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    hey ladies
    as you guys know , i live in the city (nyc), and there are quite a lot of females here.. they out number the men
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    im curious as to what goes through your head when some random stranger is screaming things at you, whistling, honkin, or if him and his boys are saying inappropriate things to you ..

    the one thing i personally never do is approach a woman this way because i can't possibly see how a sane woman could be comfortable with someonething like that


    so anyways, please tell me what actually goes through your mind when this happens to you ???

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    I'm laughing on the inside most of the time. 9 times out of 10 they are making SUCH fools of themselves, and I find it funny. They usually don't offend me. I mean, they tend to be complimentary, albeit crude... but crude I can handle.
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    I laugh too. I mean seriously...does that EVER work??

    Once in Key West (where the main road is VERY small nad traffic often means people are driving very slow...lots of "cruising" down Duval too) me and my 2 girlfriends got annoyed at this. Every 3 minutes some guy was hanging out of his car screaming at us "woo hoo..yeah sexy..I want some of that..."blah blah. So we started fuckiong with them...acting like we were running after the car "NOooooooooo stooooopp.....I want you nooooowwwwwww". They all looked at us like we were nuts. Yeah..We're the crazy ones losers!!

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    It depends on my mood actually. If i'm in a good mood that day, then I'll normally laugh it off. But if I'm not in a great mood....watch out. I've been known to tell the guy(s) how I truly feel.

    It can be disrespectful and sometimes embarrassing. I've had guys say things and whistle when I'm out with my family. Come on now...if I'm out with my grandparents, be considerate and keep your comments to yourself. I don't need my grandparents hearing what you want to do to me, or how sexy you think i am.

    That's one of the reasons I hate going to bars around my house. People seem to forget to be classy and just say whatever they feel like saying. If you really want to get to know me, come up to me and just start up a conversation. Pick up lines, yelling out of your window and whistling at me just won't work. Especially whistling, that just drives me nuts. I'm not a dog. I won't respond to a whistle.
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    im surprised... i was always under the impression that it would make you extremely un easy and angry ..

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    TLC's No Scrubs comes to mind:

    "I don't want no scrub
    A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
    Hanging out the passenger side
    Of his best friend's ride
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    im surprised... i was always under the impression that it would make you extremely un easy and angry ..

    It's too pathetic to make me extremely anything!

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    It irritates me. It didn't used to, but since I've started dancing, it does. I either ignore it, or flip them off. Depending on my mood.
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    i think "Gosh, what a bunch of loosers" Do they actually think i will stop dead in my tracks and want to talk to you...?

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    i think "Gosh, what a bunch of loosers" Do they actually think i will stop dead in my tracks and want to talk to you...?
    exactly, I want to ask them if that ever works.
    It's stupid and if anything will make me want to get farther and farther away from them.
    thank goodness construction workers are no longer "allowed" to do this.
    last week a guy called out of his car, "you got a purty butt girl, shake it!".. puhlease, what a tool.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    i think "Gosh, what a bunch of loosers" Do they actually think i will stop dead in my tracks and want to talk to you...?
    Ditto to that reply. It sometimes also makes me a bit nervous or afraid that they might try to follow or hurt me.

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    In my head I giggle also. But it does embarrass me the shit out of me too, & think they're silly. And depending on what the guy has said too, it can be offensive also.

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    I don't like it because they usually do it while I'm walking down the the street. Especially with the honking as I'm walking, it scares the bejeezus out of me. Give me heart attack why don't you??? I'm just trying to walk here!

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    Rinna,

    I feel what you do. Depending on the circumstance, it ranges from irritating to downright threatening.

    If I'm in a good mood, I can laugh it off. If not, well...

    Honestly though, guys rarely do that to "show appreciation." It's an act of dominance and heckling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    I don't like it because they usually do it while I'm walking down the the street. Especially with the honking as I'm walking, it scares the bejeezus out of me. Give me heart attack why don't you??? I'm just trying to walk here!
    exactly, I tend to completely ignore them, but still it is quite startling with the honking and yelling.
    As for being followed, it's happened and it was VERY frightening.
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    I ignore attention as much as I can and pretend that the whistles and yows and beeping and comments are directed to someone else. I wish people would leave me alone mostly.
    Sometimes I laugh if someone says or does something really original or funny or just totally lame. If the comments are polite I smile, but i hate people yelling out to me on the street generally.

    My personal top 3 pet hates in this department though are:
    Guys who come up and sing.
    Guys who come up and dance
    (Or a combination of both - how the hell is either going to make any girl like a man, lol?!)
    And guys who either follow you around or leap in front of you to stop you in your tracks. Ugh - annoying and fucking rude!

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    It makes me pretty angry, but then I remind myself that I could be not worth whistling at and I try to calm down.

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    Generally, it seriously pisses me off

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    I HATE it. It makes me angry and uneasy. In some circumstances, it makes me feel very unsafe.

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    My thoughts, verbatim: Eyeroll.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveK View Post


    so anyways, please tell me what actually goes through your mind when this happens to you ???
    ok this exact thing goes thru my head:
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    I'm thinking they're an idiot.

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    It makes me uneasy and a bit scared, honestly. If they're that much of a complete dick to my face, how are they gonna treat me if I look away for a SECOND? I'm always scared they're gonna rape me.


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    This irritates me but usually I just laugh it off.

    However!! This weekend my friend (with benefits) came down from L.A. to visit, and I got very blatantly hit on and catcalled at least 4 times while walking RIGHT with him. That's just rude, fuck.

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    I think, "Whoa! Wtf is going on?!" (because I'm being snapped out of my daydreams or whatever), realize that it's some idiot, give them a dirty look, and continue on my way.... losers. As if I'm going to meet a decent guy that way. I have a better chance at happy hour.
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    Usually I just ignore it and think that they're just idiot men.

    I washed my car in my own driveway for the first time a couple weeks ago. I live next door to my bar (family business) on a main road. I only had to flip off 3 different cars of men. One was a city-county truck that literally stopped in the road to gawk. It sux.

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