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    now that we's in a family way....

    So, prior to us getting married and having a baby my (husband!!!, weird...) was fine with me dancing. Supportive, understanding, into it (....) even. I danced up untill I was almost 5mos. and he was OK with it then if I was. We got married at that point (lol we were engaged and wedding planned before I got knocked up! wink*) and along comes our beautiful boy almost 3 mos. ago. Bliss. So I am loving being home with him right now, finances are good but I am thinking ahead. I really think I want to go back to dancing. Love the job, the hours, the whole scene etc. However it seems now with all our dynamics changed he doesn't feel as right about his wife and mother of his child "grinding around in other men's laps." He is open and receptive to hear why I want to and is not forbiding it or anything like that. I feel very unsure about the right thing to do. He also makes the point about my daughter (8yo) being at the point where she is going to figure out what I do. Whole other thread there I suppose.... Has anyone else been in this situation? I should also mention I am a nurse as well and could go to work as one, which is what I was doing the rest of my pregnancy after quitting dancing... Am I just a selfish little attention loving stripper?!?! lol Seriously, is it selfish to want to go back considering his feelings? I have also been considering doing pro domme work and he does not have as much of a problem with this idea... Well any thoughts would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: now that we's in a family way....

    This is a difficult decision that only you can make. Would it be possible for you to go back to nursing and only dance every other weekend or so for some extra cash? I really don't know what to tell you, but I wish you luck and congrats on your son!

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    Default Re: now that we's in a family way....

    Thanks Jessica! Very true it is a tough desicion. It just burns when I know working nursing I am away from baby more, making less money....

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    Default Re: now that we's in a family way....

    Same with me. I have been at my "9 to 5" for ten years now, however I dance every other wek end. Whenever my husband gets "freaky" with it. I remind him it goes to our vacation fund.

    Our family vacations are worth it!

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