saturday my boyfriend and i went to a strip club (one i don't work at, obviously). i got a dance from a really cute girl with awesome mocha colored skin and a great body. well, at least i thought it was a great body. that was untill we sat down for the dance and she immediately started telling me about her C section and how she has a bad scar. then she leaned back a bit so the light would show on it and pointed it out to me. strike number one.
*sigh* it was pretty gnarly, but i might not have noticed (or at least not that closely) if she hadn't -showed- me. then she proceeded to tell me how it makes her feel unattractive. strike number two. don't let your low self esteem show, -that- makes you seem unattractive.
then she started to tell me about how she has a 2 year old she's trying to support. strike number three. i know damned well (because i am one) that we dancers work for money. everyone has a job for a reason, and your reason should never be a selling point for dancers. if a car salesman told me his wife and kids were starving and he needed to "make this sale" i would leave the lot. it's unprofessional and tacky.
i'm not trying to sound like a cold hearted bitch, but i know that pitch all to well. i hear girls use it all the time. "i have kids to feed/i don't have gas money/i'm poor/waahhhh" S.T.F.U and do your job. all of us "need" the money or we wouldn't be there.
anyway, i got one dance from her and (because the club was closing) that was it. although, it would have been it anyway. i wouldn't have gotten repeat dances from someone who does that.



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Yea I think yr thread was professionally worded and not talking shit.



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