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    Damn... HELLFIRE...

    I like this girl way too much. Looks like i'm off to flynt's Saint Louis, or maybe PT's. One way or another gotta fly. I suppose i hit my half life or something.

    Now, is there any way i should do this? Should i just stop going to that club (my guess), i was dumb enough to let this chick have my cell number so sooner or later i'm gonna have to deal with her calling wanting me to come see her. Is there any honorable way out of this? Do i just not answer the phone? I mean, i could tell her the truth but that just seems like feeding blood to Jaws, i mean i REALLY want to keep seeing this Lady. But... It aint real...

    Sooner or later she's gonna be on my phone. Is there any way i can NOT see her without being an asshole to someone i like?

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    Why dont u tell her u like her too much. You could even ask for OTC. That always puts me off enough to back off.
    She will understand. The dancer-regular thing has an expiry date.

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    Your answered your own question if you know it isnt real then whats the point putting emotion to something someelse doesnt put any into at all?

    ask for a OTC and if she backs off then your clear this is a Business and people fall prey to it if not carefull.

    Im not trying to put you down and say this couldnt work because there is a slim chance you can make this happen Just ask and take it from there it never hurts good luck friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Why dont u tell her u like her too much. You could even ask for OTC. That always puts me off enough to back off.
    She will understand. The dancer-regular thing has an expiry date.
    I don't wanna ask for OTC, that's disrespectful. Something like that is hers and hers alone.

    Should i really tell her i like her too much? It just seems like a silly thing to do. I know i'm reading too much into this, but she is a nice chick and if i didn't at least think about her i'd consider myself an asshole. She didn't do a thing but be a stripper. I let myself go. It sucks but i did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    I don't wanna ask for OTC, that's disrespectful. Something like that is hers and hers alone.

    Should i really tell her i like her too much? It just seems like a silly thing to do. I know i'm reading too much into this, but she is a nice chick and if i didn't at least think about her i'd consider myself an asshole. She didn't do a thing but be a stripper. I let myself go. It sucks but i did.
    I know exactly where your coming from I think of dancers ive met all the time but I will say one thing. The Silly things in this world make more differences then most of the major attempts that we do. Most of the time its the small things that matter tell her and she may actually be interested good luck man.

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    Now you've got me wondering which club you regularly go to Madcap.

    I'd just be honest with the girl if she calls. Try some of the other clubs and see what happens. I wouldn't ask for OTC either unless you're really serious about going in that direction or really don't respect the girl. Not that you can't do OTC with a girl you respect but don't put it out there unless your serious.

    Personally I just try to be honest and straight forward. If a dancer wants to play games or manipulate my emotions then that's on her but at least I can look back and know I tried to be a decent guy.

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    Shouldn't be too hard Jannisary. I don't go for clubs where i get hit up for extras. Pretty much leavs 4 in STL. I mentioned 2. You got a 50/50 shot.

    I do respect the girl. So bugging her about OTC is out. If the sun rises in the west and she asks me for OTC i'm all over it. But the sun has risen in the east for 5 billion years and i expect nothing less tomorrow.

    Honesty is the best policy, but those damned strippers can be awful convincing. I mean they wait till you are like a seal swimming along... and then...



    Those damned strippers! Grr...



    hehe

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    Hollywood!

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    B-i-n-g-o

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    Quote Originally Posted by TroJaN SeTrA View Post
    Your answered your own question if you know it isnt real then whats the point putting emotion to something someelse doesnt put any into at all?
    I agree, but you know, the heart wants what the heart wants. Sometimes emotions trump intellect and no matter how much you know better, crushes/infatuations happen.

    Good luck Madcap The main thing is you are not deluded. Hope it works out for you.

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    Madcap - may I suggest a "I've just been really busy lately... maybe some time next month?" I mean you don't really need to offer reasons... just polite vagueness should do it.
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    I.... have been to madcap's club....and he did not go with?

    I'm a bad strip clubber...junkie

    Mad: Keep it simple man, just be honest, nothing wrong with that. "Hey I'm getting attached."

    The problem being is that you gotta do this for you, cause, well if she likes you, it'll suck for her and she'll want to stop it, on the complete flipside she could put you down for it etc etc etc...

    Just do it for you. Give it some time, and come back.

    Good luck man. You kick a ton of ass, I feel bad for her.
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    You're doomed baby!

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    Check out some other clubs for a bit. If she calls then be honest with her. Life goes on brother. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Gotta switch clubs...

    I have found another. Ahhhh....

    Being flighty makes life sooo much easier...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    I have found another. Ahhhh....

    Being flighty makes life sooo much easier...
    Thank goodness. I though we were going to have to do an intervention.

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