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    Hey guys,

    I'm really lonely even if I'm with my bf. We don't see each other much but only when we sleep beause we need to pay our bills. I miss him and I'm loney when I'm with him what should I do??

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    maybe you could plan a day(in the future) for both of you to take off. The lan something both of you really like to do. This will give you something to look forward to, and help keep ur mind of of lonelyness.
    and if u just see him when you sleep do some serious cuddling.

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    Are you depressed? Hard to tell with the info given... but if i feel lonely with people that I love, I'm usually depressed.
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    I cannot stress the importance of mini vacations.

    My boyfriend and I take minivacations often. We try for once a month. Just 2 days away, maybe even nowhere special just to spend good time otgether and get away from the normalcy of our lives.

    These minivacations make the world of difference. For a good year, we weren't able to do it because of financial restraints, and our relationship did suffer. We fought a lot more, we were just short with each other.

    On Monday, we leave for 3 days for a minivacation on the Colorado River.

    Other than that, a date night once a week is important to. Even if it's just pizza and a movie at home, it's important.
    Another thign my boyfriend and I do is when we are able to go to bed at the same time( which we make a point of a least a few nights a week) we lay in bed together and cuddle and talk for a few minutes or maybe a few hours...
    Just to catch up on our lives.
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    Minivacations are necessary for the sanity of both partners. Even if it's just a day, it will help.

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    I feel you honey...I get like that alot...especially since I've started dancing, just because I can make my own schedual, so sometimes he'll make plans assuming I want to work...but then I get hurt and feel like he doesnt want to spend time with me (because he used to be super clingy and hated me working). I think the mini vacation thing is a really good idea...I'll have to talk to the boy about that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    Minivacations are necessary for the sanity of both partners. Even if it's just a day, it will help.
    I couldnt agree more with this statement.

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    i think my morning time is most important for me. I love waking up next to him and cuddling and holding each other and talking (sometimes sexin) , it starts my day out just right and i think about that morning loving time when i miss him throughout the day.



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    Default Re: I'm Lonley :(

    Thanx so much your guys!!! You guys had really azmazin' ideas!! i can't wait to talk to him now!!

    thanx again

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