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    Default how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    Ok, i know this sounds weird. But let me explain!
    I HATE my boobs. I have a daughter, so obviously pregnancy and breastfeeding did a number on my chest. I wear a 34 B, but am pretty saggy, and just feel very self concious being topless or in certain clothes.
    My bf says i don't need them; i appreciate that he loves me anyway, BUT all the girls he thinks are hot have big boobs. He says if i got them i'd show them off to everyone, he doesn't want that.
    I've told him i wouldn't, and that it's about ME wanting to feel good about my body.

    What else can i do to convince him? I don't have the money yet, it probably wouldn't even be for another year or so. But i want him to support me and help me when the time comes. Any thoughts?
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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    Yea basically everyone who gets a BA just shows em off to everyone and anyone you wants to see.

    I work with a girl who had the same problem. Her bf thought she was gonna get really large 'freak' looking boobs. Of course she turned out very nice and he's happy that she's happy now. He told her before no you don't need them blah blah blah she went and got them anyway sans her bf's support.

    So do what you want. Ask him why and get another answer besides "dur uh you're gonna show em to people ugh *scratch scratch*". Thats not a valid excuse for you not to get them. Sometimes theres only so much you can say and do to convince them. In the end its going to be your decision regardless of what other people think.
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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    There's also a procedure which gives your breasts "shelves" to push them up. The shelf is a little implant that goes under the breast, like one of those push-up prom bras you used to see in Seventeen magazine. They'd still be your own boobs; maybe you could look into that, as well.

    Ultimately, it's your body and you shouldn't have to convince him of anything.

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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    Umm, what? He's not even your husband and you're having to ask his permission to do things to your own body? No offense, but that sounds pretty fucked up to me.
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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    He's your boyfriend, not your owner. Sounds like he is very insecure. The only person you need to convince is yourself. Do what is right for yourself.

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    Yeah if the fact that you might show them to people is his only concern(as opposed to being worried about what you'll look like or the health aspects of having surgery)...its lame at best and controlling at worst.

    Save up for it. Keep bringing it up and bascially let him know that it IS going to happen. He can accept it or not.

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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    My husband wasn't keen on the idea of me getting implants but he knew it was what I wanted, now that I have them he loves them. Not only because they look fantastic but because of how I fell about having them.

    I do agree with everyone else, it's your body and your choice, not his. You are your own person whether you're in a relationship or not. Even though I'm married, if my husband had told me not to get implants I would have told him to fuck off and done it anyway, and he know that. He also doesn't like it when I dye my hair but he gets over that too.

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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    I think you should just go ahead and get 'em. There is no way to convince really.

    Mine doesn't want me to get any either because he's afraid I'll be falling out of about 95% of my shirts. (which I'm sure I will be) He doesn't want to deal with the attention. But it is not his decision.
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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    haven't read replies yet... but but ... but LET you????

    Please, it's your thing if you're paying right? And his insecurity about your future behavior is what it sounds like. While you can't promise they won't change you at all (confidence, etc), his insecurities are his issues, not yours.

    I don't know if there is a real way to convince him, but I would not let him hold you back from what you want.

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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    Explain to him that it's not about your breasts neccisarily being large but it's about feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin. He should want you to feel confident and shouldn't feel insecure or that it's a threat towards him.

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    If you have to convince your BOYFRIEND to "let" you do anything, you have much bigger problems than sagging boobs.

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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    thakns for your replies. but we share the financial load so part of it he does have to approve of. BUT as long as we have the money for it i don't think it's his choice! hehe

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    I have a huge problem with the concept of a grown woman needing someone to "let" her do anything, especially to her own body. You don't need permission. You're an adult.

    If he doesn't want to spend the money, get a second job and save up the money yourself so you can say you personally worked for it. This should demonstrate how much you want it, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by betterthaneden View Post
    thakns for your replies. but we share the financial load so part of it he does have to approve of. BUT as long as we have the money for it i don't think it's his choice! hehe
    Well, if you want a boob job, work your ass off, TELL him your setting aside for one, and then...get one!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    Well, if you want a boob job, work your ass off, TELL him your setting aside for one, and then...get one!
    AMEN SISTER!

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    Default Re: how 2 convince bf 2 let me get a boob job?

    What is this "LET" you speak of? I don't understand what you're talking about! "Let"...?

    Here is what you should say "Hey, [man who is lucky to be with me] I'm getting bigger boobs and I'm pretty excited about it!"

    That should be the beginnng and end of the conversation, unless he has something positive to say.

    The "financial burden" that you share means absolutely nothing, unless you're expecting him to pay for half. If that's the case, there is an easy solution which has already been mentioned..just pay for them yourself. Even if you "split monthly bills" or whatever, what you do with the rest of you "non-bill money" is absolutely none of his business if he's just your boyfriend. WTF.

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    Say, "This is my body and this is what I want to do to it. It is my decision, not yours. Since it is a surgical procedure, I'd really appreciate your support."

    Or, you could put on your Cartman voice and say, "Whuteva! I do whut I WANT!" and then run to the doctor's office.
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    Ok first he is a BOYFRIEND not a husband. Tell him that as long as your body is 110% yours he has no say in whether you get a boob job or not. If he wants a say than he better be going down to the jewelry store and buying you a phat rock to put on your finger! LOL! Seriously though, it's your body.
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    Convince your BOYFRIEND (not your hub) to "let" you get a boob job? No offense, but are you like, 17? You shouldn't have to ask his permission to get a boob job, he is not your dad/hub/owner.

    I swear, I need to stay out of these threads, they make me nuts.

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    Okay, obviously it is her decision and only her decision, I'm sure we all agree on that - but come on you guys you act like the boyfriends feelings are of absolutely no concern whatsoever. They're in a partnership and I do think the reasons he gave are terrible - but aside from that, she did say she just wants him to be supportive.

    I mean if my boyfriend woke up one morning and told me he was going off to get a nose job or something and that was that, I'd feel a little irritated that he hadn't asked me what I thought first. Of course I'd have to "let" him though, cause it is his body.

    So I hope what she is really asking is "how to convince her bf to be supportive of her decision to get a boob job."

    Maybe someone has advice for that.
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    Holiday, most people here would be somewhat ok with your more reasonable question/statement...but she asked how to get his permission, implying that she needed his approval before she could do it...and of her boyfriend, no less (not husband).

    Hell, I don't even really think you should need the approval/permission of a husband unless the issue is money related.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post

    Or, you could put on your Cartman voice and say, "Whuteva! I do whut I WANT!" and then run to the doctor's office.
    YES!!! This is your best bet.... do it!

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    If the only reason you need bf's "permission" is financial, then do the work, save the money and pay for it yourself. He can't say a damn thing about it then.

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    Im with everybody else yor body -your business, but,

    Do you dance/ does he know?

    If so, tell him that after your boob job. Youll have to put up with less sticky fingered men because youll be making more money of of less men.

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    he'll piss and moan until they've healed then he'll be like the bfs of most of my friends who have had it done and he will be converted.

    your body. your business. if he doesn't like it... he knows where the door is.
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