On the flip side, you have no idea how hard it is for the nice guys to have to watch the girl of his dreams date every loser, shit bad, and a-hole that comes along and he gets ignored. Most guys know nice guys often finish last and see all the time the jerks/a-holes get the girl. Been there done that...
Here's a true story. Back in the day I had the hots for the girl. She was a 10, smart, funny, etc. The guy she was dating was a total loser, no jovb, ex con, drug issues, etc. She was known for dating losers. When she became single I asked her out. We went out on three dates. Had a nice time. She then told other people she was pretty sure I was gay because after three dates, I had not jumped her. I had a good laugh over that. Moral is, she was so used to having a-holes try and get her clohtes off in the first few dates, guys who didnt (after three whole dates no less!) must be gay. I though it was sad and told her as much and that was the end of our dating.
She tried calling a few times after that but I had lost my interest and went back to looking for the gals that appreciated the respect of guys who didnt have 10 hands after a few dates....





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and its my birthday too hehe so yay! i do think i show guys different parts of me but not everything.. like since i started dancing and i could be someone else whenever i wanted, i kind of carried that over into "real" life. i also realized that i pick a few guys to hang out with at once, and i like different parts of all of them. like one is the funny guy, one is super intense, etc. that way i can go to whoever i want for whatever i want, but i never have to be stuck to one person.
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