My situation is unusual, but I really need advice. I have been dancing just over 2 years (part time, 2x/week). I graduated Uni in ‘04 and have been working a career/full time day job since before I began dancing. I started stripping not because of money but more because of curiousity. Stripping worked out so surprisingly well & I make great $. Because I am not your typical stripper (short hair, no tan, small boobs), and because I already had a job I kept it secret from most of my friends and all my family all this time.
I’ve been dating a great guy for about 4.5 months and I never told him about the stripping – because I temporarily had quit when I met him since I was getting caught up in the drugs & booze. But, I’ve gone to work a couple times since being with him, and am not completely ready to give stripping up altogether.
I feel like I must tell him so that he truly Knows me and my life, and in case he finds out about it or if I decide I want to do it again regularly.
But I’m afraid that since I kept it from him for so long he will lose all trust in me and ditch. Or, that he’ll decide I am dishonest, flakey, dirty, guilty for stripping & lying.
Any advice how to tell him? I think I want to get serious with this guy. I never meant to be a bad person or dishonest, but I fucked up. Thanks!



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