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    Okay, been reading some of the forums here. I am lost. I am new to this site, looking to find a job as a phone sex operator. Dont know where to start. Been reading that you should be up on the latest fetishes and fantasies. Ok where do you start with that? I watch porn, I read mags and such. Any sugestions to give me a real hard core 101 lesson? I want to get serious with this and get started just need to find out how. I have submitted some apps online for a few companies. I figure that is step 1. Where to now???? I just want to find a way to make extra money to support my 2 kids. Any help would be VERY much appreciated. Thanks.....

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    Lightbulb Re: Very confused!!!!

    Since no one has replied yet, I would Private Message (PM) some of the ladies whose answers in the Phone Sex threads seemed the best to you, they can help. Good luck!

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    there are two methods to fetishes i found that work due to the fact that each is unique in its own way (like sex not everyone wants it the same)

    one mirroring what they say aka foot fetish senario

    him/her "can i suck your toes"
    you "i love it when you suck my toes"

    let them lead and fallow

    second method just be honest if they are a real fetishist they are way more then happy to tell you all about it

    both worked for me researching the subjects is almost (key word almost) useless
    1- because no matter how many you research there will be one that someone has you have never heard of
    and 2- like i said each person has there own unique version of each fetish

    though if i where you i would seriously look up BDSM (bondage discipline and satism and masichism) that one you kinda need backround on if you plan to do any of that also find a domme/dom and/or submissive/slave to talk to. might give you some insights

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    I'm just a new pso... I think most of the fetishes i have had so far have been men dressing up in girlie clothes and men wanting domme calls. With the domme ones it is a good idea to just ask them what they are looking for and tailor it to them... and read BDSM stories to get ideas about that stuff like poisondesire suggested.....
    I think the most important thing is just the ability to wing it and go with the flow. There are fetishes out therre that I have never even heard of! and I thought I had the kinkiest dirtiest friends in the world.... lol. The other day I had a guy who had a balloon fetish! He spent about half an hour whilst I scrounged around looking for some balloons and blew one up for him?????? but apparently THAT'S a huge fetish, they're called "looners" lol.
    The other thing in the States it seems that you can either work for a taboo or a nontaboo company, so I gues you would need to work out what sort of company you want to work for and follow their company policy... a non-tabboo line could be full on, could you do paedophille calls etc? In australia we r not allowed to do anything underage and I must admit it's a bit of a relief that I dont have to decide if I want to take those calls or not.

    Good luck, its heaps of fun. There r also a few online forums dedicated to pso work, one called psodivas seems to have a bit of info on how to start out.

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    Default Re: Very confused!!!!

    Do a search in this forum, lots of info on it. Check out threads by Pamela. Also, adultstaffing.com, sexyjobs.com.


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    I think I am getting closer to where I need to be. Just need to find a company first. Then my next stumble will be how do I know what to say? Will I beable to really just fall into this? I mean yes I can talk dirty but is there any mockup cheats that are available in case of stumbling? Is this a real deal? I mean is there really ways to make ok money. I dont expect to be a millionaire but would like to beable to keep clothes on my kids backs and food on the table ya know? I guess I am just really confused in all of this. Not smart when it comes to this industry. Hospital contracts was my specialty 4 years ago. Thanks guys for your help so far. Any other wisdom is much appreciated.

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    i have been wandering about dancing too!!!!i would like to get into the business but i don't know about totally nude lap dances.i have no problem with total nudity on stage but not one on one,not yet anyhow.i am moving to the baltimore area soon.anybody out there that can give me tips is appreciated!!!thanks

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    Default Re: Very confused!!!!

    There's a whole section dedicated to newbies! Check out some threads there and in Club Chat if you need location specific help.



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    Quote Originally Posted by crazy_sexy View Post
    i have been wandering about dancing too!!!!i would like to get into the business but i don't know about totally nude lap dances.i have no problem with total nudity on stage but not one on one,not yet anyhow.i am moving to the baltimore area soon.anybody out there that can give me tips is appreciated!!!thanks
    This thread is about doing phone work...try searching the forum.

    To the OP- Hope you find the info you need! I've heard that is a fun job.

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    To the OP- have you had any luck finding a PSO job yet? I'm currently trying to get into the same field but haven't been having any luck despite applying with several companies.

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    Default Re: Very confused!!!!

    sexyjobs.com has tons of phonesex jobs posted.

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    OMG!! I got a job being a PSO! I can't believe how quickly I got hired, I literally just left a phone message last night and they called me this morning to ask if I could start TODAY! I start my orientation soon and then work my first shift tonight. I'm so nervous! Thanks for all the suggestions and info, Ladies. I'll let you know how it goes!

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    I worked my first PSO shift last night and KICKED ASS! My average hold time was over 12 minutes even though over half of my calls were hang ups or lasted less than 2 minutes, and I even maxed a caller out by keeping him on the phone for 45 min.

    So I was feeling pretty confident when I started my second shift this evening. But it went HORRIBLY!!!! I could barely get past saying my damn name and the callers were hanging up. Then the dispatcher kept coming on the line and asking me if I was ok, if I was nervous, etc. I mean, of course I was nervous, but then I was feeling even worse when he kept coming on to check on me! I know he was trying to help, but I really don't know what I was doing wrong. How can I talk to a caller and get my average hold time up when they hang up immediately after finding out I'm not the girl they were looking for (the company doesn't allow requests, so callers literally have to keep calling back until they find the girl they want, if they're looking for someone in particular)? But then I got a call where I kicked ass again and maxed him out. But RIGHT after that, the dispatcher comes on to tell me they wanted me to "call it a night" and end my shift and hour and a half early. I'm feeling all worried that they're gonna fire me, but maybe I would be better off at a different company that does allow requests (although I'm sure there would still be hang ups).

    I guess this turned into more of a vent than a post asking for feedback/ advice, but if you do have any, I'd love to hear it!!

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    Which PS company are you working for?

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    Universal Telecommunications. But since taking the job there, another company also contacted me and I'm just waiting to get my contract and related paperwork in the mail from them. Depending on what the new contract says, I might switch companies.

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    I have heard UT are FAMOUS for their short calls.... hopefully you pick up again or your new contract looks ok. Well done on doing so well on your first shift !!
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    Flick6: Well done on doing so well on your first shift !!


    Thank you!! Things have really been picking up for me since that post I left about my horrible shift. My hold times have been getting better with each shift, though there are still some types of calls that I struggle with. For me, the key has been to NOT try to keep callers on the line if they're obviously looking to speak with someone else in particular (which is of course the opposite of what the company wants me to do). But if a caller is looking for a particular PSO, then I'm shooting myself in the foot by trying to keep him on the phone because he's just going to hang up and then fuck up my hold time.

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