind of remind me of those moon boots that use to be so popular ....but hey...that is just me.

    Having said that. The shoes do not make or break the deal with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    So I wind up looking like a potato with popsicle stick stuck into it.
    Way to go...now you made me hungry...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    So I wind up looking like a potato with popsicle stick stuck into it.
    One popsicle stick, reporting for duty Miss!
    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    LOL, screw him. Why is he looking at your shoes at a strip club!
    Your not his granddaughter. Your there to make $$$$$ not for some old farts approval.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    One popsicle stick, reporting for duty Miss!
    Hm. I meant to say TWO popsicle sticks. I think I gave out the wrong impression.
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    I hardly ever notice a dancer's shoes.

    It would seem that dancing and lap dances would be easier to do in the smaller heels. You'd probably feel more grounded in the smaller heels and better balanced.

    I see no reason for the taller shoe. The old fart has a point, go smaller.

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    Quote Originally Posted by austinatalie View Post

    I wore black 6 inchers. Men told me to get clear.
    I got clear 6 inch. Men told me to go taller.
    I got white 7 inch. Men told me to go shorter.
    I got silver 5 inch. Men told me I don't look like a stripper and they don't want a dance, but how about we go out to dinner sometime? Not to mention my feet hurt more. Less platform = more discomfort.
    Ex. Act. Ly. Men, we do like to hear about why you like the things you like, as food for thought (hence many of the threads here), but never make the mistake of thinking that, just because you like something and can rationalize it, that this means you speak for all men. On anything involving women.

    That's actually one thing I learned pretty quickly when I started this. Trying to appeal to every guy's tastes will drive you right out of your fucking gourd, because of exactly the kind of thing austinatalie itemized there.

    I say wear whatever makes YOU look your best, and feel your sexiest, and limp the least.

    (That said, my $0.02? I think going without platforms is risky on anything but the longest and slimmest legs (they can be modest platforms, no saying they have to be absurdly high), and on anyone but the most experienced dancers. A clumsy noob girl in plain heels always looks kind of pitiful. But a kickass dancer in stilettos with no platform always impresses me. Tough to pull off with aplomb.)
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    You guys wear shoes? Huh.. never really noticed.

    (except when y'all do that silly shoe banging thing splits thing on stage.. I always wondered why you'd slam the hell out of a pair of expensive shoes like that.. and I picture heel shrapnel being quite devastating to us innocent PL's)
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    ^ lol they're not expensive! did you see the prices in the OP?

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    These are the type of questions I don't bother asking guys.

    Even R says don't even bother asking If you're paying that much attention to her shoes you are either a chick, gay, or not into your dance enough. Even if you're a chick, you could still not be into your dance enough. Switch it up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseWhite View Post
    Ex. Act. Ly. Men, we do like to hear about why you like the things you like, as food for thought (hence many of the threads here), but never make the mistake of thinking that, just because you like something and can rationalize it, that this means you speak for all men. On anything involving women.

    That's actually one thing I learned pretty quickly when I started this. Trying to appeal to every guy's tastes will drive you right out of your fucking gourd, because of exactly the kind of thing austinatalie itemized there.

    I say wear whatever makes YOU look your best, and feel your sexiest, and limp the least.

    (That said, my $0.02? I think going without platforms is risky on anything but the longest and slimmest legs (they can be modest platforms, no saying they have to be absurdly high), and on anyone but the most experienced dancers. A clumsy noob girl in plain heels always looks kind of pitiful. But a kickass dancer in stilettos with no platform always impresses me. Tough to pull off with aplomb.)
    yeah i tottaly agree with you, RoseWhite. alot of custoemrs do tihnk that whatever THEY prefer, ALL men prefer...and then try to give us little "tips" or "up our game" or something. ha. weird? but i gues theyre just trying to help....lol.

    but yeah, i cant even walk inj thsoe strappy stilletos that someone posted above me earlier. they look nice - but yeah, i also tihnk that guys go 2 a strip club for fantasy...so wearing normal sandals that any other woman would wear out to a bar would be boring to me.

    besides, taller heels do WONDERS for your body. my legs look a mile long, and my butt sticks out my more. wee!

    im 5'5, so i think ill just stick to 5-6 inch heels with the usual platform. yes, you're right. you cant appeal to every man ...just do what u feel is sexy!

    but thanks to everyone for the opinons! interesting to know!
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    The OP asked for the guys opinion. That is what was given.

    Bottom line is wear what makes you feel sexy. If you don't feel sexy, most guys will notice that.

    I know that all guys do not think alike. I also know that most guys don't think like me (and I don't think like them). That is the main reason I have not walked into a club with another guy in tow for quite sometime (can't remember the last time I did). I prefer to "fly" alone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by crizgolfer View Post
    I know that all guys do not think alike. I also know that most guys don't think like me (and I don't think like them).
    If we all wanted the same thing, there'd be a lot less appeal to SC's. Part of the fun of getting a lap dance is having it custom tailored to that fantasy going on in your head, dancer's choice of apparel being one such variable.

    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    If you're paying that much attention to her shoes you are either a chick, gay, or not into your dance enough.
    Not necessarily. What if the customer has a fetish for that sort of thing?
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