hey girls!
so we all know what a crap stripper i used to be and last night i absolutely shone! this is why i am getting better at this game and its paying off!
firstly, i had a wicked day with my girls, we went for a surf, then sat in our favourite cafe talking and laughing for three hours, then we came home and did lots of girly things like waxing and toenail painting and all that and carried on giggling and talking about boys and sex, so i was in an excellent mood when i got to work - always a good thing!
however at work, doing my make up, girls are moaning and bitching and talking about their shitty boyfriends and that can get to me, so i kept talking to myself and telling myself to ignore them, and focus on your goal - £300. stay positive, stay enthusiastic, keep smiling, dont let anything get you down, youre there to work, nothing else matters but the money. not problems with the club or management, not girls personal problems, not your personal problems. all that matter is the money.
i also have been taking time to appreciate my body. despite my imperfections, i am senstionally hot! i hav a rocki body, a fantastic smile, infectious sense of humour, sharp wit, devestating eyes, cute feet, strong arms and abs, and a beautiful dent in my lower back that guys die for! i keep mindful of these things! and i gave myself a huge grin before i went on the floor, to release the serotonin that smiling releases.
i had only one alcoholic drink last night and i think it helped too. i was able to keep my head on track and stay focused. i didnt let anyone waste my time, i didnt let anyones bad vibes get to me. i just smiled and kept on moving from the bitching girls. any guys who gave me attitude, i either turned it around into something positive or said, no worries mate, have a good night and went off to more money. i didnt let myself fret about anything! i kept smiling and smiling and smiling and dancing to the music as i walked around the club looking for new guys,=. i pinched buts and stuck my tongue out and introduced myself and laughed and joked and put everyone at ease. i kept going even tho i was really exhausted. i did 17 dances last night, and a lot of them for 1.5 songs.
i went for the least attractive guys in groups and paid all my attention to them and it worked and i made them feel like the most desirable guy on the planet while i danced for him. (altho i do that to all my guys!) i ignored all the impossibly good looking guys cos theyre usually knobs.
i didnt take anything personally. this guy said to me after i asked if he would like to come and play with me and he said, no, i dont like your tattoo (i hav a girl tattooed on my arm) and i laughed and said, it doesnt like you either, have a great night and toodled off to find a better guy!
i kept going! usually i flake out! im getting so good at knowing wen someone is trying to waste my time and i just politely end the conversation and go to someone who is willing to spend.
i approach with a smile and an enthusiasm and i put my arm around them and put m body against them and stroke their back or shoulder while we introduce ourselves and do the usual chat, where you from, why youre here and then i say, hey, would you like to come and hav some fun with me? sometimes they ask how much and i say, i get to rub my naked body all over you for just £20! and they say, ok, im up for that and i go YAY!!! with a clap and a smile and maybe even an excited jump, then i grab their hand and look back and smile and take them off to the dancing area.
laugh, smile, be enthusiastic, dont let anything get to you, dont waste your time talking, keep moving towards more money, stay positive, keep going.
i made my target £300 before commission last night and came home with £255 - on a sunday night. albeit, it was busy, but i am profoundly proud of myself!!!
i cant wait for work tonight!!! i want to make it to 20 dances tonight!![]()




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brilliant! and good for you...sounds like you found the persona that works for you!

-Henry Ford
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