Ok, this is just out of curiosity, but I'm going to ask, it really has no effect here, but I'm just getting a vibe:
Are you waiting for her to get over her 5 year messy exit appropriately so you can date her?
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On topic, no matter what, you called her a friend so I'll work from there
People have friends. Loved ones. Family. Lovers. They all have lives. They all have problems. STAY OUT OF THEM.
Really. That's not callous, just, be a GOOD friend, respect her decision. Voice your concern, and just BE there for her if shit hits the fan. Don't try to protect her, it's really not your job. Let it work itself out, just be available if she needs you. Trust me, she'll respect you more for it cause when everyone is voicing their opinions of this guys douchebaggery, they're going to alienate her and make her feel comfortable. If you voice your opinion, soft and once, she'll feel like she can talk to you about it. THAT'S what friends are for.
Well, you're her friend. Based on your motives of course, if you get the feeling the guy is slime, he probably is. But really, just be supportive and stay out of it. It's really not your place. If the guy turns out to be slime, you'll probably be the first she trusts, ya know?
Hell she's probably just rebounding anyways.
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