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    Default To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    I’m sure many of you have read the gruesome crime thread that I posted about my hometown. It was released today that the Mother and 11 year old daughter were followed home from the local supermarket earlier in the night in question. I know many of you deal with grabby guys and stalkerish behavior on a daily basis, and take the obvious precautions.

    This crime has truly shaken me quite a bit, and hits home being I have a 13 year old daughter, and a beautiful wife at home that I love very much. I am sure they are sick of my phone calls to home just to make sure everything’s ok, or just to say I love you.

    Please everyone just take an extra second or two to look over your shoulders and to make sure you are alone/ not being followed. And if you have not done so already today make sure you tell you loved one that you love them. Life if precious, and unpredictable, it only take a second to say the things you may never have the chance to say again.




    Thanks for reading this, and giving me a place to post it!
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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    The post is much appreciate BMI.

    Another thing that a lot of people don't get is that they assume that their area is "safe" so they completely let their guard down. There are psychopaths in all neighborhoods and there are plenty of sheep in wolves clothing.

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    I appreciate what you're saying, but there was nothing that could be done about this, I don't think. It sounds scary, but if someone wants to target you, they'll do it. It's damned impossible to watch for someeone following you ALL the time.

    The best you can do is take normal precautions.

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    How sweet of you I am very disturbed by this story also.

    Quote Originally Posted by BmiWMT14 View Post
    Please everyone just take an extra second or two to look over your shoulders and to make sure you are alone/ not being followed. And if you have not done so already today make sure you tell you loved one that you love them. Life if precious, and unpredictable, it only take a second to say the things you may never have the chance to say again.
    Yes yes yes! I am extremely paranoid (too paranoid) and very aware of my surroundings when I am out. I have been followed 3 x in the last few years which have had lasting affects on me.

    Never doubt your instincts.


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    You know what BmiWMT14 ? Thanks a lot for that (!). I persoanlly really appreciate this post by you .

    Just because we all "know" each other virtually, doesn't mean that we are not real people. And although we all at times and say,

    "Yeah, yeah, I'm always careful",

    it's always "that ONE time" that you weren't, or forgot / neglected to, which unfortunately is all it takes ...

    Thank you.


    Quote Originally Posted by BmiWMT14 View Post
    I know many of you deal with grabby guys and stalkerish behavior on a daily basis, and take the obvious precautions.
    "Stalkerish;" LoL -

    Truth !

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    Thank you for the post BMI. I've been followed/stalked before, and it's really fucking scary. You can never be too careful.

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    Yes I too have been stalked, fortunately I had a great friend who is a cop, and he totally set him straight. It's good to be reminded just how important it is to be aware of all your surroundings.
    Thanks BMI

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    Hope every one has a happy and safe weekend!
    You Cant Quit until you try, You cant live until you die, You Cant learn to tell the truth until you learn to lie.You Cant Breath Until you choke,You gotta Laugh When your the Joke, Theres Nothing like a funeral to make you feel alive! Will you swear on your life, that no one will cry at my Funeral!
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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    Thanks for this post BMI...I've been followed a few times before and almost ran off of the road. I've learned to be aware of my surroundings at all times, but it's good to be reminded to not let your guard down.

    so thank you again, made me rethink events that happened yesterday. Where I should have listened to my instincts but instead I tried to see the best in this person. But I have a bad feeling he's a stalker-type. Going to be more careful from now on..
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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    I appreciate what you're saying, but there was nothing that could be done about this, I don't think. It sounds scary, but if someone wants to target you, they'll do it. It's damned impossible to watch for someeone following you ALL the time.

    The best you can do is take normal precautions.
    And pack some heat and let everyone see it! Who's going to mess with someone when you know they have a gun????? Just my $.02!
    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    Thank you BMI.

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    Default Re: To all my friends here at SW.... please read! ( semi rant/ vent)

    I used to live in one of the worst, most gang-riddled neighborhoods in Houston. As the only blonde girl for miles and as a berrtub girl who had to wear fairly skimpy duds to work, I was targeted repeatedly by stalkers. Sometimes, guys would follow me by car for miles until I stopped somewhere and would ask through the window if I was a hooker. I'd treat them with a snotty, naieve attitude, and they'd get the point and go. I'd wait parked about ten minutes until finishing my ride home.
    The scarier situation is someone physically following you outside of the car, as you do not have metal protecting you and and engine giving you an option of quick getaway. If you act as confident as possible, grab your keys or something else good for bludgeoning, and actually stare right back into the creep's eyes with a "I want to kill you, you bastard." look, they quickly run away, never to be seen again.
    My suggestion is to always hold your keys by looping a key ring around your index, with a big key pointing out. Be prepared to eye gouge.
    I also used to carry a giant knife in the back of the car. Fortunately, I never had to use it, but I planned to hold it with both hands in order to keep them from getting it from me before I got in a few whacks. Always go for the face... people don't expect such violence from those they hope to hurt themselves.
    Hope for the best, and prepare for the worst. You can't always prevent being followed, but you can damn sure do something about it!

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