So I became acquainted with a dancer that I am/was a regular customer of, well a few months ago she gave me her e-mail, phone # and real name. I didn't ask for any of this, this was something she initiated. During our conversations in the club she said she wanted to hang out and I thought that was a cool idea. We've talked briefly 3-4 times on the phone. She even called me when she got sick and had to stay overnight in the hospital (shes okay now)
Anyway, without going into a great amount of detail after not hearing from her since the end of June I called her last night and a male answered her cellphone, I asked for her, she got on the phone, asked who this was and I told her, she cursed once out loud and hung up the phone.![]()
My gut reaction was to call back, but I didn't. My next thought was to email her and tell her as nicely as one can I thought that was pretty rude, and uncalled for as far as I know. But I haven't...I'm thinking I may just wait until I see her at the club and see if she comes up to me.
So would it be better in this case to wait till I see her at the club and see how she acts or be a bit more proactive in confronting her? When I say confront, I mean email because I just want to find out what her deal is and let her know what I thought she did was shitty.



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