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    Having a sucessful night dancing requires a lot of planning, before, during and after your shift.

    Before your shift
    1. Exercise.
    First of all, exercising before you go to work will put you in a good mood. You feel feel sexy and feel as if you have already acomplished something positive. Second of all, exercising will temporarily make your muscles appear to be toned, and of course, doing it daily will make them more toned. Stretching before you work is also very important. Dancing is a very physical job, and thoes muscles need to be loose and stretched before you use them.

    2a. Appearance.
    Maintance - Take a look at yourself. Do your eyebrows need attention? How's your tan( if that's your look) Do you need another coat of fake tanner? Is your fake tan even and not splotchy?
    Do you have visible roots? Are your teeth white? Check out your fingernails. Are they ragged? Paint chipping off? Don't forget the feet. They gotta be soft, and toenails in good shape. Every inch of your body is a potential selling point. You never know what customer is gonna like what part of you, so make sure every part is in good shape.
    2b. Appearance.
    Does your makeup compliment your face and outfit properly? Does your makeup convey a look of glamour and sexiness?
    How's your outfit? Clean smelling and wrinkle free? Does it compliment your body? Are your shoes in good condition?
    Is your hair fresh smelling, clean and styled nicely?

    3. State of mind.
    what is your state of mind before you walk out the door? Are you happy? Are you ready to deal with customers in a positive way? Do you have any baggage you need to drop off before you get to work? If so - drop it off. Do not leave the house with your baggage. Clear your mind, get your mood right.

    4. Goals
    Do you have a goal in mind? If not, make one. If you do, take a moment to sit down and look at your goal, and WHY it's your goal. It's important to keep in mind why you have that goal to stay focused on it, otherwise it may start to seem less important and you may stray from it.


    At work
    1. Double check your appearance. Still good?
    2. Double check your mood. Still in the right frame of mind to make money?
    3. Hit the floor! No bitching, no complaining, hit the floor. Got turned down 5 times in a row? Go recheck your mood, your might be getting discouraged now and it's starting to show through. If you've been at work for 8 hours and not sold 1 dance yet, you still need to act like you just hit the floor, having a perfect night. Customers can smell desperation and disappointment a mile away. Get rid of it, put it away, that won't help you now. Keep your mood in check at all times.
    4. Are you smiling? Do you look like your having a great time?
    5. Are you reaching your goal? Why or why not? If your not, take a second to figure out why. Is it just a slow night? Is there anything in your power you can do to fix the problem to reach your goal?
    Are you reaching your goal? Good. Give yourself a pat on the back.

    After work
    1. How was your night? Take a moment, sit down and evaluate your night. Did you reach your goal? Why or why not?
    What can you do tomorrow to reach it?
    Are you consistantly reaching your goals? Do you need to set higher ones?
    How was your hustle? What did you do wrong? What can you do to change it? What did you do right? What was your best and worst moment at work?



    It sounds like a lot of work, but it's not really. You can think of stuff on your drive to and from work, as you listen to music to get you pumped up.



    I have said it before that think a problem I had was overthinking the job instead of just doing it. But there is a fine line here, because I think that if you just float in on a breeze with no preplanning at all, you will crash and fail.

    I hope that at least some of this was helpful..although it's for me as well. I haven't worked in 2 months, and then just decided to start showing up again, with no planning at all, and I am not doing well. I needed to see my thoughts written down, and thought it might be helpful for others as well.

    Good luck!
    Last edited by Kaylinn; 07-31-2007 at 11:12 AM.

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    These are good reminders. Last night, a couple of us decided we needed to keep our chins up, after a really bad week. With a number of us in better moods, there was an improvement. Not fabulous, but better than I'd done all last week, including Saturday. I'm going to print this out and hang it on my computer!

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    Very good tips. Thank you Kaylinn!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I hope that at least some of this was helpful..although it's for me as well. I haven't worked in 2 months, and then just decided to start showing up again, with no planning at all, and I am not doing well. I needed to see my thoughts written down, and thought it might be helpful for others as well.
    Kaylinn, something I appreciate about you is your humility. It's an uncommon trait among so many people I meet these days, so I've noticed yours for a long time. You are honest-- candid, even-- about your strengths and weaknesses, and you regularly encourage others to learn from your mistakes and mirror your successes. This was a very good post and I will take it to heart... I hope you will too!

    Thank you.

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    wow thats a great post!!! A lot of things your mentioned in there, I try to always keep in my head as well!!!! you are spot on with everything you have mentioned!!!

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    I'm about to get back into dancing after a 2 year break. I used to have these things that you've mentioned down, but seem to have forgotten them. Thanks so much for the post.

    I'm going to print it out two copies: one for my bathroom mirror, and one for my locker.

    "All that we see is but a dream within a dream." -Edgar Allen Poe

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    Wow good tips. ( I also have not worked in a very, very long time) I should print this out and put it in my purse.
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    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    i'm gonna print that out too.

    thankyou for posting that. it's so easy to forget to think of the important things like that. what an excellent reminder!

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    K, I want to print this out a bunch and spread them out on the locker room counter. Would you mind?

    If more than a few girls at any given club would live by these rules, that club would be so great! Thnx K! Great post.




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    Ohh...Print it out and put them in the DR?

    That's as close to published as I'll ever get, lol.

    I'd be honored.

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    Cool that should really help!I am very new,I have only danced 3 nights now and I keep leaving early cuz I can't get any dances,but I have managed to get 2 so far,yeah I'm sad.
    I think it's the other way around for many: Women are dicks and Men are pussies!

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    that's awesome... simple stuff that we all forget from time to time.

    this on has been copied and pasted ino my word file of 'stuff to help me at work'!

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    Quote Originally Posted by minemind View Post
    ...my word file of 'stuff to help me at work'!
    hehe, I thought I was the only one who did that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    hehe, I thought I was the only one who did that.
    every girl should have one!

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    Yeah that's funny I thought I was the only one who did that.I felt like such a nerd but now I am happy to find out that others do it too.Later you can go back and take a look at what worked and what didn't!
    Last edited by playboy19; 08-11-2007 at 01:51 PM. Reason: Tired, can't make sense lol
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    Very true. I especially agree with exercising before work. I love going for a run before work. It invigorates, energizes, and relaxes me and I have more confidence knowing that I worked out that day.
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    Yes thanks Kaylinn!! I've already written it down in my "Stripping Guidelines" book!! haha,

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    Hell yeah! Great post : ).

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    This helped me so much tonight. Mood checking is key for me, otherwise with the slowness we've been having and my current not so great VIP hustle, I descend into the vortex of self doubt and lack of confidence. When I got mopey-mood check!

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    Great post, K!



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    It's funny with the mood checking thing, when I was at the sc my first night, I started getting down after like, my 13th No. But, then I went, calmed down, looked at myself, and got a dance, I was SO built up after that I made my goal in about 30 minutes of dancing after that! The guys can totally see through your eyes and into your mood, keep it light!

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    That's a great check list. Thanks for taking the time to write it:-)
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    These are all great reminders, if only they worked at my club were the x-tra girls run rampant

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    Thanks a mil hun!
    "Emancipate Yourselves From Mental Slavery; None but Ourselves Can Free Our Minds." ~Bob Marley

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    This post was very helpful! I read it last night before my return to work and found the assuming the sale technique the best!!! Thanks!
    "Whether YOU think you can or YOU think you can't you're right!" -Henry Ford

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