i absolutely hate it
the only reason i'm still here is because i can basically do whatever i want (outside of the home, of course) and although i do pay all my bills, having one less bill (rent) comes in handy.
its just the fact that living WITH my mom is the biggest nuisance known to man.
today
the second she comes home from work, i get bitched at about cleaning up the basket/straw shavings in the living room from one of the dogs that ate it.
fact 1
we do not own a vacuum
fact 2
my mom hires cleaning people to clean our house (because she would rather pay someone else to do it than pay me, because apparently i "wouldn't do it". um, okay, if you pay people to weekly clean, why should she, or i, have to clean, ever? and if she wants to pay someone to clean, she could just pay ME to do it instead??) - but thats another story) and the cleaning people are coming TOMORROW.
does it make any sense for me to get on my hands and knees to pick up these tiny little shreds of crap all over our floor, when she is paying people to vaccuum the SAME ROOM tomorrow??
so i get screamed at, etc etc, about how i need to do it, when i tell her why do i have to do it when they're vaccuming tomorrow? first thing my mom says, walking through the door, i shit you not. no hi how are you, just bitching. i don't have a problem ever helping her out but it makes no sense!!! and i'm still getting yelled at as we speak!!
my boyfriend is coming over in a minute to go swimming, and i know she's going to tell him to pick it up, because her favorite thing in the world to do is give my guy friends chores whenever they come over... that's why my boyfriend is the only person i ever invite to my house.
please. if we owned a vaccuum, maybe, or if people she is PAYING weren't coming over TOMORROW, to vaccuum the same FUCKING ROOM, then MAYBE i'd be more than happy to do it for her. but no. she's freakin STUPID, and makes no damn sense. this is not me being a spoiled brat, this is me being LOGICAL against someone who has no rational thought process....
i want to get out of this house, but i'd have no idea where i'd want to live. no idea what part of my city, or if even in this city at all. being only 19 i'm not exactly in a big rush to get out either, there are lots of things i want to save for/obtain before i move out (like buying furniture, etc) so this is probably in my best interest to stay here at least another year.
i love my mom to death but she's the most annoying person in the fucking world to ever have to live with, and there are many many more stories.....



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I am also interested in way too many things to decide on just one thing. School will always be there, but my youth will not, so why rush to settle down? I don't even know what city I want to live in (because I do not want to live in St. Louis my ENTIRE life). So I'd like to travel and try out some things (like modelling for example) and when the time is right to make such a big decision I will know.
I love travelling and I love getting out of the house.
But she raised the dog the same way. He does nothing but bark and destroy everything in sight. She goes to garage sales and buys $10 worth of toys (she finds people who are selling bags of small stuffed animals for like 10 cents a piece) and then puts them in this HUGE tub for the dog to play with. NO DOG NEEDS 50 TOYS. not only that, but small stuffed animals are not built to stand a dogs play, so every day i have to pick up at least 4 disemboweled stuffed animals, and or their stuffing. As a result of having SO MANY toys that he can destroy at whim, he thinks that EVERYTHING on the floor is his toy. I've lost hundreds of dollars of makeup (because my mom does not shut my bathroom door after she uses it and he gets into shit), I've lost count of the underwear that's been destroyed, he's ruined various possession of both of ours and he's been doing it since we got him 5 years ago. It's impossible to discipline a dog when only one of the residents in the house ever enforces it. 
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