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    goldengrl69
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    Who's had a threesome???

    A female friend of mine and her husband (Ive met him a couple of times) want to have a threesome with me. Ive always had this as a fantasy, but now when confronted with it Im a little nervous. I had my first female experiance with A*** two weeks ago. (it just kinda happened??)

    Who here has any experiance or/and advice for me , cuz I need it .

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    Threesomes are awesome; I am a HUGE fan of group sex. However, when a married couple is involved, proceed with caution. Have they ever had a threesome before? Are they swingers? How secure is their marriage? Will she be able to handle it, sitting there watching his cock inside you, watching the pleasure in his face as he pleases you? A lot of couples are turned on by the idea but deeply wounded by the reality. Make sure everyone involved knows what they're getting into, make sure everyone knows where the boundaries are, and do your best to make sure you're only there for the sex. Don't come between them, and don't sleep with them afterward (I mean actual sleep).

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    I've done it. I was turned on by the idea, and deeply wounded by the reality. After it was over, my boyfriend held me while I cried and told me everything woudl be ok, and he was so sorry for uhrting me, he didn'tknow I woudl react that way. I didn't know I woudl react that way either.
    However, afterward, it turned me on even more. For weeks we fucked like bunnies.
    So we did it again. I cried, again, but not so bad. But again, afterward, my sex drive was through the roof.
    So we did it again, and that time, I enjoyed myself. I didn't cry after. I wasn't hurt.

    I wasn't jealous, I wasn't sure why I was crying and getting so upset. I think I had to get past the fact that OMG, my boyfriend's penis is inside her. OMG. He is actually fucking her. He shouldn't be doing that. Sex is a private, intimate thign only to be shared between 2 people. He is sharing our specialness. OMG. This is wrong.
    Once I got past thoes thoughts, and realized it was just fucking. No love, no emotion, just straight fucking for how good it feels. Everythign was ok. My boyfriend and I share love when we have sex, but with another girl, we fuck cause it feels good.

    SO that's my experience. It took time for me to be ok with it. I have a very understanding guy who was ready to hold me and tell me he loved me and e would never do that again if I didn't want to. Everytime we do it, it's MY idea. No pressure.

    Good luck! It can be a lot of fun. But it can be dangerous, and ruin relationships.

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    I have been in two threesomes, both when I was a teenager, and both times I was the "third wheel". It was a friend and her boyfriend. Both times the girl ended up jealous and the couple ended up fighting about it.

    So I'm wary now, but as long as the couple is secure and know their boundaries and trust one another, I think it's fine. It's just too risky a subject for me personally, but I do know others who have participated and were cool with it. So it depends on how you feel about it, and hopefully you all have a good enough relationship that you can talk openly about it.

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    I predict a lloooonnnnnggg thread coming...

    I kinda, sorta had a threesome. I messed around with a girl and a guy at the same time...but never went all the way with the guy...does that count? He didn't really turn me on that much so I stopped the whole thing to kinda spare his feelings. Yeah, he SUCKED!



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    I'd rather be the guest star than the one in the relationship.

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    Man. I would absolutely LOVE to have a threesome, but not with anyone I was seriously involved with. Not to mention I know a bazillion guys that would go for it, but I don't know any women that would be down for something like that. I only have a few, very close, female friends, and I don't go out and party and meet random people very often.

    Now that I think about it, I've been really keen on experiementing with females in general (not to mention having a threesome), but I don't know how to go about that.

    Sorry about the threadjack.

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    My friend says they've had a threesome before with his short term girlfriend when my friend first started dating him. My friend seems to be very secure in her relationship.

    Honest answers please, for those who have (Yek, mostly you) do you use protection, and if so to what extent? Feel free to pm me, with advice on this matter if to personal.

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    K and I have an agreement that we save bareback intercourse for each other. He can get oral from whoever he wants and that can be bareback, and I don't go down on other guys (I'm weird, I think blowjobs are more intimate than sex). But if his cock goes near anyone else's ass or pussy, there has to be a condom on it. Same if anyone else's cock goes near me (which hasn't happened to date, I'm picky). Bareback sex is an intimacy we reserve for the relationship.

    But everyone's boundaries are different.

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    I've been in both situations, doing it with my boyfriend and being the 'guest star'. Being the guest is much easier. Go in, have fun- let them please you since YOU are the center of attention and the one they sought out. Then gather up your things at the end and leave.

    Definitely use protection! Especially with the guy. With the female- honestly that is all up to how comfortable you feel going without it.

    I've used saran wrap ONCE. That was the only time I ever was with a woman and wished I was somewhere else. I don't know if dental dams are any different, maybe someone could tell you about that.
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    ^^^ Dental dams are even more annoying than Saran Wrap. I hear good things about the Glyde dam, but honestly, plastic barriers do ruin cunnilingus. If I REALLY want to go down on a girl, I just have to hope she's clean and safe, because the Saran Wrap lick is not pleasurable for either one of us.

    I went down on a girl with plastic wrap once and it reminded me of the movie Antz (yes, the animated feature starring Woody Allen). In one scene, the ants happen upon a human picnic. Woody Allen's character runs for the most wonderful, delicious-looking sandwich he's ever seen, dives his face into it, and is abruptly stopped by the invisible plastic barrier. He's completely bewildered and tries every facial position he can, but he keeps getting a mouthful of plastic and he simply cannot enjoy that delicious sandwich which is oh-so-tantalizingly-close.

    Yeah. THAT's what cunnilingus with Saran Wrap is like.

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    Thanks Yek and PV! I just got out of an almost 3 year relationship , so I enjoy being the "guest" with no strings attached.

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    I've been in them, both MMF and MFM. Two guys was way more work then I thought...not worth it for me. But threesome with another girl...that I'd do again in a heartbeat. Def make sure that the cpl is stable..even better if they've done this before. You dont want to be blamed for breakng them up(of course it wouldnt be your fault since they asked, but thats how these things go)

    My husband and I have an open relationship. As far as protection..we almost always use it when we are with anyone other than each other. i say almost because I do films, and most studios do not use condoms. But I and my co-stars are all full panel STD tested every 28 days. If you want to go bareback...insist all involved are currently tested.

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    I insist my bf wear a condom with other women. Pregnancy and STD's are not worth the risk.
    It's difficult during threesomes with condoms tho. Because for him to switch from her to me means a condom change. It would defeat the purpose if he used the same condom and went from her to me. S that can get in the way, but it's still worth it, to be protected.

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    ^^^ If K is schtupping her and he wants to take a turn on me, he just pulls the condom off and flies free with me. Then if he wants to go back in her, it only takes a second to put another condom on. If you don't use a condom with your man when you're alone, there's no reason to use one with him in a threesome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    I've used saran wrap ONCE. That was the only time I ever was with a woman and wished I was somewhere else.
    Man I'm so jealous! It must be nice to be really to be gay (ish) That's a really sweet thing to say,

    Pussy just isn't for me (not just pussy, girlies in general)...altho why have I had 2 full blown 3somes? Lol and they both told me I was the BEST EVER. "Other girls are just hot--you were steamy" w00t!

    Kaylinn, I understand why you cried, it makes me sad thinking about it, even tho they turned out to be good experiences in the end.

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    I've been with a couple and been in a few threesomes before too. With the couple he used condoms with intercourse with me and he went down on me and I went down on both of them freely. It was a fun experience to be the non-jerry springer drama guest. I would say go for it as long as they are pretty secure in the relationship and terms are discussed before hand like condoms etc.
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    I have. Love it for the most part.

    My man and i have been with a few other girls before. (FFM)

    I still haven't gotten a chance to do the MMF one though!
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    Ive been in a 3some one.
    It was with 2 asian hotties from Craigslist.
    =P Best $275 i ever spent.

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    I gave up threesomes when I turned 18
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    I gave up threesomes when I turned 18
    How cum?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Budai View Post
    How cum?

    I realized that I HATE sharing. HATE. Giant effin bucket of hate. I am a very one on one person, and am rabidly monogamous. I basically did threesomes for about a year and a half (I had only started sexxing with boys when I was 17) to make my then girlfriend happy. She loved the cahk.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    I realized that I HATE sharing. HATE. Giant effin bucket of hate. I am a very one on one person, and am rabidly monogamous. I basically did threesomes for about a year and a half (I had only started sexxing with boys when I was 17) to make my then girlfriend happy. She loved the cahk.
    Thanks for sharing, Paige...

    My personal experience (not plural, just once) with a threesome taught me that I'm not really selfish so much as I am ADD.

    I need to hyperfocus sexually on one person and pour (excuse the pun) myself into the time and space that I spend with them. Multiple twats on one cot means multi-tasking, and I don't believe in subdividing intense pleasure like that. It isn't so much about inadequacy as a sense of needing 2 dicks & 2 tongues to keep things even...

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    Threesome... only twice for me. Funny enough, I lost my virginity in a 3-way! (FMF) It was with a gal who had a total crush on me for about 4 years or so and her friend who was quite smitten with me that night she met me (yeah, I shagged her the first night I met her... talk about bold, eh?) Best time EVAR.

    Second time was with a gal out of the country and her friend (FMF). This one was a bit more odd, because the gal I originally came up there to see... during a week's worth of sex, she never got me off once. So she thought bringing her hotter friends would do the trick... (it did, much to our chagrin) -- anyway, it was good in theory, but then I realized it only did more damage to her ego.

    From my findings, 3somes are better for people who aren't seriously attached to either of the partners (or want to be attached to one of them in the future). THat applies to everyone. Some axle infallibly breaks, more oft than not if someone gets jealous about sharing before they even do it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    She loved the cahk.
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