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    when there's a guy at the tiprail not tipping, when there are places in the club to sit if you aren't tipping, how do you handle this situation?

    i have been saying, "honey you cant sit at the stage and not tip. it's in poor form. you can sit right there (one row back) and not tip however."

    well, some guy on thurs told me that i was rude and i told him that it's a fact in any strip club. at which point he called me "ignant." to which i replied that "ignorant" has an r in it.

    but this cant keep happening, me arguing over tipping at the stage.. how do yall handle this?

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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    I don't dance for him. Most guys I'll do a little dance for them and they'll tip me. No tip? No dance. I ignore him. Though that works in my club. It might not for yours.

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    Yep I tell him that this is Pay Per View....not On Demand. Then I go as far away from him as possible and move so he cant see any of my goodies. I pay a LOT(more then necessary) of attention to ANY guy that tips me....seriously LAVISH attention on them just to make my point.

    If he continues to sit there and doesnt tip any of the girls....I'll have the bouncer bitch at him for it.

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    I lean over and with my nastiest hiss, tell him he needs to either tip the dancers or get the fuck off the stage. 95% of the time they either move or start tipping. There was only one time I can think of that he didn't budge, so the next time I went on stage he got his full beer in his lap.

    A couple times I paid a bouncer to give the message, and that worked too. But I prefer to just do it myself because that's free.
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    Woah... Chrissy... on stage??!! DAMN!!!

    I just ignore the guy if he doesnt tip... if he gets pissy I tell him hes the one being rude because hes sitting at THE TIP RAIL

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    Wow! I'm glad I work at a club where the guys actually have to walk up to the stage to tip the girls...otherwise I would be hissing at them to get the fuck away from the stage, too.



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    When I first go up I look and see which guys have money actually sitting in front of them. Then after I'm done with them I start on the ones who don't, it's usually not a problem, but every now and again you'll get that asshole who pulls some bullshit. I like to make their buddy pay, since the dance has already been done and I've actually touched the nasty motherfucker. Once I've touched a guy, I'm getting that tip by any means necessary, lol.
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    If they don't get the hint by me ignoring them and they continue to not tip other dancers I'll tell a bouncer and have them say something.

    The trickier one is when they only tip $1 for a two song set.
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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    To clarify, I'm talking about the guys who sit at the tiprail and REFUSE to tip, not the ones who just need a little nudging. Usually the ones who don't have any dollars out are just waiting on the girl to come over and ask for it, basically.

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    Depending on the day I'm having, and how busy my stage is, I either ignore them, or fuck with them. Sometimes I'll plop down in front of them and pretend to take a nap, or file my nails or just....stare. That's only if they're the only person at my stage, or if the club is slow, etc. Otherwise they normally end up making an ass out of themselves when they bitch about me not paying them any attention, and I can call them out on being a cheap fuck
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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    i ignore them if there are other customers at the tip rail who -are- tipping.

    if they're the only customer i'll go up (after a song or so goes by with no tip) and plop my ass right on the catwalk. then i'll hold my garter out and smile really big while making firm eye contact. i don't say anything yet. 90% of the time, that'll work.

    if they don't start to get any money out after say 5 seconds of me doing that, or they say something like "what? you want money?" i'll respond with "bitch, you have to pay to park here. do i need to have someone tow your ass away?" if they keep giving me shit i've actually started dancing and made up a little song about "putting it in reverse".

    that's my favorite line at the moment. when i get tired of it i'll think of something else.

    oh and ..sometimes if a group of us is sitting with guys and they aren't tipping.. after 10 minutes or so i'll be like (in a fun way) "UHHH OHHH it's time to put money in the parking meter!" then i'll gesture to all the girls garters, as well as my own.

    yeah.. i'm cheesey.. but come on. sometimes you have to entertain yourself

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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    ^^^^^That's a good one.
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    "UHHH OHHH it's time to put money in the parking meter!"

    Haha, I do that too. Or I'll say, "My garter is hungry, RAWR!!!"

    If they look at me blankly, I'll just say, "Seriously, feed it now or prepare to get rabies..."

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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    Oh, it annoys me so much when guys sit there taking up the rail with their non-tipping presence...meanwhile, there are guys that want to tip that can't get up front! Grr.

    I think it's a situation that has to be handled by management...I've worked at clubs where you were not allowed to sit in front row unless tipping. Maybe the manager will consider making that a rule (with a sign & stuff)?

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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    If you figure that going onstage is an advertisement for all the people in the club, making a big point of calling out a non-tipper is kind of a waste of time. Think of all the guys sitting in the chairs, at the bar, etc... who want to watch you. If all they're watching is you arguing with some dude who doesn't end up tipping you, I think it makes you look worse than if you just ignore it and do your thing.
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    If they haven't offered up the money willingly, I'll smile and hold out the side of my thong.
    When that don't work, and they just sit there with a dumb look on their faces, I'll tell them, Look. You aren't allowed to sit here without tipping.

    Then I'll go to a guy who IS tipping, give him this really awesome elaborate show, make a big show of scooping up the money, smile back at nontipper, and turn my back on him. I'll dance the rest of the set with my back to the nontipper.


    Once I climbed to the top of the pole and just sat up there. When you tip, I come down!

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    I just hold out my garter and if they still don't get the hint, I move on. When it's really busy and the tip rail is packed, I only go to the people with money in their hands.

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    After watching me for one whole set and not tipping (I was too busy paying attention the the guys that were to bother with him), I came back to the stage again, to just the non tipper, he watched and finally I kneeled down, held out my thong and said "Do you have a tip for me?" He shook his head no and I said "Well, youre sitting at the tip rail, if you don't want to tip girls, then don't sit there." He only gave me a dollar, but at least he got the point.


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    It sucks but it's really not worth my time and energy to get all upset about some dude sitting at the tip rail. What was I going to make off him anyway, a dollar? I just act like he isn't sitting there, don't talk to him, etc.

    Don't get me wrong, that's a rude asshole thing to do, stare at you naked and not even give you a fucking dollar..... but if I got pissed at every asshole in the club, I would be a crabby bitch 24-7 lol.
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    ^I agree, but sometimes it feels good to tell guys where to go stick it now and then. Especially when you're Oh-So-Right!

    I'll ignore a non tipper for them sot part, no eye contact, and keep to a different part of the stage. But if he sticks around I will usually say something along the lines of "most guys sit at the stage to get a good show AND tip, you're insulting all these girls. Start tipping or I'll tell the bouncer you called him a little bitch."

    And if that doesn't work I just tell the bouncer.




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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    It sucks but it's really not worth my time and energy to get all upset about some dude sitting at the tip rail. What was I going to make off him anyway, a dollar? I just act like he isn't sitting there, don't talk to him, etc.

    Don't get me wrong, that's a rude asshole thing to do, stare at you naked and not even give you a fucking dollar..... but if I got pissed at every asshole in the club, I would be a crabby bitch 24-7 lol.
    Well I AM a crabby bitch so I might as well!
    Seriously though...I NEED to say somethng to them...for my own sanity. Otheriwise it would eat away at me that I "allowed" someone to treat me that way.
    Thats just me though..I'm insane.

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    I agree with Cameron. I HAVE to say something, or I'll feel like crap. Most of the time, if no one says anything, he'll do it all night to all the other girls too. If there's a good crowd of people who are actually tipping though, I'll wait till the end of the set before saying something to him. By then the music has paused and everyone else at the rack will look at him, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    Once I climbed to the top of the pole and just sat up there. When you tip, I come down!
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    Default Re: sitting at stage not tipping..

    We don't have seats AT the stage, our main stage is in the center of the club, surrounded by tables and chairs. And our other stages are dispersed along the walls. So if a guy is standing at the stage and not tipping, he would most likely get ignored, and (depending on who is at the booth) get a word from the DJ. If the club is dead, and there's a couple of guys at a table close to the stage, but they're doing that bit where they act like there's NOT a naked lady in front of them, it's not unusual for the girl to simply stand at the pole with her hand on her hip. And this I find very entertaining. But there's no reason to work yourself to death if you're not getting paid. I bet the jerks enjoying the free show don't work for free..

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    Yeah Ive been through this as well./ Usually its the younger guys or the guys who sit at the rail wiht thier money buried deep in thier pockets, that take half the song to fish out one dollar. Heh

    Usually i say to them, if im holding out my garter and thy arent tipping, "Do you have a dollar for me"? usually they will say "OH, im broke" or "Oh youll have to do more than that for a dollar" I make it hard for them, after that point. I lean in closely and tell them this:"You have to have money to sit at the tip rail..Ill be sure to tell the other girls that youre broke" ive seen them get up off that stage so fast its not even funny. They get the point.

    Next time they tell me ill have to do more for a dollar, i cant wait to use that line.."Oh what is that your life savings? HAHA" thaats so funny. If i can get a laugh at HIS expense then im fine with that as well.

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