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    Sometimes I can never tell if they're into it. Like the other night I did 10 dances for this guy. He barely said a word. I couldn't tell if he liked it or not. I guess he was diggin' the dancing since he got 10 of 'em. It's just strange when men aren't very responsive to you. Does anyone ever have this happen? A guy will get multiple dances but it's like they're not that into it. Strange.
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    eh, it doens't bother me anymore.. I just continue having a "good time" myself. If they want to spend the money you must be doing something right. Personally I think about the money I will be receiving and happily forget the guy.
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    As long as they're buying, they're showing interest, IMO.

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    It doesn't bug me that some guys do this. I guess all guys are diff. and want diff. things.The less time talking and BSin' the better imo. All I really see is a dollar sign flashing on their face anyways.
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    It doesn't bother me, but it IS weird. I admit I like having some sort of a posotive response from a guy, besides the dollars, but it's not totally needed.

    And some guys may feel really strange about it, maybe even a little embarrased (sp?) about it all, so they're trying to "keep their cool"?




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    Quote Originally Posted by dancinslifoxxx17 View Post
    Sometimes I can never tell if they're into it. Like the other night I did 10 dances for this guy. He barely said a word. I couldn't tell if he liked it or not. I guess he was diggin' the dancing since he got 10 of 'em. It's just strange when men aren't very responsive to you. Does anyone ever have this happen? A guy will get multiple dances but it's like they're not that into it. Strange.

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    ^^ I think I've already said it doesn't bother me.
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    this happens to me too. it's off putting, makes it harder for me to give a good dance if I don't have any feedback to work with. I mean, it doesn't bother me per se, I don't need their validation, it's just weird.

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    Some of them are just like that. I don't think it's any indication that you're doing something wrong. I danced for a guy once and he just sat there and never said a word, never moved, nothing. I really didn't think he was into it at all and I was feeling pretty self conscious the whole time. So at the end, I asked him if he enjoyed it, and told him (very sincerely) that I was sorry if it wasn't what he was expecting. He felt really bad because I thought he didn't enjoy it and said "I'll show you how much I liked it" and handed me $200 for one dance. He turned out to be a super nice guy and I really enjoyed talking to him. So, unless they're looking around everywhere but you, I'd take it as a compliment

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    Quote Originally Posted by dancinslifoxxx17 View Post
    I guess he was diggin' the dancing since he got 10 of 'em.
    Bingo!

    Kinda reminds me of some of my exes: If I wasn't moaning and performing like a porn star during sex they thought I wasn't enjoying myself. "B" knows better.

    On the flipside, I have a reg who's OCD's present when he gets excited and he starts counting by two's. Clear indicator, now that I know...
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    I know what you mean. I don't let it bother me per say, but it's nice to have feedback. It can put some vroom into your act if the guy is into it. then you have the guys who barely breathe and it's like...dude...alive?

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    Oh shit yeh it bothers me.
    I feel like they are not enjoying it and then i find it harder to keep it good.
    If they are enjoying it, it increases my enjoyment to and I feel that I do a much better dance. I need encouragement.

    One time I was dancing for this guy, he looked bored shitless during it and I thoought oh he hates it. Then when I finished he said "oh don't stop" and handed me another $50 - for 3 more songs. That was so weird. So I continued and he still looked bored.

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    I wouldn't let it bother you. Some guys want to go into a fantasy world and think about their own things. It's more relaxing for them than.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExoticEngineer View Post

    And some guys may feel really strange about it, maybe even a little embarrased (sp?) about it all, so they're trying to "keep their cool"?
    From my own personal experience, I really try to keep myself under control when receiving private dances so nothing I do comes across as disrespectful. If I've bought multiple dances from you, yeah, I'm enjoying it...

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    I had a guy buy 4 hours and not say a single word and then just shush me when I talked. He wouldn't let me dance, he just wanted me to lay on him and drink champagne. It. was. SOOOO. awkward. :/ But I made like $800.


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    the guys are probably faded or stoned. Don't take it personally. As long as you get your moolah- who cares

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