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    Default My best frend is an extras girl!!!!!

    So it turns out that my best friend is an extras girl (and mean whippng the cock out extras). I did a double wth her tonight and she just unzipped his pants and whipped it out!!! I said (of course) that I was not ok with that and that if they didn't put it back I would leave (they did). We did three more at forty a piece but I feel dirty just associating with the idea.

    So should I talk to the management or her or both?

    I really like this girl but e-gads!!!



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    Let her bust herself! If you want to stay friends...
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    I can't believe she whipped it out right there during the double...LOL!



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    Default Re: My best frend is an extras girl!!!!!

    well, if she's really your friend, you will talk to her, not the mgr, first. tell her how you are not ok with it. tell her that she does NOT have to do that to make money and that her job is not to be a prostitute but to sell fantasy, if she wants to take money for that type of stuff, there's a good corner @... but i would also go to the manager ANONYMOUSLY and tell him about it.

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    Damn, ya'll are tough on your friends! I would never go to management, but certainly talk to her about it- tell her how you feel. If she still does it, don't do any more dances with her.
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    I wouldn't do any more dances with her if she keeps doing extras. It really kills your hustle when you're a clean dancer.

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    Eh, shit happens, people do what they do. Keep it between the two of you.



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    If I were you I wouldn't do anymore dances with her and at least tell her thats not cool in private. Overall, its best to not work around her because people and management might think you are doing them too.
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    If she's your best friend, you should be able to talk to her about it. I wouldn't tell management on my best friend, but I WOULD tell her not to do that if we're doing a double together. Ick.
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    I personally would not report her to management, but I would stop associating with her.

    Sooner or later, it will come out that she's giving extras. You don't want associated with that reputation.

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    I can't believe she whipped it out for fourty dollars!!! but, anyway, nobody likes a tattle tale- don't tell management on her. If she keeps it up, she'll get busted on her own. If you want it would be super nice of you to talk to her personally about it and try to get her to stop. Otherwise, definitely don't work with her - she'll only get you fired too if she gets caught for something!
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    I would talk to her about it as well. It seems crazy that she would whip it out for a 20 dollar profit. I would ask her why she thinks that is OK and if she is in a bad financial spot where she thinks this will get her ahead by becoming an extra. I would not let her degrade herself for merely a few 20's. I have nothing against prostitution but it should be done on her own time, not ITC, and she should be paid well for it. Friend or not, if she continues she should be fired.
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    ^^^^ Even worse, the dances at are club are thirty standard. It almost makes me wonder if she likes doing it. Girls here can make an extra ten letting guys grab thier boobs and that's not even against the rules.

    I'll talk to her, she kinda new to town (been here a couple of months) so maybe she just doesn't know?



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    Default Re: My best frend is an extras girl!!!!!

    im sure she knows thats not normal itc. id tell her to keeo it to otc or just not associate with her

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    Perhaps she comes from an extras club where that was the norm? It's possible she doesn't know. Anyway, i used to be friends with the dirtiest girl in the club and it was not worth it. Especially when she started targeting my customers and taking them home with her. Unfortunately having a talk with her didn't help since she thought it was funny and she wasn't all there mentally.

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    I have to wonder if she thinks that's normal. Or at least acceptable. Otherwise, you thnk she'd have SOME sense of discretion and wouldn't be so nonchalant (sp?) about doing it right in front of you. Is it possible, as someone suggested above, she came from a club where that kind of thing was standard and she thinks it's just expected in a Sc environment? Or maybe she's new to dancing and somehow got the notion that's what happens in a private dance?

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    Wow! I have had similar things happen with girls I was friendly with.. I was shocked when we went to do a "duo" and they'd get all dirty right in front of me. I'm always amazed at extras girls who have no shame about what they do or don't seem to fathom that other girls could tell on them..
    But I'm not gonna tell on her and I don't see a point, really, for you to tell on her! She'll get caught eventually but maybe just try not to do any more duos with her!
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    She's your best friend, so yes I really do think you should sit down and have a talk with her about it. I would also bring up the fact of how you two were still able to get more dances WITHOUT submitting to do extras.







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    It depends. Are extras common at your club? Do you want to remain friends? Can you forget what she was doing enough to remain close?

    If there are a lot of extras going on at the club, tattling will make management and all the girls dislike you and cause a very uncomfortable working environment. That is obviously bad, however if there arent many and you want to retain a clean club then go ahead, but realize she will likely know who told and the friendship will be over.

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    Ugh. That is why I don't really make friends in the club. There are a select few girls that I will work with because I know what their standards are. My two actual friends at the club I rarely work with. We have different hustling styles and just split up and do our own thing at work unless it's slow. We hang out after work or on days off.

    Fifi made a good point. Maybe she does think it's normal. Since she's your friend, you could probably get away with talking to her about where she learned to think that was normal or acceptable. Ultimately, though, you're not there to mother anyone or be anyone's life coach (not that you were intending to be so). You're there to make money. You might have to cut the ties and just make your money how you want to make it, and let her make her money how she wants to make it. Having friends in the club doesn't really mean you have to work alongside them if you don't want to.
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    A really good friend of mine was an extras girl. Alot of times their hustle or self esteem is weak and they see sex as the only way for them to make $$. I'm shocked that she'd pull someone's dick for $10 extra. Wow ! I'd keep it between the 2 of you and see how it goes. Talk her if you feel comfortable but, also be prepared to distance yourself if she doesn't respond the way you expect her to.

    I've been in your situation more times than I care to remember (I was fly paper for disfunctional women for a while) and believe me you can't save them all. Sometimes their issues go way beyond a simple club extra and they start becoming jealous of you for not "having" to do extras for your $$.
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    I am shocked how many of you are saying NOT to say something about it.

    I for one am fucking sick and tired of extra's girls, and I will be the first one to call them out about it, and I don't care.

    I have danced for TOO many years without having to suck, fuck, or anything like that; and I still have my grand+ nights, so it IS possible to dance, do it clean, and still bank.

    Although it is getting harder to make good money with extras out the wazoo, if I can bust one girl for hooking in my club, so be it; that is one less girl that can gt us shut down.

    I know it is harsh, but it is life. At the end of the day friendships with coworkers do NOT pay my bills, being a good clean fun dancer does.
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    Yeah, that's true..I think it's more of snitch/rat aspect for me. Plus I always felt like what they do doesn't bother me. However the more threads I see that talk about how my beloved Houston has completely turned into an extras hell hole, the more I think I need to reevaluate my "live & let live" point of view.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RC View Post
    It almost makes me wonder if she likes doing it.
    Yes, and that's difficult to accept, not just for clean dancers, but for quality customers as well.

    I've known dancers who were beautiful in every way. They could have banked just talking in VIP, but they did extras compulsively, and that scared away gentlemen with serious money.

    Explain to your friend that she doesn't have to do extras to make money. If she doesn't get it then, she never will.

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    Yes, and that's difficult to accept, not just for clean dancers, but for quality customers as well.

    I've known dancers who were beautiful in every way. They could have banked just talking in VIP, but they did extras compulsively, and that scared away gentlemen with serious money.

    Explain to your friend that she doesn't have to do extras to make money. If she doesn't get it then, she never will.
    It's refreshing to see a custy with that point of view.
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