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    So this guy comes in last Wednesday and I did some dances for him. He was your average Joe, late '30s, balding, but kind of cute in the face and very harmless. He spent a decent amount so I remembered him right away when he came back to the club this Monday. While dancing for him the first time I asked him if he liked stockings and garter belts (I had gotten some new ones and was already planning to wear them later that night). Of course he said he liked that look and I told him that I would put it on, but that it would take a little effort. I went and changed and we did five or six more dances and he gave me $250.

    He didn't act really creepy, but he did keep saying that he had been thinking about me and couldn't sleep the night I danced for him, etc. After that conversation I decided I would have to keep it strictly professional with him, as in no SS. He just seemed like the kind of guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and probably gets taken advantage of pretty easily.

    Tonight I get to work and one of the day girls came up and handed me a gift bag and described who gave it to her and I knew it was him. In the bag was a big thank you card that looked like it came from a little kid, you know, cartoon characters and shit like that. There was also a handwritten letter from him that thanked me profusely and said that he couldn't believe someone would do such a nice thing for him (putting on the stockings???) and that he felt he owed me thanks.

    It went on to say how gorgeous I looked that night and how he dreamed about me and shit. It was funny, but also kinda sad and weird. He's definitely non-threatening, but it's been a long time since a custie developed an obssession with me. I hope that's not what is happening here. I guess the next time I see him I will just have to clear things up that what I do in the club is just business and not personal. This isn't someone I'd try to string along for money, although I know a lot of dancers would.

    Still, it was an interesting story and I thought y'all might like it, haha. The funny part is that he had this nice gift bag and all it had in it was a cheesy Hallmark card. I'm thinking, if this guy wants to impress me he needs to give me a better "gift" than a freaking card. I'm such an ingrate, lol.
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    That guy seems lonley, sounds like you make him feel special lol, so he'll probely keep coming back in to see you. As long as he doesn't get too creepy and obsessive - take advantage and make your $$$$$

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    So this guy comes in last Wednesday and I did some dances for him. He was your average Joe, late '30s, balding, but kind of cute in the face and very harmless. He spent a decent amount so I remembered him right away when he came back to the club this Monday. While dancing for him the first time I asked him if he liked stockings and garter belts (I had gotten some new ones and was already planning to wear them later that night). Of course he said he liked that look and I told him that I would put it on, but that it would take a little effort. I went and changed and we did five or six more dances and he gave me $250.

    He didn't act really creepy, but he did keep saying that he had been thinking about me and couldn't sleep the night I danced for him, etc. After that conversation I decided I would have to keep it strictly professional with him, as in no SS. He just seemed like the kind of guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and probably gets taken advantage of pretty easily.

    Tonight I get to work and one of the day girls came up and handed me a gift bag and described who gave it to her and I knew it was him. In the bag was a big thank you card that looked like it came from a little kid, you know, cartoon characters and shit like that. There was also a handwritten letter from him that thanked me profusely and said that he couldn't believe someone would do such a nice thing for him (putting on the stockings???) and that he felt he owed me thanks.

    It went on to say how gorgeous I looked that night and how he dreamed about me and shit. It was funny, but also kinda sad and weird. He's definitely non-threatening, but it's been a long time since a custie developed an obssession with me. I hope that's not what is happening here. I guess the next time I see him I will just have to clear things up that what I do in the club is just business and not personal. This isn't someone I'd try to string along for money, although I know a lot of dancers would.

    Still, it was an interesting story and I thought y'all might like it, haha. The funny part is that he had this nice gift bag and all it had in it was a cheesy Hallmark card. I'm thinking, if this guy wants to impress me he needs to give me a better "gift" than a freaking card. I'm such an ingrate, lol.

    I had one of these guys. When I moved, he wrote me a 10 page goodbye letter and gave me a $10 gift certificate.


    But yeah, he sounds lonely and he latched on. Just create distance from him, hopefully he won't develop anything to creepy.

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    Keep the ball in your court and get the money while it's there.

    I know this sounds totally wrong but I'd tell him you thought **maybe** there was something missing out of the *giftbag* because all that was in it was a letter and you're hoping noone stole the gift. HA!

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    ^^haha

    He sounds really sweet. I understand the strong urge to not take total advantage of people, I'm the same way. Maybe he could really use a friend to be nice to him though. As long as he's not paying you toooo much money, I'd give him a little talk about keeping things professional, then tell him you'd love to hang out as friends in the club though, and let him keep coming in. That's what we're here for, to make guys feel happy when the real world is getting them down.

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    Sounds like a good potential regular.

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    I'll repeat, I try not to take advantage of people or lead them to wrong conclusions just to get cash. After all, I still have to look at myself in the mirror and be able to deal with the person looking back at me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by carolina6 View Post
    That's what we're here for, to make guys feel happy when the real world is getting them down.
    Exactly.

    I have a customer like this who I have had for the past 9-10 months. I could probably set my watch by this guy, he comes in on 7 o'clock on Wednesday. He also comes in on some Saturdays. I remember the second time he saw me he gave me a TeddyBear and chocolates. He always buys at least one VIP room minimum, and on occassion has me for the entire night. He is in his 50s, an Italian immigrant, no kids, businessman and investor. He has asked me OTC on a couple of occassions but I have told him that I want to keep our relationship professional and ITC only. He has agreed and hasn't asked me about it since. I have never made promises to him that I can't keep or lead him on.

    I don't feel like I am taking advantage of him because we keep the relationship strictly professional. I have never asked him for any money, it is all at his discretion. He is older, successful, and without any kids so I don't feel bad about the money he gives me. A lot of men WANT to spend money on young hot chicks and greatly ENJOY it. And often it is just on one particular girl that he likes or deems as "special" one way or another in his mind. He is just really "into" me just like it sounds like this guy is "into" you.

    I think the only way you could use him is if you actually would "play" him. There is this one girl at my club (she is very beautiful and extremely charming) who continually lies and cheats customers. She may get a VIP room for half an hour-full hour, dance for 10 minutes, then walk off to find new prey. Or she may agree to meet a guy at a hotel but say "I need 500 dollars right now and you can give me the other 500 at your hotel." And then of course never shows up. She makes a shark load of money but I never see her customers come back a second time for her. Or if I do see them come in a second time it's to complain to management how "****** stole their money." We all know girls like this and we all know that they are hurting the business for everyone else by scaring good customers away.

    If a man feels validated instead of victimized, and you lay down the ground rules a head of time, I see it as a win win situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    I'll repeat, I try not to take advantage of people or lead them to wrong conclusions just to get cash. After all, I still have to look at myself in the mirror and be able to deal with the person looking back at me.
    Sometimes, though, no matter what you tell some guys, they will lead themselves to the wrong conclusions. I had a customer that, despite the fact that I had the "this is all just for fun" conversation with several times, became totally obsessed with me. It turned out making me very uncomfortable, and he eventually quit coming in on his own (after close to a year and a half). Now I keep those types at arm's length.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    So this guy comes in last Wednesday and I did some dances for him. He was your average Joe, late '30s, balding, but kind of cute in the face and very harmless. He spent a decent amount so I remembered him right away when he came back to the club this Monday. While dancing for him the first time I asked him if he liked stockings and garter belts (I had gotten some new ones and was already planning to wear them later that night). Of course he said he liked that look and I told him that I would put it on, but that it would take a little effort. I went and changed and we did five or six more dances and he gave me $250.

    He didn't act really creepy, but he did keep saying that he had been thinking about me and couldn't sleep the night I danced for him, etc. After that conversation I decided I would have to keep it strictly professional with him, as in no SS. He just seemed like the kind of guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and probably gets taken advantage of pretty easily.

    Tonight I get to work and one of the day girls came up and handed me a gift bag and described who gave it to her and I knew it was him. In the bag was a big thank you card that looked like it came from a little kid, you know, cartoon characters and shit like that. There was also a handwritten letter from him that thanked me profusely and said that he couldn't believe someone would do such a nice thing for him (putting on the stockings???) and that he felt he owed me thanks.

    It went on to say how gorgeous I looked that night and how he dreamed about me and shit. It was funny, but also kinda sad and weird. He's definitely non-threatening, but it's been a long time since a custie developed an obssession with me. I hope that's not what is happening here. I guess the next time I see him I will just have to clear things up that what I do in the club is just business and not personal. This isn't someone I'd try to string along for money, although I know a lot of dancers would.

    Still, it was an interesting story and I thought y'all might like it, haha. The funny part is that he had this nice gift bag and all it had in it was a cheesy Hallmark card. I'm thinking, if this guy wants to impress me he needs to give me a better "gift" than a freaking card. I'm such an ingrate, lol.
    You're not an ingrate haha. As long as you don't lead him on then yeah take advantage of the money. Making a lonely guy feel special should make you feel good as long as he knows he's not gonna get any and as long as you both keep it professional things should be alright.
    Man oh man, what a trip it's been.

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